Mpho's bookshelf: all en-US Thu, 05 Aug 2021 02:33:17 -0700 60 Mpho's bookshelf: all 144 41 /images/layout/goodreads_logo_144.jpg Zikora 55612579 The emotional storms weathered by a mother and daughter yield a profound new understanding in a moving short story by the bestselling, award-winning author of Americanah and We Should All Be Feminists

When Zikora, a DC lawyer from Nigeria, tells her equally high-powered lover that she's pregnant, he abandons her. But it's Zikora's demanding, self-possessed mother, in town for the birth, who makes Zikora feel like a lonely little girl all over again. Shunned by the speed with which her ideal life fell apart, Zikora turns to reflecting on her mother's painful past and struggle for dignity. Preparing for motherhood, Zikora begins to see more clearly what her own mother wants for her, for her new baby, and for herself.

©2020 Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (P)2020 Brilliance Publishing, Inc, all rights reserved.]]>
39 Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Mpho 0 to-read 4.27 2020 Zikora
author: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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Freshwater 35412372 Freshwater explores the surreal experience of having a fractured self. It centers around a young Nigerian woman, Ada, who develops separate selves within her as a result of being born "with one foot on the other side." Unsettling, heartwrenching, dark, and powerful, Freshwater is a sharp evocation of a rare way of experiencing the world, one that illuminates how we all construct our identities.

Ada begins her life in the south of Nigeria as a troubled baby and a source of deep concern to her family. Her parents, Saul and Saachi, successfully prayed her into existence, but as she grows into a volatile and splintered child, it becomes clear that something went terribly awry. When Ada comes of age and moves to America for college, the group of selves within her grows in power and agency. A traumatic assault leads to a crystallization of her alternate selves: Asụghara and Saint Vincent. As Ada fades into the background of her own mind and these selves--now protective, now hedonistic--move into control, Ada's life spirals in a dark and dangerous direction.

Narrated by the various selves within Ada and based in the author's realities, Freshwater dazzles with ferocious energy and serpentine grace, heralding the arrival of a fierce new literary voice.]]>
229 Akwaeke Emezi 0802127355 Mpho 0 to-read 4.03 2018 Freshwater
author: Akwaeke Emezi
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average rating: 4.03
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Jwara! Induna's Daughter 56604735 448 Joyce Piliso-Seroke 0624091546 Mpho 0 to-read 5.00 Jwara! Induna's Daughter
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Women Talking 40046077
While the men of the colony are off in the city, attempting to raise enough money to bail out the rapists and bring them home, these women—all illiterate, without any knowledge of the world outside their community and unable even to speak the language of the country they live in—have very little time to make a choice: Should they stay in the only world they’ve ever known or should they dare to escape?

Based on real events and told through the “minutes� of the women’s all-female symposium, Toews’s masterful novel uses wry, politically engaged humor to relate this tale of women claiming their own power to decide.]]>
216 Miriam Toews 1635572584 Mpho 0 3.61 2018 Women Talking
author: Miriam Toews
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.61
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House of Stone 45894056 House of Stone is a masterful debut that explores the creative - and often destructive - act of history-making.

In the chronic turmoil of modern Zimbabwe, Abednego and Agnes Mlambo's teenage son, Bukhosi, has gone missing, and the Mlambos fear the worst. Their enigmatic lodger, Zamani, seems to be their last, best hope for finding him. Since Bukhosi's disappearance, Zamani has been preternaturally helpful: hanging missing posters in downtown Bulawayo, handing out fliers to passersby, and joining in family prayer vigils with the flamboyant Reverend Pastor from Agnes's Blessed Anointings church. It's almost like Zamani is part of the family....

But almost isn't nearly enough for Zamani. He ingratiates himself with Agnes and feeds alcoholic Abednego's addiction, desperate to extract their life stories and steep himself in borrowed family history, as keenly aware as any colonialist or power-mad despot that the one who controls the narrative inherits the future. As Abednego wrestles with the ghosts of his past and Agnes seeks solace in a deep-rooted love, their histories converge and each must confront the past to find their place in a new Zimbabwe.

Pulsing with wit, seduction, and dark humor, House of Stone is a sweeping epic that spans the fall of Rhodesia through Zimbabwe's turbulent beginnings, exploring the persistence of the oppressed in a young nation seeking an identity, but built on forgetting.]]>
384 Novuyo Rosa Tshuma 0393357686 Mpho 0 currently-reading 3.76 2018 House of Stone
author: Novuyo Rosa Tshuma
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average rating: 3.76
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<![CDATA[Love in Colour: Mythical Tales from Around the World, Retold]]> 51102251
A young businesswoman attempts a great leap in her company, and an even greater one in her love life.

A powerful Ghanaian spokeswoman is forced to decide whether she should uphold her family’s politics or be true to her heart.

In her debut collection, internationally acclaimed writer Bolu Babalola retells the most beautiful love stories from history and mythology with incredible new detail and vivacity. Focusing on the magical folktales of West Africa, Babalola also reimagines Greek myths, ancient legends from the Middle East, and stories from long-erased places.

With an eye towards decolonizing tropes inherent in our favorite tales of love, Babalola has created captivating stories that traverse across perspectives, continents, and genres.]]>
304 Bolu Babalola 1472268865 Mpho 0 to-read 3.93 2020 Love in Colour: Mythical Tales from Around the World, Retold
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Heads of the Colored People 35297351
A stunning new talent in literary fiction, Nafissa Thompson-Spires grapples with black identity and the contemporary middle class in these compelling, boundary-pushing vignettes.

Each captivating story plunges headfirst into the lives of new, utterly original characters. Some are darkly humorous—from two mothers exchanging snide remarks through notes in their kids� backpacks, to the young girl contemplating how best to notify her Facebook friends of her impending suicide—while others are devastatingly poignant—a new mother and funeral singer who is driven to madness with grief for the young black boys who have fallen victim to gun violence, or the teen who struggles between her upper middle class upbringing and her desire to fully connect with black culture.

Thompson-Spires fearlessly shines a light on the simmering tensions and precariousness of black citizenship. Her stories are exquisitely rendered, satirical, and captivating in turn, engaging in the ongoing conversations about race and identity politics, as well as the vulnerability of the black body. Boldly resisting categorization and easy answers, Nafissa Thompson-Spires is an original and necessary voice in contemporary fiction.]]>
224 Nafissa Thompson-Spires 1501167995 Mpho 0 to-read 4.13 2018 Heads of the Colored People
author: Nafissa Thompson-Spires
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average rating: 4.13
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Those who live in cages 55778430 Those Who Live in Cages captures an astonishingly intimate view of life in Eldorado Park, a coloured township south of Johannesburg, through five women - Bertha, Kaylynn, Laverne, Janice and Raquel.

These unforgettable characters' lives intersect as they attempt to do the most important thing: survive another day in "The Park"]]>
190 Terry-Ann Adams 1431430145 Mpho 0 to-read 4.18 Those who live in cages
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<![CDATA[White Tears/Brown Scars: How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color]]> 53260224 This explosive book of history and cultural criticism argues that white feminism has been a weapon of white supremacy and patriarchy deployed against Black and Indigenous women and all colonized women. It offers a long-overdue validation of the experiences of women of color. Taking us from the slave era—when white women fought in court to keep "ownership" of their slaves—through the centuries of colonialism—when they offered a soft face for brutal tactics—to the modern workplace, White Tears/Brown Scars

Examining subjects as varied as The Hunger Games, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, the viral BBQ Becky video, and nineteenth-century lynchings of Mexicans in the American Southwest, Ruby Hamad builds a powerful argument about the entrenched systems of white supremacy that we are socialized within, a reality that we must apprehend in order to fight.]]>
284 Ruby Hamad 194822674X Mpho 0 to-read 4.56 2020 White Tears/Brown Scars: How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color
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<![CDATA[These are the things that sit with us]]> 50089354
‘Ons het gehuil en gelag, maar ten diepste was ons hartseer.�

‘They shot him in broad daylight, there was no warning.�

‘Olu loyiko, oku kuzithoba isidima yayiyinto endiphazamisayo.�



The book makes an important contribution to current debates on decolonizing the way knowledge is produced. Its most unique feature is that each story has been published in isiXhosa, Afrikaans and English, the languages used by the storytellers. Presenting the stories alongside photographs carefully chosen by the storytellers and sensitively taken by two photographers, Noncedo Gxekwa and Botswele Mogotlane, the book aims to show agency, dignity, and humanity behind the stories of suffering. In publishing these stories, the authors hope that the book will stimulate conversations among South Africans across languages, and enable South Africans to connect with one another in a manner that seeks mutual understanding about the complicated aspects of our shared history and the continuing impact of this history on the lives of individuals and communities.

The book is based on a research collaboration between Stellenbosch University and the Institute for Justice and Reconciliation, which was funded mainly by the Andrew W. Mellon Foundation and the National Institute for Humanities and Social Sciences.� - IJR]]>
142 Pumla Gobodo-Madikizela Mpho 0 to-read 0.0 These are the things that sit with us
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Paradise in Gaza 55780708 But when Giyani disappears, Mpisi stays to search for him. He tries to ignore the villagers who blame magic for the boy’s disappearance. Meanwhile Mpisi’s city wife, Ntombazi, bears a boy with a birthmark that seems to be a sign . . .]]> 298 Niq Mhlongo 0795709722 Mpho 0 currently-reading 3.97 Paradise in Gaza
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Joburg Noir 55818922
Their lasting resonance lies in the fact that they invoke the joys and traumas of the past and present, making the two to co-exist and interlock. After reading this uncompromising and gritty anthology, the reader is bound to feel like a time-traveller who has voyaged into a magical alternate city and a reality that was either misnamed or not named at all. The intention is to help the readers to delve into their own memories in search of pictures of their sweet childhood and fractured identities.]]>
209 Niq Mhlongo 1431430242 Mpho 0 to-read 3.88 Joburg Noir
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Critical But, Stable 55945547 A thrilling story of wealth, power and the true cost of ‘having it all�. Because sometimes the price of the perfect life…is death.

In cosmopolitan Johannesburg, three high-flying couples form the core of the elite Khula Society: part investment group, part social club, with meetings where the champagne flows, the dresses are designer and the one-upmanship is off the scale. Noma, Moshidi, Lerato and their husbands are living the dream—or so it appears from the outside.

In reality, the cut and thrust of ‘keeping up with the Khulas� is taking its toll on all three couples. Behind the facade of their ocean-front mansions, Italian supercars and lavishly catered receptions lies a tangle of explosive secrets—and deadly consequences. But as long as every member toes the line, plays the role they’re here to play, the dark truth remains crushed beneath the heels of so many Louboutins�

That is until, in her bid to have it all and more, one of these rich and powerful women oversteps the mark—with someone else’s man. The group soon comes to learn that you can’t have it all without paying the ultimate price…]]>
Angela Makholwa Mpho 0 to-read 3.80 2022 Critical But, Stable
author: Angela Makholwa
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average rating: 3.80
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HEART OF THE RACE 5917282 256 Beverley Bryan 0860683613 Mpho 4 4.53 1985 HEART OF THE RACE
author: Beverley Bryan
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average rating: 4.53
book published: 1985
rating: 4
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<![CDATA[A Kick in the Belly: Women, Slavery and Resistance]]> 55270118
Aside from Mary Prince, enslaved West Indian women had few opportunities to record their stories for posterity. Yet from their dusty footprints and the umpteen small clues they left for us to unravel, there’s no question that they earned their place in history. Pick any Caribbean island and you’ll find race, skin colour and rank interacting with gender in a unique and often volatile way. Moreover, the evidence points to a distinctly female role in the development of a culture of slave resistance—a role that was not just central, but downright dynamic.

