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“Some people can’t be in your life because they don’t have the power to help you improve it. That doesn’t mean you don’t wish them well, it just means that you are on Chapter ten of your life, when they are on Chapter five. Maybe, it is just enough to meet at the crossroads in life and agree to take separate paths, then with a cheshire grin you both look back and shout, “Beat you to the top of the mountainâ€�, followed by the funnest sprint of both of your lives.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them from your mind. Don’t think about their looks, the intimate moments or their personality. Now, think about how they made you feel, how they improved your life and what virtues they possess that push you to want to become better. Did they bring you closer to God? Did they bring you to your life mission? Did they ever lie to you, betray you or made it impossible for you to feel comfortable speaking your mind? When you remove all the shine from a diamond, it becomes a glass rock. What value is it then? See beneath the surface and you will know who your future is with.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“The best don’t stick around when you treat them poorly, only the desperate do.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Every person with ADHD already knows that destination addiction is part of their disorder. However, if it doesn’t have a positive outlet, it can destroy your life. It is not another person that will make your life better; it is the qualities in them that you admire. Incorporate those attributes into your own life and you won’t miss a thing.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Words matter, but what matters more than words is forgiveness and compassion.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“There is beauty all around us,
and the light finds us when we realize,
we are all part of that beauty and worth the cherishing.
If we despise any, we journey to despise ourselves.
See all as beautiful, even if they choose to see themselves through you, as being less than so.
We have the power to see for each, and be the reflection of what they may yet see.”
― Tom Althouse

“When you forgive those that hurt you, they no longer have control over your future happiness. Their anger keeps them a prisoner to your past, while you enjoy the present.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Is it a weakness not being able to hate? Or is it preparation for what is inevitable, the ability only to love.”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“I took a breath and let it go
and suddenly the air was crisper
and my lungs lighter
and suddenly
there was him
saying my name
in different ways
and I catch myself throwing glances in the mirror,
seeing someone I don’t know
quite yet
but I can’t wait to,
and that is the start of everything.”
― Charlotte Eriksson

“To win or lose often depends on set parameters. Expand the bounds of what is possible, and you may come out the true winner, outside the confines of its defining.”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“It is a strange thing that the human species can only go three days without water and three weeks without food, before the body dies. Yet, so many people can go years hanging onto pain and feeling emotionally dead inside. I suppose if it was the other way around more people would go to school to be morticians because of the booming business, or pastors would have to hand out Valium with the sacrament, just to keep the census high.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“God’s warriors don’t avoid conflict. They fight through it with communication and a positive outlook.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Time is an illusion, only the keepers of the illusion are real, and the reality they have spun, keeps us, until we set upon the path of the dream.”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“Let go and go beyond living the dream, by dreaming the reality, into a reality beyond the dream.”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“Just because someone has been in your life for many years, doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be a point at which you finally decide to let go.”
― Wilfred James Dolor

“Sure all life's highways at some point must end,
so I plan to ride it in style and plummet in a swan dive
when the pavement runs out...
And hopefully leave behind artistically
that which may make other roads
an even better ride...”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“How do you let go of anger? How do you release a fury you’ve been standing on for so long, you would stumble were it yanked away?”
― Mitch Albom, The First Phone Call from Heaven

“Kiss me again. Let me imagine for a moment that you belong to me. The memory will keep me company in my solitude.”
― Kirsten Miller, All You Desire

“Sometimes there are things in our lives that aren’t meant to stay. Sometimes the changes we don’t want are the changes we need to grow." - W.J. Dlor”
― Wilfred James Dolor

“I looked at all the people, feeling sorry for them. They were still subordinate to clock and calendar. Absolved of that, I stood becalmed.”
― Richard Matheson, Somewhere In Time

“Sometimes you have to let things go. Sometimes you have to stop caring for a minute.”
― Trina Etmanskie, The Maid Games: Betrayed

“Sometimes we scratch, claw and climb so hard to conquer a mountain that, once achieved, we cling to its summit much too long and it ultimately instigates our fall. As we dangle by our fingertips we grasp and claw at what’s no more; with a fear of falling into the dim unknown. But, ironically, it’s in that very moment that we are empowered to choose. We can stay cliff hanging in our darkened fears clinging to a time that has past us by or we can faithfully and freely fall into the hands of a new destiny. Sometimes, persevering...is simply having the courage to let go. ~Jason Versey”
― Jason Versey, A Walk with Prudence

“Letting go is easy.
All you do is realize how crazy it is to live in the fantasy land of your mind at the expense of missing real opportunities in reality.”
― Akemi G, Why We Are Born: Remembering Our Purpose through the Akashic Records

“The moment after being let go, when we can finally let it go, is the moment when love once again has hope.”
― Brian MacLearn

“More and more obstacles seem to be other people's issues that form in the way of a hand to block one, to take notice of them? Sometimes noticing ahead of time, and taking the time to notice them, makes the hand part of an arm that embraces you. The obstacles become bridges for both to cross over, even if in opposite directions.”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“My goal is not to upset the apple cart, but to make it more accessible.”
― Tom Althouse, The Frowny Face Cow

“Letting go of "stuff" allowed the world to collapse behind me as I moved, so I became nothing more or less than who I simply was: Me.”
― Dee Williams

“I had no idea that "letting go" would be so complicated; that it would sometimes feel liberating and other times more sorrowful and lonely. In the long run, most of it was like standing on the shore, watching your family set sail for America, and they're smiling and waving good-bye, and getting smaller and smaller, but you are still the same size with no one to talk to.”
― Dee Williams

“he had kidded with us that if we didn't let go at the proper moment, he would slap our hands with a stick, and we had all laughed because who would be silly enough to hang on when they should let go?”
― Dee Williams