The new book from the multi-million-copy bestselling author of The Art of Thinking Clearly
Have you
Got stuck in your career?
Said 'yes, sure' when you should have said 'sorry, no'?
Tried to change someone?
Listened to your inner voice?
These are all examples of habits, decisions and behaviours that will derail your efforts to build a life of success - of better decisions, career and relationships; of happier and healthier living.
In his new international bestseller, Rolf Dobelli reveals 52 of life's biggest mistakes, and shows why the key to living well is so much simpler than you might think. Just understand what the pitfalls are... then avoid them.
Rolf Dobelli is a Swiss author and businessman. He began his writing career as a novelist in 2002, but he is best known internationally for his bestselling non-fiction The Art of Thinking Clearly (2011, English 2013), for which The Times has called him "the self-help guru the Germans love".
If you've ever found yourself making the same life mistakes over and over, Dobelli's "The Not To Do List", instead of telling you what to do (like most self-help books), this one flips the script and focuses on 52 things you should avoid.
The book's central philosophy borrows from Charlie Munger's wisdom: "All I want to know is where I'm going to die, so that I'll never go there." Each short chapter identifies a common pitfall, explains why it's problematic, and then offers "the quiet voice of reason" - practical advice for steering clear.
For newcomers to self-help literature, this is an accessible, quick read with straightforward language and a unique negative-to-positive approach that makes lessons stick. Experienced readers will find majority of chapters familiar territory, despite that they will find it as a good read.
Overall, it's a good addition to your reading list if you're looking for practical life advice presented in a novel way - just don't expect mind-blowing revelations if you're already well-versed in self-improvement literature.
Some good parts, some less good parts. I feel like the author tries to gloss over a lot of complex topics, providing oversimplified solutions (and for some chapters I just flat out disagree with him).
Patronising. Mentions warren buffet so many times. Not practical. An example, don’t kill yourself, take anti depressants. Such a general view and out of touch