From the coffle-line to the Great House, enslaved women found ways of fighting back that beggar belief. Whether responding to the horrendous conditions of plantation life, the sadistic vagaries of their captors or the “peculiar burdens of their sex,� their collective sanity relied on a highly subversive adaptation of the values and cultures they smuggled with them naked from different parts of Africa. By sustaining or adapting remembered cultural practices, they ensured that the lives of chattel slaves retained both meaning and purpose. This sense of self gave rise to a sense of agency and over time, both their subtle acts of insubordination and their conscious acts of rebellion came to undermine the very fabric and survival of West Indian slavery.]]>
209 Stella Dadzie 1788738845 Mpho 0 to-read 4.35 2020 A Kick in the Belly: Women, Slavery and Resistance
author: Stella Dadzie
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average rating: 4.35
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The Book of ProVerb 55713332 197 Tebogo Thekisho 1776094883 Mpho 0 currently-reading 3.73 The Book of ProVerb
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<![CDATA[God's Lwas, Mysteries and Orishas]]> 37714158 121 Oxala Aye Mpho 0 to-read 4.08 God's Lwas, Mysteries and Orishas
author: Oxala Aye
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The Quiet Violence of Dreams 545316
The Quiet Violence of Dreams is set in Cape Town's cosmopolitan neighbourhoods - Observatory, Mowbray and Sea Point - where subcultures thrive and alternative lifestyles are tolerated. The plot revolves around Tshepo, a student at Rhodes, who gets confined to a Cape Town mental institution after an episode of 'cannabis-induced psychosis'. He escapes but is returned to the hospital and completes his rehabilitation, earns his release - and promptly terminates his studies. He now works as a waiter and shares an apartment with a newly released prisoner. The relationship with his flatmate deteriorates and Tshepo loses his job at the Waterfront. Desperate for an income, he finds work at a male massage parlour, using the pseudonym Angelo.

The novel explores Tshepo-Angelo's coming to consciousness of his sexuality, sexual orientation, and place in the world. lifestyle and set of experiences are explored - that of a young black woman who gets involved with a disabled German student who does not want to commit to marriage, despite Mmabatho's unplanned pregnancy.]]>
460 K. Sello Duiker 0795701209 Mpho 0 to-read 4.35 2002 The Quiet Violence of Dreams
author: K. Sello Duiker
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average rating: 4.35
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Kintu 23286828
In 1750, Kintu Kidda unleashes a curse that will plague his family for generations. In this ambitious tale of a clan and of a nation, Makumbi weaves together the stories of Kintu’s descendants as they seek to break from the burden of their shared past and reconcile the inheritance of tradition and the modern world that is their future.]]>
442 Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi 9966159894 Mpho 0 to-read 4.12 2014 Kintu
author: Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi
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average rating: 4.12
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The Joys of Motherhood 210722 224 Buchi Emecheta 043590972X Mpho 5
The triggers in this novel?? Firstly, the title is bitterly ironic and the book contains experiences that are chilling, tender and horrifying. A few pages in and i was already upset, I knew i was in for a ride when I dropped a tear.

Somehow this novel reminded me of Ayobami Adebayo's debut novel "Stay with me"

The novel highlights how patriarchal the African society is, where women are reduced to their ability to bear children, the male child is more valuable than the female. Daughters are seen as a ticket to wealth by their family, where women are not worthy of education and are objectified and ultimately belong to men by right of inheritance.

"What greater honour is there for a woman than to be a mother� _Buchi Emecheta

The struggles of its female protagonist, Nnu Ego, are really the struggles of all women; to find meaningful self-fullfilling roles in their societies, a struggle that continues to this day. Emecheta documents her critique of patriarchy and how it smothers and oppresses women. In this novel, Nnu’s initial inability to conceive (which is never seen as the husband’s fault) has detrimental effects.

"The joy of being a mother was the joy of giving all to your children" _Buchi Emecheta]]>
4.15 1979 The Joys of Motherhood
author: Buchi Emecheta
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.15
book published: 1979
rating: 5
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"God when will you create a woman who is fulfilled in herself, a full human being, not anybody's appendage? After all i was born alone, and i shall die alone ". _Buchi Emecheta

The triggers in this novel?? Firstly, the title is bitterly ironic and the book contains experiences that are chilling, tender and horrifying. A few pages in and i was already upset, I knew i was in for a ride when I dropped a tear.

Somehow this novel reminded me of Ayobami Adebayo's debut novel "Stay with me"

The novel highlights how patriarchal the African society is, where women are reduced to their ability to bear children, the male child is more valuable than the female. Daughters are seen as a ticket to wealth by their family, where women are not worthy of education and are objectified and ultimately belong to men by right of inheritance.

"What greater honour is there for a woman than to be a mother� _Buchi Emecheta

The struggles of its female protagonist, Nnu Ego, are really the struggles of all women; to find meaningful self-fullfilling roles in their societies, a struggle that continues to this day. Emecheta documents her critique of patriarchy and how it smothers and oppresses women. In this novel, Nnu’s initial inability to conceive (which is never seen as the husband’s fault) has detrimental effects.

"The joy of being a mother was the joy of giving all to your children" _Buchi Emecheta
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<![CDATA[Hood Feminism: Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot]]> 36687229 267 Mikki Kendall Mpho 0 to-read 4.37 2020 Hood Feminism: Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot
author: Mikki Kendall
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average rating: 4.37
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That Reminds Me 50978929
K is sent into care before a year marks his birth. He grows up in fields and woods, and he is happy, he thinks. When K is eleven, the city reclaims him. He returns to an unknown mother and a part-time father, trading the fields for flats and a community that is alien to him. Slowly, he finds friends. Eventually, he finds love. He learns how to navigate the city. But as he grows, he begins to realise that he needs more than the city can provide. He is a man made of pieces. Pieces that are slowly breaking apart.

That Reminds Me is the story of one young man, from birth to adulthood, told in fragments of memory. It explores questions of identity, belonging, addiction, sexuality, violence, family and religion. It is a deeply moving and completely original work of literature from one of the brightest British writers of today.]]>
128 Derek Owusu 152911859X Mpho 4
This was such a raw and beautifully written prose novel, it details woes of mental illness and talks about love, loss, self - harm and institutionalization and the stigma surrounding mental illness, it is told in fragments that explore questions of identity, belonging, addiction, sexuality, violence, family and religion.

"There were days when I'd fall asleep on my arm and wake up to see my wrist covered with the marks of a desperate escape, and I'd feel nauseous, struggling to understand my want of an exit.� ]]>
3.83 2019 That Reminds Me
author: Derek Owusu
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average rating: 3.83
book published: 2019
rating: 4
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"I once watched her wrinkled stomach as she got dressed, examining the incision marking my first steps into fading light, my mother mutilated to guarantee my entrance"

This was such a raw and beautifully written prose novel, it details woes of mental illness and talks about love, loss, self - harm and institutionalization and the stigma surrounding mental illness, it is told in fragments that explore questions of identity, belonging, addiction, sexuality, violence, family and religion.

"There were days when I'd fall asleep on my arm and wake up to see my wrist covered with the marks of a desperate escape, and I'd feel nauseous, struggling to understand my want of an exit.�
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Essays In Love 52254343 212 Alain de Botton Mpho 4
The novel illuminates emotions we have all felt but peharps never really understood. The hows and the whys of our most intimate feelings and thoughts, the mistakes and selfishness of the relationships are fully explained and completely concrete.

"Does beauty give birth to love? Or does love give birth to beauty? Did i love" Chloe" coz she was beautiful or was she beautiful because i loved her"

Its wealth of knowledge on how human beings perceive and process love left me in awe. Alain's distinct style of philosophy /essay is what exactly kept me turning pages. This was like a prequel to the long term relationship perspective, the course of love presented, but no less brilliant.

To love and to be loved, a concept... A beautiful concept! ]]>
4.11 1993 Essays In Love
author: Alain de Botton
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.11
book published: 1993
rating: 4
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"If we cannot be always be entirely sane in our relationships, the kindest thing we can do for those who care about us is to hand over some maps that try to chart and guide one through the more disturbed regions of our internal world " _Alain de Bottom

The novel illuminates emotions we have all felt but peharps never really understood. The hows and the whys of our most intimate feelings and thoughts, the mistakes and selfishness of the relationships are fully explained and completely concrete.

"Does beauty give birth to love? Or does love give birth to beauty? Did i love" Chloe" coz she was beautiful or was she beautiful because i loved her"

Its wealth of knowledge on how human beings perceive and process love left me in awe. Alain's distinct style of philosophy /essay is what exactly kept me turning pages. This was like a prequel to the long term relationship perspective, the course of love presented, but no less brilliant.

To love and to be loved, a concept... A beautiful concept!
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<![CDATA[Opening Spaces: An Anthology of Contemporary African Women's Writing]]> 420460 186 Yvonne Vera 0435910108 Mpho 0 to-read 3.53 1999 Opening Spaces: An Anthology of Contemporary African Women's Writing
author: Yvonne Vera
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average rating: 3.53
book published: 1999
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<![CDATA[Beads of Memory: The Diary of an African Student in Madrid]]> 55554327 67 Martin Jumbam Mpho 0 to-read 5.00 Beads of Memory: The Diary of an African Student in Madrid
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Hearing Visions Seeing Voices 841261 192 Mmatshilo Motsei 1919931511 Mpho 5
The journeys are at a personal level, the author defines a journey for the integration of the intuitive feminine and the action-oriented masculine; a journey to learn how to be vulnerable, a journey towards a reclamation of her femininity ( redefining the notions of a "strong woman"); a journey from menstrual rage to menstrual creative power ("My moon time at full moon is a time of heightened creativity", she writes); and a journey of self-discovery after running away from herself for so long.

And all these journeys must converge at one point: the point of humanity, the point where we regain our humanity in the instances where we have lost it. One of the most striking journeys is that of healing our environment and ourselves after our history of dehumanisation. ]]>
3.92 2005 Hearing Visions Seeing Voices
author: Mmatshilo Motsei
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average rating: 3.92
book published: 2005
rating: 5
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Once on the throes of a suicide, now she shares herself so generously with us, accompanying us to "a place of healing". Mmatshilo Motsei is a brilliant philosopher who let us in on her journeys.

The journeys are at a personal level, the author defines a journey for the integration of the intuitive feminine and the action-oriented masculine; a journey to learn how to be vulnerable, a journey towards a reclamation of her femininity ( redefining the notions of a "strong woman"); a journey from menstrual rage to menstrual creative power ("My moon time at full moon is a time of heightened creativity", she writes); and a journey of self-discovery after running away from herself for so long.

And all these journeys must converge at one point: the point of humanity, the point where we regain our humanity in the instances where we have lost it. One of the most striking journeys is that of healing our environment and ourselves after our history of dehumanisation.
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<![CDATA[Beauty ...: A Black Perspective]]> 619450 150 Nakedi Ribane 1869140877 Mpho 3 3.00 2006 Beauty ...: A Black Perspective
author: Nakedi Ribane
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.00
book published: 2006
rating: 3
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The Colours That Blind 43590072
When his brother is invited to go travelling for work, Tumirai goes to stay with their grandmother, Ambuya Thandie. She is scarred, in more ways than one, but her memory is a treasure trove - and her stories of Zimbabwe's war for independence are a long, long way from the history Tumirai has heard before.]]>
359 Rutendo Tavengerwei 1471408183 Mpho 4 3.88 The Colours That Blind
author: Rutendo Tavengerwei
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Combining the themes of albinism and apartheid gives some very literal and unavoidable experiences of hatred and cruelty sprouting from skin colour.heartbreaking story of growing up amongst hatred in a war-torn country, and the overarching themes of prejudice, hatred and forgiveness intertwine their stories. Rutendo pens an eloquent heartbreaking plea for acceptance and reconciliation a story riddled with racial hatred featuring murder and an "illegal love" .
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A Raisin in the Sun 5517 A Raisin in the Sun opened on Broadway in 1959.

Indeed Lorraine Hansberry's award-winning drama about the hopes and aspirations of a struggling, working-class family living on the South Side of Chicago connected profoundly with the psyche of black America--and changed American theater forever.The play's title comes from a line in Langston Hughes's poem "Harlem," which warns that a dream deferred might "dry up/like a raisin in the sun."

"The events of every passing year add resonance to A Raisin in the Sun," said The New York Times."It is as if history is conspiring to make the play a classic."This Modern Library edition presents the fully restored, uncut version of Hansberry's landmark work with an introduction by Robert Nemiroff.]]>
162 Lorraine Hansberry 0375508333 Mpho 0 to-read 3.84 1959 A Raisin in the Sun
author: Lorraine Hansberry
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.84
book published: 1959
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You Exist Too Much 41720140
Told in vignettes that flash between the U.S. and the Middle East--from New York to Jordan, Lebanon, and Palestine--Zaina Arafat's debut novel traces her protagonist's progress from blushing teen to sought-after DJ and aspiring writer. In Brooklyn, she moves into an apartment with her first serious girlfriend and tries to content herself with their comfortable relationship. But soon her longings, so closely hidden during her teenage years, explode out into reckless romantic encounters and obsessions with other people.

Her desire to thwart her own destructive impulses will eventually lead her to The Ledge, an unconventional treatment center that identifies her affliction as "love addiction." In this strange, enclosed society she will start to consider the unnerving similarities between her own internal traumas and divisions and those of the places that have formed her.

Opening up the fantasies and desires of one young woman caught between cultural, religious, and sexual identities, You Exist Too Much is a captivating story charting two of our most intense longings: for love, and a place to call home.]]>
263 Zaina Arafat 1948226502 Mpho 3 3.62 2020 You Exist Too Much
author: Zaina Arafat
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.62
book published: 2020
rating: 3
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soft magic. 27207807 123 Upile Chisala Mpho 0 to-read 3.91 2015 soft magic.
author: Upile Chisala
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.91
book published: 2015
rating: 0
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Questions for Ada 26141400 202 Ijeoma Umebinyuo Mpho 5
" bathong wena", that's me every time I read a piece as i flipped a page for my jaw to drop again gushing over the brilliance that is Ijeoma in her writing.
Its the intimacy in her poems, an unapologetic presentation of truths and her unconventional ways of embracing pain. Said: "you must let pain visit, you must let it teach you, you must NOT, let it overstay"

perhaps it's the loss of a lot of close one's that everything just made sense
"healing comes in waves and maybe today the waves hit the rocks, and darling, that, is, ok!!, you're still healing"

Ijeoma writes about pain mostly, but she also writes about the celebration of having passed through that pain, finding oneself, and knowing yourself self in depths that only the pain could allow. It is a celebration of womanhood, a call for the world to see how much African women have to endure in their growth.

Although it somehow felt like it's too much romenticising pain, you get to realize, pain is inevitable and is necessary, the best stories told are stories of ourselves, of our experiences. Remember to be gentle with yourself. This one is mainly for the women, a beautiful piece of art.]]>
4.31 2015 Questions for Ada
author: Ijeoma Umebinyuo
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.31
book published: 2015
rating: 5
read at: 2020/09/03
date added: 2020/09/03
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Beautiful is a lazy and a louzy way to describe me"_ Ijeoma umebinyu

" bathong wena", that's me every time I read a piece as i flipped a page for my jaw to drop again gushing over the brilliance that is Ijeoma in her writing.
Its the intimacy in her poems, an unapologetic presentation of truths and her unconventional ways of embracing pain. Said: "you must let pain visit, you must let it teach you, you must NOT, let it overstay"

perhaps it's the loss of a lot of close one's that everything just made sense
"healing comes in waves and maybe today the waves hit the rocks, and darling, that, is, ok!!, you're still healing"

Ijeoma writes about pain mostly, but she also writes about the celebration of having passed through that pain, finding oneself, and knowing yourself self in depths that only the pain could allow. It is a celebration of womanhood, a call for the world to see how much African women have to endure in their growth.

Although it somehow felt like it's too much romenticising pain, you get to realize, pain is inevitable and is necessary, the best stories told are stories of ourselves, of our experiences. Remember to be gentle with yourself. This one is mainly for the women, a beautiful piece of art.
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<![CDATA[The Girl with the Louding Voice]]> 50214741 All you have are your words.

Adunni is a fourteen-year-old Nigerian girl who knows what she wants: an education.

As the only daughter of a broke father, she is a valuable commodity. Removed from school and sold as a third wife to an old man, Adunni's life amounts to this: four goats, two bags of rice, some chickens and a new TV. When unspeakable tragedy swiftly strikes in her new home, she is secretly sold as a domestic servant to a household in the wealthy enclaves of Lagos, where no one will talk about the strange disappearance of her predecessor, Rebecca. No one but Adunni...

As a yielding daughter, a subservient wife, and a powerless servant, fourteen-year-old Adunni is repeatedly told that she is nothing. But Adunni won't be silenced. She is determined to find her voice - in a whisper, in song, in broken English - until she can speak for herself, for the girls like Rebecca who came before, and for all the girls who will follow.

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371 Abi Daré 1524746029 Mpho 4
As Adunni wonders: “Why are the women in Nigeria seem to be suffering for everything more than the men?�

The Girl With the Louding Voice joins a long and fine tradition of issue-led novels that have sparked conversations resulting in social change. The protagonist spirited determination to find joy and hope in even the most difficult circumstances imaginable will “break your heart and then put it back together again�. Adunni’s brave, fresh voice powerfully articulates a resounding anger toward Africa’s toxic patriarchy. Throughout her harrowing coming-of-age journey, told with verve and compassion, Adunni never loses the “louding voice�.]]>
4.40 2020 The Girl with the Louding Voice
author: Abi Daré
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.40
book published: 2020
rating: 4
read at: 2020/08/26
date added: 2020/08/26
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Social justice is a laudable intention when writing a novel, The Girl with the Louding Voice is a simultaneously heartbreaking and triumphant tale about the power of fighting for your dreams.The story told in this novel is an important one,the trauma of girls forced into marriage and the blight of domestic slavery in Nigeria are both issues that must be brought to light. The novel is strongest when dealing with interpersonal relationships, especially between characters of different classes.

As Adunni wonders: “Why are the women in Nigeria seem to be suffering for everything more than the men?�

The Girl With the Louding Voice joins a long and fine tradition of issue-led novels that have sparked conversations resulting in social change. The protagonist spirited determination to find joy and hope in even the most difficult circumstances imaginable will “break your heart and then put it back together again�. Adunni’s brave, fresh voice powerfully articulates a resounding anger toward Africa’s toxic patriarchy. Throughout her harrowing coming-of-age journey, told with verve and compassion, Adunni never loses the “louding voice�.
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<![CDATA[Vagabond: Wandering through Africa on faith]]> 45287131
Vagabond is Lerato Mogoatlhe’s story of her travels through twenty-one countries in Africa. Vagabond is a poetic, raw and honest diary of Lerato’s travels through Africa.

From meeting President Mbeki at an event in Timbuktu to hanging out with one of her favourite artists, Habib Koite, Vagabond is a love letter of Lerato’s discovery of herself, her home, Africa, and its people that readers will witness through her uncensored curiosity and with none of the glamour of a guidebook.

Out of the twenty-one countries visited over the five years she travelled through the continent, Lerato names Sudan, Mali, Egypt, Uganda and Kenya as her top five to visit.]]>
285 Lerato Mogoatlhe 1928337694 Mpho 4 "I had had enough of writing about people living their wildest dreams. It was time to see what the story of my life would be" _Lerato

Consumed by wonderlust, the bravery that is Lerato to intentionally pack her bags and travel Africa, alone with no sense of direction nor enough savings is a scary thought, something that most of us would have to think twice or wouldn't even dare because "who does that"? also the propaganda we've been fed about most of our African countries is totally questionable after reading Vagabond, peharps Mogadishu is not a nightmare after all?

For me, it felt like i was wondering through the countries with her, totally immersing herself in the culture of the places she visited is truly inspiring , she took me to the clean city, Kigali, the groove and life in Kokrobite Ghana, emotions were felt throughout her travels, the hardships and religions, i got a sense of different people in different countries, and an appreciation for them. Apart from feeling a disconnect when she mentions the many people she came across, the book definitely put a few on my 'must visit' list and interesting reflections.
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4.00 2019 Vagabond: Wandering through Africa on faith
author: Lerato Mogoatlhe
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.00
book published: 2019
rating: 4
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A diary of a drifter
"I had had enough of writing about people living their wildest dreams. It was time to see what the story of my life would be" _Lerato

Consumed by wonderlust, the bravery that is Lerato to intentionally pack her bags and travel Africa, alone with no sense of direction nor enough savings is a scary thought, something that most of us would have to think twice or wouldn't even dare because "who does that"? also the propaganda we've been fed about most of our African countries is totally questionable after reading Vagabond, peharps Mogadishu is not a nightmare after all?

For me, it felt like i was wondering through the countries with her, totally immersing herself in the culture of the places she visited is truly inspiring , she took me to the clean city, Kigali, the groove and life in Kokrobite Ghana, emotions were felt throughout her travels, the hardships and religions, i got a sense of different people in different countries, and an appreciation for them. Apart from feeling a disconnect when she mentions the many people she came across, the book definitely put a few on my 'must visit' list and interesting reflections.
Also, thank you for the music Lerato
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The Darkest Child 331260
But Tangy Mae has been selected to be part of the first integrated class at a nearby white high school. She has a chance to change her life, but can she break from Rozelle's grasp without ruinous--even fatal--consequences?]]>
400 Delores Phillips 1569473781 Mpho 0 to-read 4.39 2004 The Darkest Child
author: Delores Phillips
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.39
book published: 2004
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<![CDATA[Finding Freedom: Harry and Meghan and the Making of a Modern Royal Family]]> 53357123
When news of the budding romance between a beloved English prince and an American actress broke, it captured the world’s attention and sparked an international media frenzy.
But while the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have continued to make headlines � from their engagement, wedding, and birth of their son Archie to their unprecedented decision to step back from their royal lives � few know the true story of Harry and Meghan.

For the very first time, FINDING FREEDOM goes beyond the headlines to reveal unknown details of Harry and Meghan’s life together, dispelling the many rumours and misconceptions that plague the couple on both sides of the pond. As members of the select group of reporters that cover the British Royal Family and their engagements, Omid Scobie and Carolyn Durand have witnessed the young couple’s lives as few outsiders can.

With unique access and written with the participation of those closest to the couple, FINDING FREEDOM is an honest, up-close, and disarming portrait of a confident, influential, and forward-thinking couple who are unafraid to break with tradition, determined to create a new path away from the spotlight, and dedicated to building a humanitarian legacy that will make a profound difference in the world.]]>
354 Omid Scobie 0063046105 Mpho 0 to-read 3.17 2020 Finding Freedom: Harry and Meghan and the Making of a Modern Royal Family
author: Omid Scobie
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.17
book published: 2020
rating: 0
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An Orchestra of Minorities 35003282 An Orchestra of Minorities is narrated by the chi, or spirit of a young poultry farmer named Chinonso. His life is set off course when he sees a woman who is about to jump off a bridge. Horrified by her recklessness, he hurls two of his prized chickens off the bridge. The woman, Ndali, is stopped in her tracks.

Chinonso and Ndali fall in love but she is from an educated and wealthy family. When her family objects to the union on the grounds that he is not her social equal, he sells most of his possessions to attend college in Cyprus. But when he arrives in Cyprus, he discovers that he has been utterly duped by the young Nigerian who has made the arrangements for him. Penniless, homeless, we watch as he gets further and further away from his dream and from home.]]>
448 Chigozie Obioma 0316412392 Mpho 0 3.68 2019 An Orchestra of Minorities
author: Chigozie Obioma
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.68
book published: 2019
rating: 0
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The Suns of Independence 697052 136 Ahmadou Kourouma 0841907471 Mpho 0 to-read 3.57 1968 The Suns of Independence
author: Ahmadou Kourouma
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.57
book published: 1968
rating: 0
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A Bantu in my Bathroom 16066326 208 Eusebius McKaiser Mpho 0 to-read 3.55 2012 A Bantu in my Bathroom
author: Eusebius McKaiser
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.55
book published: 2012
rating: 0
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Homegoing 27071490 An alternate cover edition can be found here.

A novel of breathtaking sweep and emotional power that traces three hundred years in Ghana and along the way also becomes a truly great American novel. Extraordinary for its exquisite language, its implacable sorrow, its soaring beauty, and for its monumental portrait of the forces that shape families and nations, Homegoing heralds the arrival of a major new voice in contemporary fiction.

Two half-sisters, Effia and Esi, are born into different villages in eighteenth-century Ghana. Effia is married off to an Englishman and lives in comfort in the palatial rooms of Cape Coast Castle. Unbeknownst to Effia, her sister, Esi, is imprisoned beneath her in the castle's dungeons, sold with thousands of others into the Gold Coast's booming slave trade, and shipped off to America, where her children and grandchildren will be raised in slavery. One thread of Homegoing follows Effia's descendants through centuries of warfare in Ghana, as the Fante and Asante nations wrestle with the slave trade and British colonization. The other thread follows Esi and her children into America. From the plantations of the South to the Civil War and the Great Migration, from the coal mines of Pratt City, Alabama, to the jazz clubs and dope houses of twentieth-century Harlem, right up through the present day, Homegoing makes history visceral, and captures, with singular and stunning immediacy, how the memory of captivity came to be inscribed in the soul of a nation.

Generation after generation, Yaa Gyasi's magisterial first novel sets the fate of the individual against the obliterating movements of time, delivering unforgettable characters whose lives were shaped by historical forces beyond their control. Homegoing is a tremendous reading experience, not to be missed, by an astonishingly gifted young writer.]]>
305 Yaa Gyasi Mpho 4
The West African chapters are the heart of the book, a deep channeling of multilayered humanity. Gyasi evokes what was lost to those who were sold away, a sense of individual and collective identity, a wealth of rituals and customs. The narrative unfolds through self-contained stories, some like parables, others; nightmares that shift between the family lines. Each new protagonist a limb of the disrupted family tree. Each chapter of the novel is narrated from the perspective of a descendant of either Effia or Esi, one representative for each generation, and the two bloodlines alternate up to the present day. Characters reappear in dreams or retellings as the action moves from the Cape Coast to Kumasi to Baltimore to Harlem. If there must be a purpose to the creation of yet another slave narrative other than to show how cruel, unfair, debased and horrific slavery was, it should be to convey the impact of it on modern life.

"Evil begets evil. It grows. It transmutes, so that sometimes you cannot see that the evil in the world began as the evil in your home.�

The great aching gift of the novel is that, it offers in its own way the very thing that enslavement denied its descendants: the possibility of imagining the connection between the broken threads of their origins.
One is left to ponder the words of Akua, an old Asante woman and one of Effia’s descendants, as she speaks across eras and oceans: “There are people who have done wrong because they could not see the result of the wrong,� she tells her estranged son.

"No one forgets that they were once captive, even if they are now free.�

Through fine craft, Homegoing sharpens the sting of a trauma that we should never stop feeling.The most heroic and important endeavor Gyasi accomplishes in “Homegoing� is by far the voice she gives to the missing and untold narratives that have been lost in slavery’s devastating after-effects.]]>
4.48 2016 Homegoing
author: Yaa Gyasi
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.48
book published: 2016
rating: 4
read at: 2020/08/02
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An unflinching portrayal of the slave trade explores its impact down the generations, from 18th-century west Africa to the modern-day United States . "As the generations unfold, each is powerless in the face of their history"

The West African chapters are the heart of the book, a deep channeling of multilayered humanity. Gyasi evokes what was lost to those who were sold away, a sense of individual and collective identity, a wealth of rituals and customs. The narrative unfolds through self-contained stories, some like parables, others; nightmares that shift between the family lines. Each new protagonist a limb of the disrupted family tree. Each chapter of the novel is narrated from the perspective of a descendant of either Effia or Esi, one representative for each generation, and the two bloodlines alternate up to the present day. Characters reappear in dreams or retellings as the action moves from the Cape Coast to Kumasi to Baltimore to Harlem. If there must be a purpose to the creation of yet another slave narrative other than to show how cruel, unfair, debased and horrific slavery was, it should be to convey the impact of it on modern life.

"Evil begets evil. It grows. It transmutes, so that sometimes you cannot see that the evil in the world began as the evil in your home.�

The great aching gift of the novel is that, it offers in its own way the very thing that enslavement denied its descendants: the possibility of imagining the connection between the broken threads of their origins.
One is left to ponder the words of Akua, an old Asante woman and one of Effia’s descendants, as she speaks across eras and oceans: “There are people who have done wrong because they could not see the result of the wrong,� she tells her estranged son.

"No one forgets that they were once captive, even if they are now free.�

Through fine craft, Homegoing sharpens the sting of a trauma that we should never stop feeling.The most heroic and important endeavor Gyasi accomplishes in “Homegoing� is by far the voice she gives to the missing and untold narratives that have been lost in slavery’s devastating after-effects.
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Always Another Country 40056763
Born in exile, in Zambia, to a guerrilla father and a working mother, Sisonke Msimang is constantly on the move. Her parents, talented and highly educated, travel from Zambia to Kenya and Canada and beyond with their young family. Always the outsider, and against a backdrop of racism and xenophobia, Sisonke develops her keenly perceptive view of the world. In this sparkling account of a young girl’s path to womanhood, Sisonke interweaves her personal story with her political awakening in America and Africa, her euphoria at returning to the new South Africa, and her disillusionment with the new elites. Confidential and reflective, Always Another Country is a search for belonging and identity: a warm and intimate story that will move many readers.

Sisonke Msimang is one of the most exciting contemporary female black voices in literature. Now based in Perth, Australia, she regularly contributes to publications like The Guardian, the Huffington Post, and the New York Times. She has over 20,000 followers on Twitter @Sisonkemsimang. Her TED Talk,“If a story moves you, act on it,� has been viewed over 1.3 million times.]]>
368 Sisonke Msimang 164286000X Mpho 5
She engages with recurring issues: racism, feminism, patriarchy, crime, death, xenophobia, marriage, sex and class; but this is also a story of a young girl’s childhood, coming of age, and family; of politics, democracy, fighting for ideals, and seeing idols fall. Above all, it is a story of a search for and construction of belonging.
Spending her childhood calling different countries "home" every few years, “My parents were freedom fighters so they cast our journeys around the world as part of a necessary sacrifice. Our suffering was noble.�

Sisonke tells a tale of being a little girl being dragged across the ends of the earth in search of home was clearly not enough, she must also carry a reminder of her humanity wherever she goes.

"And then, one day, in the middle of everything that was becoming mundane and ordinary, on a day just like the ones that had come before it, I was called an African monkey."
you live get her grief.

with a dash of vulnerability and baring her joys, her fears, her anger and frustrations, in a world of constant 'othering' she addresses her own inconsistencies as well as those she criticises.

The country is already ours, and we know it. We are young and freedom is in front of us and heartache and pain are yesterday's heroes._Sisonke Msimang
Absolutely brilliant]]>
4.30 2017 Always Another Country
author: Sisonke Msimang
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.30
book published: 2017
rating: 5
read at: 2020/08/07
date added: 2020/08/08
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In her debut novel, a memoir which is , by definition, personal, brutally and uncompromisingly honest, Sisonke writes a candidly intimate tale of a journey toward self-identity. In the chapter titled "Why i write" she explains :"I write because Simphiwe Dana sings and because Brenda Fassie is dead!

She engages with recurring issues: racism, feminism, patriarchy, crime, death, xenophobia, marriage, sex and class; but this is also a story of a young girl’s childhood, coming of age, and family; of politics, democracy, fighting for ideals, and seeing idols fall. Above all, it is a story of a search for and construction of belonging.
Spending her childhood calling different countries "home" every few years, “My parents were freedom fighters so they cast our journeys around the world as part of a necessary sacrifice. Our suffering was noble.�

Sisonke tells a tale of being a little girl being dragged across the ends of the earth in search of home was clearly not enough, she must also carry a reminder of her humanity wherever she goes.

"And then, one day, in the middle of everything that was becoming mundane and ordinary, on a day just like the ones that had come before it, I was called an African monkey."
you live get her grief.

with a dash of vulnerability and baring her joys, her fears, her anger and frustrations, in a world of constant 'othering' she addresses her own inconsistencies as well as those she criticises.

The country is already ours, and we know it. We are young and freedom is in front of us and heartache and pain are yesterday's heroes._Sisonke Msimang
Absolutely brilliant
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<![CDATA[The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life]]> 36520721 Are You Being Gaslighted?
Check for these telltale signs:
1.
You constantly second-guess yourself.
2. You wonder, “Am I being too sensitive?� a dozen times a day.
3. You wonder frequently if you are a “good enough� girlfriend/wife/employee/friend/daughter.
4. You have trouble making simple decisions.
5. You think twice before bringing up innocent topics of conversation.
6. You frequently make excuses for your partner’s behavior to friends and family.

Your husband crosses the line in his flirtations with another woman at a dinner party. When you confront him, he asks you to stop being insecure and controlling. After a long argument, you apologize for giving him a hard time.

Your boss backed you on a project when you met privately in his office, and you went full steam ahead. But at a large gathering of staff—including yours—he suddenly changes his tune and publicly criticizes your poor judgment. When you tell him your concerns for how this will affect your authority, he tells you that the project was ill-conceived and you’ll have to be more careful in the future. You begin to question your competence.

Your mother belittles your clothes, your job, your friends, and your boyfriend. But instead of fighting back as your friends encourage you to do, you tell them that your mother is often right and that a mature person should be able to take a little criticism.

If you think things like this can’t happen to you, think again. Gaslighting is when someone wants you to do what you know you shouldn’t and to believe the unbelieveable. It can happen to you and it probably already has. Gaslighting is an insidious form of emotional abuse and manipulation that is difficult to recognize and even harder to break free from.

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304 Robin Stern 0767924460 Mpho 0 to-read 3.81 2007 The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life
author: Robin Stern
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.81
book published: 2007
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<![CDATA[UNTIMELY BEGINNINGS: Memoirs Of Women Who Defied Fate]]> 54448670 0 Nandi Mjo Manentsa Mpho 4
The women bare mainly about their experience after the unexpected passing of their husbands. The impact and reactions, how they coped with the children, work and the community at large. The contributors relate of their grief and individual journey of healing.

A sad, sensitive, emotive, but inevitable topic. A fact of our lives, death. The stories demonstrated resilience and resourcefulness, an example of how hard and deep women can love. Most of the women were not prepared and did not re-marry after their ordeals. They fell hard, stood up and dust themselves off and carry on. Zenzile Makelo in her story on page 120 wrote :

� The world does not wait for you, simply because you are grieving. Bills must be paid, and children must go to school, you must quickly define your new normal "

With my love for anthologies, overall, this is a great book, takes one on an emotional roller coaster, those stories that are close to home, they resonate across various cultures. This could be your story, or anyone's story. recommended. ]]>
4.29 UNTIMELY BEGINNINGS: Memoirs Of Women Who Defied Fate
author: Nandi Mjo Manentsa
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.29
book published:
rating: 4
read at: 2020/08/03
date added: 2020/08/03
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An anthology that includes contributions of 17 widows across various ages and race. The women share about themselves, their respective families, and their marriages. The book not only evokes sympathy and centres on grief. It also gives hope, encouragement, and empowerment to those affected by death in general.

The women bare mainly about their experience after the unexpected passing of their husbands. The impact and reactions, how they coped with the children, work and the community at large. The contributors relate of their grief and individual journey of healing.

A sad, sensitive, emotive, but inevitable topic. A fact of our lives, death. The stories demonstrated resilience and resourcefulness, an example of how hard and deep women can love. Most of the women were not prepared and did not re-marry after their ordeals. They fell hard, stood up and dust themselves off and carry on. Zenzile Makelo in her story on page 120 wrote :

� The world does not wait for you, simply because you are grieving. Bills must be paid, and children must go to school, you must quickly define your new normal "

With my love for anthologies, overall, this is a great book, takes one on an emotional roller coaster, those stories that are close to home, they resonate across various cultures. This could be your story, or anyone's story. recommended.
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<![CDATA[One Day I Will Write About This Place: A Memoir]]> 9905586 *A New York Times Notable Book*
*A New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice*
*A Publishers Weekly Top Ten Book of the Year*

Binyavanga Wainaina tumbled through his middle-class Kenyan childhood out of kilter with the world around him. This world came to him as a chaos of loud and colorful sounds: the hair dryers at his mother's beauty parlor, black mamba bicycle bells, mechanics in Nairobi, the music of Michael Jackson—all punctuated by the infectious laughter of his brother and sister, Jimmy and Ciru. He could fall in with their patterns, but it would take him a while to carve out his own.

In this vivid and compelling debut memoir, Wainaina takes us through his school days, his mother's religious period, his failed attempt to study in South Africa as a computer programmer, a moving family reunion in Uganda, and his travels around Kenya. The landscape in front of him always claims his main attention, but he also evokes the shifting political scene that unsettles his views on family, tribe, and nationhood.

Throughout, reading is his refuge and his solace. And when, in 2002, a writing prize comes through, the door is opened for him to pursue the career that perhaps had been beckoning all along. A series of fascinating international reporting assignments follow. Finally he circles back to a Kenya in the throes of postelection violence and finds he is not the only one questioning the old certainties.

Resolutely avoiding stereotype and cliché, Wainaina paints every scene in One Day I Will Write About This Place with a highly distinctive and hugely memorable brush.]]>
256 Binyavanga Wainaina 1555975917 Mpho 0 to-read 3.79 2011 One Day I Will Write About This Place: A Memoir
author: Binyavanga Wainaina
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.79
book published: 2011
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<![CDATA[To the Black Women We All Knew]]> 22348046 186 Kholofelo Maenetsha 1920590072 Mpho 0 to-read 3.92 2014 To the Black Women We All Knew
author: Kholofelo Maenetsha
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.92
book published: 2014
rating: 0
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The Book of Not 1079025 246 Tsitsi Dangarembga 0954702379 Mpho 4 3.62 2006 The Book of Not
author: Tsitsi Dangarembga
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.62
book published: 2006
rating: 4
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All the Light We Cannot See 18143977
In a mining town in Germany, Werner Pfennig, an orphan, grows up with his younger sister, enchanted by a crude radio they find that brings them news and stories from places they have never seen or imagined. Werner becomes an expert at building and fixing these crucial new instruments and is enlisted to use his talent to track down the resistance. Deftly interweaving the lives of Marie-Laure and Werner, Doerr illuminates the ways, against all odds, people try to be good to one another.

From the highly acclaimed, multiple award-winning Anthony Doerr, the stunningly beautiful instant New York Times bestseller about a blind French girl and a German boy whose paths collide in occupied France as both try to survive the devastation of World War II.

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544 Anthony Doerr 1476746583 Mpho 0 to-read 4.31 2014 All the Light We Cannot See
author: Anthony Doerr
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.31
book published: 2014
rating: 0
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<![CDATA[How to Write About Africa (Kwanini?)]]> 8430525 49 Binyavanga Wainaina 996670082X Mpho 0 to-read 4.41 2006 How to Write About Africa (Kwanini?)
author: Binyavanga Wainaina
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.41
book published: 2006
rating: 0
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<![CDATA[What a Time to Be Alone: The Slumflower's Guide to Why You Are Already Enough]]> 38744579
In What A Time To Be Alone, The Slumflower will be your life guru, confidante and best friend. She'll show you that being alone is not just okay: it's just about the best freaking thing that's ever happened to you. As she says, 'You're bad as hell and you were made with intention.' It's about time you realised.

Peppered with insightful Igbo proverbs from Chidera's Nigerian mother and full of her own original artwork, What A Time To Be Alone will help you navigate the modern world. We can all decide our own fates and Chidera shows us how, using a three-part approach filled with sass, wisdom and charm.


Learn how to celebrate YOU - decide your self-worth, take time to heal and empower yourself in this messy world.

Don't worry about THEM - avoid other people's demons and realize that everyone is protecting themselves from something - no matter how aggressive their method.

Feel the togetherness in US - sustain and grow healthy relationships and avoid toxicity in your friendships.

Own your story. Create your own narrative. Read this book. #WATTBA]]>
192 Chidera Eggerue 1787132110 Mpho 2
In short : a gorgeous guide packed with life lessons, personality, wit and wisdom.
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3.73 2018 What a Time to Be Alone: The Slumflower's Guide to Why You Are Already Enough
author: Chidera Eggerue
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.73
book published: 2018
rating: 2
read at: 2020/07/23
date added: 2020/07/25
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"Choose yourself. Over and over again. Even when you’ve let yourself down. Choose yourself. Even when it feels uncomfortable. Choose yourself. Even when you’re tired. Choose Yourself"

In short : a gorgeous guide packed with life lessons, personality, wit and wisdom.

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A Stranger's Pose 40677094
Through stories remembered and imagined, and images by acclaimed photographers, A Stranger's Pose draws the reader into a world of encounters in more than a dozen African towns. Iduma blends memoir, travelogue and storytelling in these fragments of a traveller’s journey across several African cities. Inspired by the author’s travels with photographers between 2011 and 2015, the author's own accounts are expanded to include other narratives about movement, estrangement, and intimacy. These include: an arrest in a market in N’djamena, being punished by a Gendarmes officer on a Cameroonian highway and meeting the famed photographer Malick Sidibe in Bamako.]]>
216 Emmanuel Iduma Mpho 4
With reverence and sincerity, Iduma relays the words of the celebrated Malian photographer Malick Sidibé: “Photography is like hunting.� Iduma sits at Sidibé’s feet; he offers the reader a glimpse into the late visionary’s life and philosophies. In A Stranger’s Pose, as in life, the only constant is death.

The book hums with a kind of gorgeous melancholy. Iduma recounts the deaths of many people he encounters, often writing letters to the deceased or their relatives after encountering a photograph of the departed.
The novel asks readers to submit to the pleasures of wandering without guarantee of a fixed destination, says 'imagination can be delicate, imposing a protective decorum, a photograph on raw fact and confront us with what we where peharps avoiding'.

A travelogue, part photo essay that traces Indumas travels around Africa through snapshots and short written essays.]]>
3.94 2018 A Stranger's Pose
author: Emmanuel Iduma
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.94
book published: 2018
rating: 4
read at: 2020/03/28
date added: 2020/07/22
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The organizing logic of the book is not guidance so much as it is evocation. It asks readers to submit to the pleasures of wandering without the guarantee of a fixed destination.

With reverence and sincerity, Iduma relays the words of the celebrated Malian photographer Malick Sidibé: “Photography is like hunting.� Iduma sits at Sidibé’s feet; he offers the reader a glimpse into the late visionary’s life and philosophies. In A Stranger’s Pose, as in life, the only constant is death.

The book hums with a kind of gorgeous melancholy. Iduma recounts the deaths of many people he encounters, often writing letters to the deceased or their relatives after encountering a photograph of the departed.
The novel asks readers to submit to the pleasures of wandering without guarantee of a fixed destination, says 'imagination can be delicate, imposing a protective decorum, a photograph on raw fact and confront us with what we where peharps avoiding'.

A travelogue, part photo essay that traces Indumas travels around Africa through snapshots and short written essays.
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<![CDATA[Black Enough: Stories of Being Young & Black in America]]> 37819089 Black Enough is a star-studded anthology edited by National Book Award finalist Ibi Zoboi that will delve into the closeted thoughts, hidden experiences, and daily struggles of black teens across the country. From a spectrum of backgrounds—urban and rural, wealthy and poor, mixed race, immigrants, and more�Black Enough showcases diversity within diversity.

Whether it’s New York Times bestselling author Jason Reynolds writing about #blackboyjoy or Newberry Honor-winning author Renee Watson talking about black girls at camp in Portland, or emerging author Jay Coles’s story about two cowboys kissing in the south�Black Enough is an essential collection full of captivating coming-of-age stories about what it’s like to be young and black in America.]]>
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"Black is urban and rural, wealthy and poor, mixed race, immigrants, and more, because there are countless ways to be Black enough"

Filling her pages with magic, humanity, tragedy, and hope, Zoboi builds up, takes apart, and then rebuilds an unforgettable story. These stories look at identity, tradition, ideas of blackness, relationships, and experiences in various urban and rural areas across the country. The book will take root in readers� hearts as teens in these tales are dealing with mental health issues, complicated family dynamics, sexuality and gender constraints, and being part of a marginalized group. The entries offer a picture of the black teen diaspora in an accessible way.

There is no one way to be Black in America and I feel like this anthology truly captures the Black experience. This anthology also serve as a perfect window to the diverse lives of Black Americans and open people’s eyes to what it really means to be a black in America. *relatable ]]>
4.14 2019 Black Enough: Stories of Being Young & Black in America
author: Ibi Zoboi
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.14
book published: 2019
rating: 5
read at: 2020/07/22
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In her sensitive introduction, "what are the cultural threads that connect black people all over the world to Africa"? Zoboi hopes that this timely book will encourage all black teens to be their free, uninhibited selves. But the anthology is more than that, It’s an invitation for all readers to understand, as its subtitle suggests, what it means to be “young and black in America.

"Black is urban and rural, wealthy and poor, mixed race, immigrants, and more, because there are countless ways to be Black enough"

Filling her pages with magic, humanity, tragedy, and hope, Zoboi builds up, takes apart, and then rebuilds an unforgettable story. These stories look at identity, tradition, ideas of blackness, relationships, and experiences in various urban and rural areas across the country. The book will take root in readers� hearts as teens in these tales are dealing with mental health issues, complicated family dynamics, sexuality and gender constraints, and being part of a marginalized group. The entries offer a picture of the black teen diaspora in an accessible way.

There is no one way to be Black in America and I feel like this anthology truly captures the Black experience. This anthology also serve as a perfect window to the diverse lives of Black Americans and open people’s eyes to what it really means to be a black in America. *relatable
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This Mournable Body 36479936 A searing novel about the obstacles facing women in Zimbabwe, by one of the country’s most notable authors

Anxious about her prospects after leaving a stagnant job, Tambudzai finds herself living in a run-down youth hostel in downtown Harare. For reasons that include her grim financial prospects and her age, she moves to a widow’s boarding house and eventually finds work as a biology teacher. But at every turn in her attempt to make a life for herself, she is faced with a fresh humiliation, until the painful contrast between the future she imagined and her daily reality ultimately drives her to a breaking point.

In This Mournable Body, Tsitsi Dangarembga returns to the protagonist of her acclaimed first novel, Nervous Conditions, to examine how the hope and potential of a young girl and a fledgling nation can sour over time and become a bitter and floundering struggle for survival. As a last resort, Tambudzai takes an ecotourism job that forces her to return to her parents� impoverished homestead. It is this homecoming, in Dangarembga’s tense and psychologically charged novel, that culminates in an act of betrayal, revealing just how toxic the combination of colonialism and capitalism can be.]]>
284 Tsitsi Dangarembga 1555978126 Mpho 4
Tambu observes routine patriarchal violence that “fills you with an emptiness that hurts.� Her memories of the war “open up a void, out of which troop your own wounded and dead.� She hasn’t measured up to her individualist rubric: “You have failed to make anything at all of yourself.� Through Tambu and her compatriots, Dangaremba investigates the ironic psychological demands of global capitalism on a country whose citizens have been fractured by that system. Complex and flawed, they are more than symbols. This Mournable Body makes their struggles visible.

Dangarembga’s Zimbabwe is a catalog of cruelties, and Tambu is their passive witness. Her own anguish is mostly the psychic kind: “You are concerned you will start thinking of ending it all, having nothing to carry on for: no home, no job, no sustaining family bonds. Thinking this induces a morass of guilt.

A terrible irony of the postcolonial world is that the systems replacing colonial rule often continue to recommend its brutal tactics. Western values of transaction and domination still stir in the gut of Zimbabwe, and in Tambu, Dangaremba has created a complicated and frustrating figure. It’s bizarre, for example, that she views the widow’s repellent sons as part of her survival strategy, “a stepping stone to another life you crave.� It’s sickening that she enforces the postcolonial patriarchy by harming her students. Yet it yields an understanding of the country’s ambient dread andisempowerment.

Some of the book’s best moments arise from the tension between the cousins. Under Tambu’s withering gaze, Nyasha holds workshops peddling an idealistic mission, young women discover their own greatness, not in the cinema or in a boyfriend, but buried in themselves by means of telling their own stories.�

Nyasha’s mission, in a sense, is to recognize Zimbabwe’s MOURNABLE BODIES , which the larger world has chosen to ignore.

Dangarembga forces our perspective toward both violence and its humane alternatives. She closes the book, a bit too neatly with an epilogue that returns Tambu to work alongside the people of her community. As Tambu realizes, “there is more war in your country’s way of peace than any of you had expected.� Once she has seen the truth, she can’t turn away. ]]>
3.34 2018 This Mournable Body
author: Tsitsi Dangarembga
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.34
book published: 2018
rating: 4
read at: 2020/07/18
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Still the plucky protagonist familiar from “Nervous Conditions ", Tsitsi goes back to the story of Tambu, It’s a soul-crushing assignment, but this isn’t a dreary story, though it’s a tough one. Dangaremba writes with intimacy and compassion. The book demands that its readers witness the personhood behind the experience of postcolonial violence in Dangarembga’s native Zimbabwe, one corner of the world that often goes unconsidered.

Tambu observes routine patriarchal violence that “fills you with an emptiness that hurts.� Her memories of the war “open up a void, out of which troop your own wounded and dead.� She hasn’t measured up to her individualist rubric: “You have failed to make anything at all of yourself.� Through Tambu and her compatriots, Dangaremba investigates the ironic psychological demands of global capitalism on a country whose citizens have been fractured by that system. Complex and flawed, they are more than symbols. This Mournable Body makes their struggles visible.

Dangarembga’s Zimbabwe is a catalog of cruelties, and Tambu is their passive witness. Her own anguish is mostly the psychic kind: “You are concerned you will start thinking of ending it all, having nothing to carry on for: no home, no job, no sustaining family bonds. Thinking this induces a morass of guilt.

A terrible irony of the postcolonial world is that the systems replacing colonial rule often continue to recommend its brutal tactics. Western values of transaction and domination still stir in the gut of Zimbabwe, and in Tambu, Dangaremba has created a complicated and frustrating figure. It’s bizarre, for example, that she views the widow’s repellent sons as part of her survival strategy, “a stepping stone to another life you crave.� It’s sickening that she enforces the postcolonial patriarchy by harming her students. Yet it yields an understanding of the country’s ambient dread andisempowerment.

Some of the book’s best moments arise from the tension between the cousins. Under Tambu’s withering gaze, Nyasha holds workshops peddling an idealistic mission, young women discover their own greatness, not in the cinema or in a boyfriend, but buried in themselves by means of telling their own stories.�

Nyasha’s mission, in a sense, is to recognize Zimbabwe’s MOURNABLE BODIES , which the larger world has chosen to ignore.

Dangarembga forces our perspective toward both violence and its humane alternatives. She closes the book, a bit too neatly with an epilogue that returns Tambu to work alongside the people of her community. As Tambu realizes, “there is more war in your country’s way of peace than any of you had expected.� Once she has seen the truth, she can’t turn away.
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<![CDATA[What Is Not Yours Is Not Yours]]> 25810500
Oyeyemi’s tales span multiple times and landscapes as they tease boundaries between coexisting realities. Is a key a gate, a gift, or an invitation?]]>
325 Helen Oyeyemi 1594634637 Mpho 0 to-read 3.65 2016 What Is Not Yours Is Not Yours
author: Helen Oyeyemi
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.65
book published: 2016
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The Whale Caller 163519
The two misfits eventually fall in love. But each of them is ill equipped for romance, and their relationship suggests, in the words of The Washington Post, that "the deeper, darker concern here is not so much the fragility of love, but the fragility of life itself when one surrenders wholly to the foolish heart."]]>
230 Zakes Mda 0312425872 Mpho 0 to-read 3.56 2005 The Whale Caller
author: Zakes Mda
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.56
book published: 2005
rating: 0
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<![CDATA[Our Battles come with the Hustle]]> 50858663
Fiona always grew up having the husband material mentality, until life taught her that preference isn't always what we bargained for.
On the other hand Pete never believed in love, he always believed that love is overrated and not realistic.

The book reveals how these two contradicting lives of Pete and Fiona come together in a journey of love. In the book we learn of the struggles they both faced in their journey of love and self discovery.

Based on a true story the book looks at;
Relationship dynamics and its complexity in modern age living.
Anxiety & Depression
Cheating & Monogomy
The resurrection of a man
A woman's purpose in a relationship
Finding oneself after the first breakup
Restoration after cheating
Parenthood & Blended families
Working together as a team in the hustle to success.

Thapelo Sefara and Tshegofatso Mfalapitsa write from the heart and feed the soul with real life stories.

This book is not for the faint hearted, some will relate and some will hate being in love and some will find healing and restoration for themselves and their relationships.]]>
184 Tshegofatso Mfalapitsa 0620820268 Mpho 3 4.08 2018 Our Battles come with the Hustle
author: Tshegofatso Mfalapitsa
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.08
book published: 2018
rating: 3
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<![CDATA[Down and Out in Paris and London]]> 393199 213 George Orwell 015626224X Mpho 0 to-read 4.10 1933 Down and Out in Paris and London
author: George Orwell
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.10
book published: 1933
rating: 0
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A Man Who is Not a Man 7138822 188 Thando Mgqolozana 1869141768 Mpho 0 to-read 3.75 2009 A Man Who is Not a Man
author: Thando Mgqolozana
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.75
book published: 2009
rating: 0
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Every Day Is for the Thief 2320230 A young Nigerian writer living in New York City returns to Lagos in search of a subject-and himself.

Visiting Lagos after many years away, Teju Cole's unnamed narrator rediscovers his hometown as both a foreigner and a local. A young writer uncertain of what he wants to say, the man moves through tableaus of life in one of the most dynamic cities in the world: he hears the muezzin's call to prayer in the early morning light, and listens to John Coltrane during the late afternoon heat. He witnesses teenagers diligently perpetrating e-mail frauds from internet cafes, longs after a woman reading Michael Ondaatje on a public bus, and visits the impoverished National Museum. Along the way, he reconnects with old school friends and his family, who force him to ask himself profound questions of personal and national history. Over long, wandering days, the narrator compares present-day Lagos to the Lagos of his memory, and in doing so reveals changes that have taken place in himself.]]>
128 Teju Cole 978080515X Mpho 0 to-read 3.68 2007 Every Day Is for the Thief
author: Teju Cole
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.68
book published: 2007
rating: 0
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Black Sunday 42515198 Simultaneously unique and universal (NPR), this fiercely original debut novel follows the fate of four siblings over the course of two decades in Nigeria as they search for agency, love, and meaning in a society rife with hypocrisy.

"I like the idea of a god who knows what it's like to be a twin. To have no memory of ever being alone."

Twin sisters Bibike and Ariyike are enjoying a relatively comfortable life in Lagos in 1996. Then their mother loses her job due to political strife, and the family, facing poverty, becomes drawn into the New Church, an institution led by a charismatic pastor who is not shy about worshipping earthly wealth.

Soon Bibike and Ariyike's father wagers the family home on a "sure bet" that evaporates like smoke. As their parents' marriage collapses in the aftermath of this gamble, the twin sisters and their two younger siblings, Andrew and Peter, are thrust into the reluctant care of their traditional Yoruba grandmother. Inseparable while they had their parents to care for them, the twins' paths diverge once the household shatters. Each girl is left to locate, guard, and hone her own fragile source of power.

Written with astonishing intimacy and wry attention to the fickleness of fate, Tola Rotimi Abraham's Black Sunday takes us into the chaotic heart of family life, tracing a line from the euphoria of kinship to the devastation of estrangement. In the process, it joyfully tells a tale of grace and connection in the midst of daily oppression and the constant incursions of an unremitting patriarchy. This is a novel about two young women slowly finding, over twenty years, in a place rife with hypocrisy but also endless life and love, their own distinct methods of resistance and paths to independence.]]>
277 Tola Rotimi Abraham 1948226561 Mpho 0 to-read 3.66 2020 Black Sunday
author: Tola Rotimi Abraham
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.66
book published: 2020
rating: 0
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<![CDATA[Vagabond: Wandering through Africa on faith]]> 52840374 329 Mogoatlhe Mpho 4 "I had had enough of writing about people living their wildest dreams. It was time to see what the story of my life would be" _Lerato

Consumed by wonderlust, the bravery that is Lerato to intentionally pack her bags and travel Africa, alone with no sense of direction nor enough savings is a scary thought, something that most of us would have to think twice or wouldn't even dare because "who does that"? also the propaganda we've been fed about most of our African countries is totally questionable after reading Vagabond, peharps Mogadishu is not a nightmare after all? .For me, it felt like i was wondering through the countries with her, totally immersing herself in the culture of the places she visited is truly inspiring , she took me to the clean city, Kigali, the groove and life in Kokrobite Ghana, emotions were felt throughout her travels, the hardships and religions, i got a sense of different people in different countries, and an appreciation for them.

Apart from feeling a disconnect when she mentions the many people she came across, the book definitely put a few on my 'must visit' list and interesting reflections.
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3.50 Vagabond: Wandering through Africa on faith
author: Mogoatlhe
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.50
book published:
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read at: 2020/06/13
date added: 2020/06/18
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A diary of a drifter
"I had had enough of writing about people living their wildest dreams. It was time to see what the story of my life would be" _Lerato

Consumed by wonderlust, the bravery that is Lerato to intentionally pack her bags and travel Africa, alone with no sense of direction nor enough savings is a scary thought, something that most of us would have to think twice or wouldn't even dare because "who does that"? also the propaganda we've been fed about most of our African countries is totally questionable after reading Vagabond, peharps Mogadishu is not a nightmare after all? .For me, it felt like i was wondering through the countries with her, totally immersing herself in the culture of the places she visited is truly inspiring , she took me to the clean city, Kigali, the groove and life in Kokrobite Ghana, emotions were felt throughout her travels, the hardships and religions, i got a sense of different people in different countries, and an appreciation for them.

Apart from feeling a disconnect when she mentions the many people she came across, the book definitely put a few on my 'must visit' list and interesting reflections.
Also, thank you for the music Lerato
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London - Cape Town - Joburg 20951195
1994

The world is about to change. The first truly democratic election in South Africa’s history is about to unite Nelson Mandela’s rainbow nation at the ballot box. And, across the world, those in exile, those who could not return home, those who would not return home, wait. Watch and wait . . .

London

Martin O’Malley isn’t one of those watching and waiting. He is too busy trying to figure out if Germaine Spencer really is the girl for him and why his best friend is intent on ruining every relationship he gets involved in. And then . . . And then Germaine is pregnant and suddenly the world really has changed for Martin O’Malley.

South Africa

A land of opportunity. A place where a young black man with an MSc from the London School of Economics could have it all, would have it all. But what does Martin O’Malley, London born and bred with an Irish surname, really know about his mother’s country? His motherland. A land he has never seen.]]>
Zukiswa Wanner Mpho 0 to-read 3.73 2014 London - Cape Town - Joburg
author: Zukiswa Wanner
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.73
book published: 2014
rating: 0
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Indaba My Children 545399 696 Vusamazulu Credo Mutwa 0862417589 Mpho 0 to-read 4.41 1964 Indaba My Children
author: Vusamazulu Credo Mutwa
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.41
book published: 1964
rating: 0
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<![CDATA[We Need More Tables: Navigating privilege in the face of poverty]]> 53884206 204 Norma Young 1990931626 Mpho 0 to-read 4.54 We Need More Tables: Navigating privilege in the face of poverty
author: Norma Young
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.54
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<![CDATA[Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace ... One School at a Time]]> 49436 349 Greg Mortenson 0143038257 Mpho 0 to-read 3.66 2006 Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace ... One School at a Time
author: Greg Mortenson
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.66
book published: 2006
rating: 0
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Where Reasons End 43747594 A brilliant writer imagines a fictional conversation between a mother and the teenage son she lost to suicide. Yiyun Li confronts grief and transforms it into art, in a book of surprising beauty and love.

The narrator writes, "I had but one delusion, which I held onto with all my willpower: we once gave Nikolai a life of flesh and blood; and I'm doing it over again, this time by words."

Written in the months after the author lost a child to suicide and composed as a story cycle, this conversation between mother and child unfolds in a timeless world. Deeply intimate, poignant, and moving, these conversations portray the love and complexity in a relationship across generations, even as they capture the pain of sadness, longing, and loss.

In writing this book, Yiyun Li was inspired by a line from Proust's Remembrance of Things Past "Ideas come to us as the successors to griefs, and griefs, at the moment when they change into ideas, lose some part of their power to injure the heart; the transformation itself, even, for an instant, releases suddenly a little joy."

Meeting life's deepest sorrow with originality, precision and poise, Where Reasons End is suffused with intimacy, inescapable pain, and fierce love.]]>
5 Yiyun Li 1984887335 Mpho 0 to-read 3.70 2019 Where Reasons End
author: Yiyun Li
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.70
book published: 2019
rating: 0
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On Black Sisters Street 9125646
Each night, Sisi, Ama, Efe, and Joyce stand in the windows of Antwerp’s red-light district, promising to make men’s desires come true—if only for half an hour. Pledged to the fierce Madam and a mysterious pimp named Dele, the girls share an apartment but little else—they keep their heads down, knowing that one step out of line could cost them a week’s wages. They open their bodies to strangers but their hearts to no one, each focused on earning enough to get herself free, to send money home or save up for her own future.

Then, suddenly, a murder shatters the still surface of their lives. Drawn together by tragedy and the loss of one of their own, the women realize that they must choose between their secrets and their safety. As they begin to tell their stories, their confessions reveal the face in Efe’s hidden photograph, Ama’s lifelong search for a father, Joyce’s true name, and Sisi’s deepest secrets�-and all their tales of fear, displacement, and love, concluding in a chance meeting with a handsome, sinister stranger.

On Black Sisters Street marks the U.S. publication debut of Chika Unigwe, a brilliant new writer and a standout voice among contemporary African authors. Raw, vivid, unforgettable, and inspired by a powerful oral storytelling tradition, this novel illuminates the dream of the West—and that dream’s illusion and annihilation—as seen through African eyes. It is a story of courage, unity, and hope, of women’s friendships and of bonds that, once forged, cannot be broken.]]>
258 Chika Unigwe 1400068339 Mpho 0 3.87 2007 On Black Sisters Street
author: Chika Unigwe
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.87
book published: 2007
rating: 0
read at: 2020/05/02
date added: 2020/05/26
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Unigwe’s gripping tale chronicles the lives of four African women working as prostitutes in Antwerp’s red-light district. As Unigwe tells her characters� stories in interweaving narratives and time lines, the women embody depths of fear and displacement, as well as the will to survive and prosper.An important and accomplished novel that leaves a strong aftertaste. Unigwe gives voice to those who are voiceless and bestows dignity on those who are stripped of it.
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Everything Good Will Come 227730 Everything Good Will Come introduces an important new voice in contemporary fiction. It is 1971, a year after the Biafran War, and Nigeria is under military rule—though the politics of the state matter less than those of her home to Enitan Taiwo, an eleven-year-old girl tired of waiting for school to start. Will her mother, who has become deeply religious since the death of Taiwo's brother, allow her friendship with the new girl next door, the brash and beautiful Sheri Bakare? Everything Good Will Come charts the fate of these two African girls, one born of privilege and the other, a lower class "half-caste"; one who is prepared to manipulate the traditional system while the other attempts to defy it.

Written in the voice of Enitan, the novel traces this unusual friendship into their adult lives, against the backdrop of tragedy, family strife, and a war-torn Nigeria. In the end, Everything Good Will Come is Enitan's story; one of a fiercely intelligent, strong young woman coming of age in a culture that still insists on feminine submission. Enitan bucks the familial and political systems until she is confronted with the one desire too precious to forfeit in the name of personal freedom: her desire for a child. Everything Good Will Come evokes the sights and smells of Africa while imparting a wise and universal story of love, friendship, prejudice, survival, politics, and the cost of divided loyalties.]]>
336 Sefi Atta 1844370569 Mpho 0
Atta's ability to use her words carefully and purposefully really won my heart. She employed imagery that are so relatable and realistic. She draws the attention of her reader to every little detail that makes the life of a girl child or a woman, as the case may be, a trial by the society.
Enitan evolution story from been a daddy’s girl to be a girl that questions all the embargoes society place against women in the Nigerian society showed how fearless the author is.

The novel brings to fore the gender disparity that seemed to mar the Nigerian society. How the system both traditional and even legal system seemed to place every woman at a disadvantaged position. If you say that the novel had a strong feminism theme, you are not incorrect.]]>
3.88 2004 Everything Good Will Come
author: Sefi Atta
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.88
book published: 2004
rating: 0
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With the story having its settings in Lagos, Nigeria and London, the book explores the reality of women and how patriarchy has explored the bias of the society to remain relevant.

Atta's ability to use her words carefully and purposefully really won my heart. She employed imagery that are so relatable and realistic. She draws the attention of her reader to every little detail that makes the life of a girl child or a woman, as the case may be, a trial by the society.
Enitan evolution story from been a daddy’s girl to be a girl that questions all the embargoes society place against women in the Nigerian society showed how fearless the author is.

The novel brings to fore the gender disparity that seemed to mar the Nigerian society. How the system both traditional and even legal system seemed to place every woman at a disadvantaged position. If you say that the novel had a strong feminism theme, you are not incorrect.
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What We Carry: A Memoir 52575641
How much can you judge another woman's choices? What if that woman is your mother?

Maya Shanbhag Lang grew up idolizing her brilliant mother, an accomplished physician who immigrated to the United States from India and completed her residency, all while raising her children and keeping a traditional Indian home. She had always been a source of support--until Maya became a mother herself. Then, the parent who had once been so capable and attentive turned unavailable and distant. Struggling to understand this abrupt change while raising her own young child, Maya searches for answers and soon learns that her mother is living with Alzheimer's

When Maya steps in to care for her, she comes to realize that despite their closeness, she never really knew her mother. Were her cherished stories--about life in India, about what it means to be an immigrant, about motherhood itself--even true? Affecting, raw, and poetic, What We Carry is the story of a daughter and her mother, of lies and truths, of receiving and giving care--and how we cannot grow up until we fully understand the people who raised us.

Advance praise for What We Carry

"A dazzling, courageous memoir about the weight we carry as women, daughters, and mothers--and what happens when we let go. Lang takes us deep into the heart of her relationship with her mother, a brilliant psychiatrist and Indian immigrant with long-buried secrets. After a health crisis brings mother and daughter under the same roof for the first time since childhood, Lang grapples with new information about the parent she'd idolized, and realizes it's time to tell the story of her own life. What We Carry is a love letter to everyone who has swum through turbulent water before reaching the shores of selfhood."--Chloe Benjamin, New York Times bestselling author of The Immortalists]]>
288 Maya Shanbhag Lang 052551239X Mpho 0 to-read 4.30 2020 What We Carry: A Memoir
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average rating: 4.30
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The Ones with Purpose 39979175 Nozizwe Cynthia Jele Mpho 0 to-read 4.19 2018 The Ones with Purpose
author: Nozizwe Cynthia Jele
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.19
book published: 2018
rating: 0
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The Book of Gifts 51222497 230 Craig Higginson 1770107002 Mpho 0 to-read 4.18 The Book of Gifts
author: Craig Higginson
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average rating: 4.18
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Stay with Me 32969150
Yejide and Akin have been married since they met and fell in love at university. Though many expected Akin to take several wives, he and Yejide have always agreed: polygamy is not for them. But four years into their marriage--after consulting fertility doctors and healers, trying strange teas and unlikely cures--Yejide is still not pregnant. She assumes she still has time--until her family arrives on her doorstep with a young woman they introduce as Akin's second wife. Furious, shocked, and livid with jealousy, Yejide knows the only way to save her marriage is to get pregnant, which, finally, she does--but at a cost far greater than she could have dared to imagine. An electrifying novel of enormous emotional power, Stay With Me asks how much we can sacrifice for the sake of family.]]>
260 Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀ 0451494601 Mpho 5
Yejide and Akin’s marriage is sorely tested by their inability to have kids Pushing the question towards crisis,
as a result of their childlessness, considered a failure by society. However, we see just how harrowing Yejide’s struggle is and it points to the fact that when it comes to childlessness the social burden of failure falls on the woman disproportionately It makes one wonder, how deeply are we, as a society conditioned to think that womanhood equals to motherhood? The pain she suffers through not being able to be a true “woman� by bearing children is absolutely heart-breaking why is a woman’s value placed on her ability to have children? The novel takes you on a roller-coaster of emotions, i personaly got mad at their situation, to think this is a real life story to a lot of women out here, the standards the pressures and expectations that families and society put on women is sickening.

"before you call a snail a weakling, tie your house to your back and carry it around for a week" ]]>
4.04 2017 Stay with Me
author: Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.04
book published: 2017
rating: 5
read at: 2020/05/23
date added: 2020/05/23
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An emotionally stirring examination of the desperate actions some are willing to take when biology refuses to align with societal and personal expectations, Ayobami writes not just with extraordinary grace but with genuine wisdom about love and loss and the possibility of redemption.

Yejide and Akin’s marriage is sorely tested by their inability to have kids Pushing the question towards crisis,
as a result of their childlessness, considered a failure by society. However, we see just how harrowing Yejide’s struggle is and it points to the fact that when it comes to childlessness the social burden of failure falls on the woman disproportionately It makes one wonder, how deeply are we, as a society conditioned to think that womanhood equals to motherhood? The pain she suffers through not being able to be a true “woman� by bearing children is absolutely heart-breaking why is a woman’s value placed on her ability to have children? The novel takes you on a roller-coaster of emotions, i personaly got mad at their situation, to think this is a real life story to a lot of women out here, the standards the pressures and expectations that families and society put on women is sickening.

"before you call a snail a weakling, tie your house to your back and carry it around for a week"
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A Bit of Difference 15830495 222 Sefi Atta 1876756993 Mpho 0
A Bit of Difference is, for me, just as its title articulates � a study of the subtle but vital differences between people, cultures, circumstances and even moments in time. One small shift changes everything. And while the details may be dissimilar, the consequences of these kinds of change are universally the same.
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3.48 2012 A Bit of Difference
author: Sefi Atta
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.48
book published: 2012
rating: 0
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Atta’s novel explores those universal concerns of belonging and identity, but set against a particular environment where ethnic distrust and/or racial and class hierarchies threaten the self, both at home and in the “adopted country�. Deola feels somewhat of an outsider. In England, she feels her views or experience are not respected by her employing organisation and she is conscious always of being black in a white country. Back home in Nigeria, she’s aware of corruption, and of the way Nigerians rank and distrust each other on a whole range of grounds.

A Bit of Difference is, for me, just as its title articulates � a study of the subtle but vital differences between people, cultures, circumstances and even moments in time. One small shift changes everything. And while the details may be dissimilar, the consequences of these kinds of change are universally the same.

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<![CDATA[Zenzele: A Letter for My Daughter]]> 666276
Rich with insight, history, and philosophy, Zenzele is a powerful and compelling story that is both revolutionary and revelatory--the story of one life that poignantly speaks of all lives.]]>
194 J. Nozipo Maraire 0385318227 Mpho 0 to-read 4.12 1995 Zenzele: A Letter for My Daughter
author: J. Nozipo Maraire
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.12
book published: 1995
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Living While Feminist 52317581 This collection takes us from an examination of skin and hair, to an exploration of pleasure, sex, and safety. They explore our bodies and health. They examine the way that institutions can trap us and how we can trap ourselves. It reminds us that feminism is dynamic, open, and ever relevant.]]> 288 Jen Thorpe Mpho 0 to-read 4.52 2020 Living While Feminist
author: Jen Thorpe
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.52
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Wounds of Ignorance 35672385 Zanele Dlamini Mpho 0 to-read 4.04 Wounds of Ignorance
author: Zanele Dlamini
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<![CDATA[Hardly Working: A Travel Memoir of Sorts]]> 38451597 224 Zukiswa Wanner 0987019813 Mpho 0 to-read 3.93 2018 Hardly Working: A Travel Memoir of Sorts
author: Zukiswa Wanner
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.93
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<![CDATA[Red Apple Dreams and Other Stories]]> 48548053 Red Apple Dreams and Other Stories is a compilation of fifteen stories � eleven penned by Siphiwo Mahala and four by guest authors. The stories range from the 1950s to the present era, from rural to urban landscapes, and interrogate both marginal and complex topical issues like the land question. This compilation blends fresh and classic stories into an intertextual feast � in which Mahala and guest contributors showcase and respond to time-honoured works by Can Themba, James Matthews and Njabulo Ndebele.]]> 214 Siphiwo Mahala Mpho 0 to-read 3.86 Red Apple Dreams and Other Stories
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Between the World and Me 25489625 “This is your country, this is your world, this is your body, and you must find some way to live within the all of it.�

In a profound work that pivots from the biggest questions about American history and ideals to the most intimate concerns of a father for his son, Ta-Nehisi Coates offers a powerful new framework for understanding our nation’s history and current crisis. Americans have built an empire on the idea of “race,� a falsehood that damages us all but falls most heavily on the bodies of black women and men—bodies exploited through slavery and segregation, and, today, threatened, locked up, and murdered out of all proportion. What is it like to inhabit a black body and find a way to live within it? And how can we all honestly reckon with this fraught history and free ourselves from its burden?

Between the World and Me is Ta-Nehisi Coates’s attempt to answer these questions in a letter to his adolescent son. Coates shares with his son—and readers—the story of his awakening to the truth about his place in the world through a series of revelatory experiences, from Howard University to Civil War battlefields, from the South Side of Chicago to Paris, from his childhood home to the living rooms of mothers whose children’s lives were taken as American plunder. Beautifully woven from personal narrative, reimagined history, and fresh, emotionally charged reportage, Between the World and Me clearly illuminates the past, bracingly confronts our present, and offers a transcendent vision for a way forward.]]>
152 Ta-Nehisi Coates Mpho 0 to-read 4.40 2015 Between the World and Me
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Born on a Tuesday 27214023
In far northwestern Nigeria, Dantala lives among a gang of street boys who sleep under a kuka tree. During the election, the boys are paid by the Small Party to cause trouble. When their attempt to burn down the opposition’s local headquarters ends in disaster, Dantala must run for his life, leaving his best friend behind. He makes his way to a mosque that provides him with food, shelter, and guidance. With his quick aptitude and modest nature, Dantala becomes a favored apprentice to the mosque’s sheikh. Before long, he is faced with a terrible conflict of loyalties, as one of the sheikh’s closest advisors begins to raise his own radical movement. When bloodshed erupts in the city around him, Dantala must decide what kind of Muslim—and what kind of man—he wants to be. Told in Dantala’s naïve, searching voice, this astonishing debut explores the ways in which young men are seduced by religious fundamentalism and violence.]]>
256 Elnathan John 0802124828 Mpho 0 to-read 4.04 2015 Born on a Tuesday
author: Elnathan John
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average rating: 4.04
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<![CDATA[On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous]]> 41880609 On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous is a letter from a son to a mother who cannot read. Written when the speaker, Little Dog, is in his late twenties, the letter unearths a family's history that began before he was born � a history whose epicenter is rooted in Vietnam � and serves as a doorway into parts of his life his mother has never known, all of it leading to an unforgettable revelation. At once a witness to the fraught yet undeniable love between a single mother and her son, it is also a brutally honest exploration of race, class, and masculinity. Asking questions central to our American moment, immersed as we are in addiction, violence, and trauma, but undergirded by compassion and tenderness, On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous is as much about the power of telling one's own story as it is about the obliterating silence of not being heard.

With stunning urgency and grace, Ocean Vuong writes of people caught between disparate worlds, and asks how we heal and rescue one another without forsaking who we are. The question of how to survive, and how to make of it a kind of joy, powers the most important debut novel of many years.]]>
246 Ocean Vuong 0525562028 Mpho 4


The novel asks readers to pay attention to what they might otherwise turn away from, the experiences of war-related trauma transmitted over several generations, the difficulty of being a nonwhite refugee in the United States, the despair brought on by poverty (which the novel tackles movingly ), and the need to assert a queer sexuality in a punishing heteronormative culture. The people caught up in such struggles are rarely considered beautiful, and certainly rarely, if ever, an inspiration for replication, but Little Dog is special in his insistence that they are beautiful. In doing so, he focuses attention on what makes life worth living even in the midst of so much refusal and abandonment. This kind of living is hard work.]]>
4.05 2019 On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous
author: Ocean Vuong
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.05
book published: 2019
rating: 4
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"i am thinking of beauty again, how some things are hunted because we have deemed them beautiful. If, relative to the history of our planet, an individual life is so short, a blink, as they say, then to be gorgeous, even from the day you're born to the day you die, is to be gorgeous only briefly.�



The novel asks readers to pay attention to what they might otherwise turn away from, the experiences of war-related trauma transmitted over several generations, the difficulty of being a nonwhite refugee in the United States, the despair brought on by poverty (which the novel tackles movingly ), and the need to assert a queer sexuality in a punishing heteronormative culture. The people caught up in such struggles are rarely considered beautiful, and certainly rarely, if ever, an inspiration for replication, but Little Dog is special in his insistence that they are beautiful. In doing so, he focuses attention on what makes life worth living even in the midst of so much refusal and abandonment. This kind of living is hard work.
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Thirteen Cents 761626 This novel won the coveted Commonwealth Writer's Prize.

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168 K. Sello Duiker 0864863578 Mpho 0 to-read 3.74 2000 Thirteen Cents
author: K. Sello Duiker
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.74
book published: 2000
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The God Who Made Mistakes 31865085
With wit and sympathy, The God Who Made Mistakes explores the origins of Themba’s unease and confused sense of identity. It takes us back to a river bank in Alex, the township where he grew up, and to a boy he once knew who met a violent death there. As the story peels back the painful layers of recollection, Themba’s domineering mother, Differentia, has a major decision to make. When developers set their sights on buying the family home and building a supermarket in its place, tendrils of envy and greed begin to curl out of unexpected quarters, as the unscrupulous seek to grab a share of the spoils. Back yard tenant, Tinyiko, with her short skirts and questionable morality, and Themba’s disgraced, unemployed elder brother, Bongani, begin to plot and scheme, while across town Themba’s fragile marriage faces its biggest challenge. When his past walks unexpectedly into his present, it threatens to blow apart his carefully constructed world.

The God Who Made Mistakes is a powerful, poignant story of unexpressed longings which, when finally uttered, can no longer be contained.

‘There is so much more to come from this incredible storyteller.� � BLAQUE MAGAZINE]]>
235 Ekow Duker 1770104259 Mpho 0 to-read 3.84 2016 The God Who Made Mistakes
author: Ekow Duker
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.84
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Measuring Time 563722

A novel of ardent loyalty, encroaching modernity, political desire, and personal liberation, Measuring Time is a heart-wrenching history of Nigeria, portrayed through the eyes of a single family.]]>
383 Helon Habila 0393052516 Mpho 4 In fact all the themes of the book are somehow linked to this notion of waiting and the passage of time. As each character metaphorically watches the clock their expectations are different, some don’t appear to know exactly why or what they are waiting for. On the other hand you have someone like uncle Iliya, whose hopes are more clear-cut but frustrating circumstances force him to wait. Not unlike how Mamo waits to hear from � and maybe see LaMamo again. It is clear from both his books that Habila is drawn to exploring the topic of anticipation and all its manifestations. So he is consistent in that respect.]]> 3.86 2007 Measuring Time
author: Helon Habila
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.86
book published: 2007
rating: 4
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Measuring Time confirms Habila as an exceptional voice in African literature. His great skill is to infuse the individual and the local with panoramic, historical significance. Colonial history, tribal myth, 20th-century politics, Plutarch and the poetry of Christopher Okigbo are tightly woven into precise and loving descriptions of landscape. The novel's triumph is to allow hope to endure." - Stephanie Merritt, The Observer
In fact all the themes of the book are somehow linked to this notion of waiting and the passage of time. As each character metaphorically watches the clock their expectations are different, some don’t appear to know exactly why or what they are waiting for. On the other hand you have someone like uncle Iliya, whose hopes are more clear-cut but frustrating circumstances force him to wait. Not unlike how Mamo waits to hear from � and maybe see LaMamo again. It is clear from both his books that Habila is drawn to exploring the topic of anticipation and all its manifestations. So he is consistent in that respect.
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<![CDATA[Baked in Pain: Your Traumatic Past May Just be the Fuel You Need to Soar]]> 42801220 Buy your copy of Baked in Pain today!]]> 218 Amanda Dambuza Mpho 0 to-read 3.89 Baked in Pain: Your Traumatic Past May Just be the Fuel You Need to Soar
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<![CDATA[O'Mandingo!: The Only Black at a Dinner Party]]> 155903 276 Eric Miyeni 1770091874 Mpho 0 to-read 3.83 2007 O'Mandingo!: The Only Black at a Dinner Party
author: Eric Miyeni
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.83
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<![CDATA[Reclaiming the Soil: A Black Girl’s Struggle to Find Her African Self]]> 41944120 roots. David Robbins

The Rosie Motene story is about a young girl born to the Bafokeng nation during the apartheid era
in South Africa. At the time, Rosie’s mother worked for a white Jewish family in Johannesburg who
offered to raise the child as one of their own. This generous gesture by the family created many
opportunities for Rosie but also a trail of sacrifices for her parents. As she grew, Rosie struggled to
and her true identity. She had access to the best of everything but as a black girl she floundered
without her own culture or language. This book describes Rosie’s journey through her fog of
alienation to the belated dawning of her self-discovery as an African.]]>
0 Rosie Motene Mpho 0 to-read 3.02 Reclaiming the Soil: A Black Girl’s Struggle to Find Her African Self
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Chronicles Of The Huggist 51333492 He kisses your neck after zipping up your dress. You imagine him unzipping it and kissing you all over. When he gives you the stapler, he runs his index finger over your palm. You shiver slightly and begin to sweat. When your computer freezes, he bends down right next to you, making jokes about old computers and how he fixes them, you imagine him fixing you.
But you, you don't do office romance —or Do you?]]>
160 Zanele Dlamini 062074491X Mpho 0 to-read 4.12 2019 Chronicles Of The Huggist
author: Zanele Dlamini
name: Mpho
average rating: 4.12
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<![CDATA[Hair: Weaving & Unpicking Stories of Identity]]> 49469486
Foreword by Palesa Morudu

Stories by: Diane Awerbuck, Tumelo Buthelezi, Craig Higginson, Mishka Hoosen, Bobby Jordan, Shubnum Khan, Fred Khumalo, Bongani Kona, Alex Latimer, Kholofelo Maenetsha, Songeziwe Mahlangu, Mapule Mohulatsi, Tiffany Kagure Mugo, Sally-Ann Murray, Sue Nyathi, Alex Smith, Melissa A. Volker, Lester Walbrugh, Mary Watson, Michael Yee

Photographs by: Kirsten Arendse, Saaleha Idrees Bamjee, Nina Bekink, Noncedo Charmaine, Keran Elah, Retha Ferguson, Sue Greeff, Liesl Jobson, Simangele Kalisa, Andy Mkosi, Manyatsa Monyamane, Nick Mulgrew, Aniek Nieuwenhuis, Chris Snelling, Karina M. Szczurek, Lebogang Tlhako, Karina Turok, Michael Tymbios, Jasmin Valcarcel, Megan Voysey]]>
299 Joanne Hichens 0994680546 Mpho 0 to-read 4.24 Hair: Weaving & Unpicking Stories of Identity
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Manchester Happened 44290385
If there's one thing the characters in Jennifer Makumbi's stories know, it's how to field a question.

'Let me buy you a cup of tea... what are you doing in England?'

'Do these children of yours speak any Luganda?'

'Did you know that man Idi Amin?'

But perhaps the most difficult question of all is the one they ask themselves: 'You mean this is England?'

Told with empathy, humour and compassion, these vibrant, kaleidoscopic stories re-imagine the journey of Ugandans who choose to make England their home. Weaving between Manchester and Kampala, this dazzling, polyphonic collection will captivate anyone who has ever wondered what it means to truly belong.]]>
306 Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi 178607589X Mpho 5 3.96 2019 Manchester Happened
author: Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.96
book published: 2019
rating: 5
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A masterpiece, written with passion and conviction . This collection of short stories will resonate with those who know intimately that the space between "here and back home" is more than just distance. Manchester happened!
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Black Tax: Burden or Ubuntu? 53021483 ‘The real significance of this book lies in the fact that it tells us more about the everyday life of black South Africans. It delves into the essence of black family life and the secret anguish of family members who often battle to cope.� � Niq Mhlongo

A secret torment for some, a proud responsibility for others, ‘black tax� is a daily reality for thousands of black South Africans. In this thought-provoking and moving anthology, a provocative range of voices share their deeply personal stories.

With the majority of black South Africans still living in poverty today, many black middle-class households are connected to working-class or jobless homes. Some believe supporting family members is an undeniable part of African culture and question whether it should even be labelled as a kind of tax.

Others point to the financial pressure it places on black students and professionals, who, as a consequence, struggle to build their own wealth. Many feel they are taking over what is essentially a government responsibility.

The contributions also investigate the historical roots of black tax, the concept of the black family and the black middle class.

In giving voice to so many different perspectives, Black Tax hopes to start a dialogue on this widespread social phenomenon.

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274 Niq Mhlongo 186842975X Mpho 0 to-read 3.96 Black Tax: Burden or Ubuntu?
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<![CDATA[Black Girls Must Die Exhausted: And Baby Makes Two]]> 49551621 In this highly anticipated second installment in the Black Girls Must Die Exhausted series, Tabitha Walker copes with more of life's challenges and a happy surprise--a baby--with a little help and lots of love from friends old and new.

For Tabitha Walker, her grandmother's old adage, "Black girls must die exhausted" is becoming all too true. Discovering she's pregnant--after she was told she may not be able to have biological children--Tabitha throws herself headfirst into the world of "single mothers by choice." Between her job, doctor's appointments, and preparing for the baby, she's worn out. And that's before her boss at the local news station starts getting complaints from viewers about Tabitha's natural hair.

When an unexpected turn of events draws Marc--her on and off-again ex-boyfriend--back into her world with surprising demands, and the situation at work begins to threaten her livelihood and her identity, Tabitha must make some tough decisions about her and her baby's future. It takes a village to raise a child, and Tabitha turns to the women who have always been there for her.

Bolstered by the fierce support of Ms. Gretchen, her grandmother's best friend, the counsel of her closest friends Laila and Alexis, and the calming presence of her doula Andouele, Tabitha must find a way to navigate motherhood on her own terms. Will she harness the bravery, strength, and self-love she'll need to keep "the village" together, find her voice at work, and settle things with Marc before the baby arrives?]]>
215 Jayne Allen Mpho 0 to-read 4.10 2019 Black Girls Must Die Exhausted: And Baby Makes Two
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<![CDATA[News from Home: Short Stories (Interlink World Fiction)]]> 8025746 320 Sefi Atta 156656803X Mpho 0 to-read 3.85 2009 News from Home: Short Stories (Interlink World Fiction)
author: Sefi Atta
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average rating: 3.85
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PERFECT IMPERFECTIONS 50751930 256 Makanaka Mavengere-Munsaka 192833783X Mpho 0 to-read 3.94 PERFECT IMPERFECTIONS
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The Broken River Tent 40500905 Following in the footsteps of Heart of Redness by Zakes Mda, Mphuthumi Ntabeni’s writing in The Broken River Tent brings to life what James Baldwin said when he wrote that the responsibility of the writer is to excavate the experience of the people who produced him.
‘I am gathering the wind from the four corners of the earth. Before my body became the property of maggots, I had no wisdom in me. But when I joined the ancestors, wisdom became my companion. I have come to you as a friend, and a guide for your thoughts � My duty is to teach you the message I denied with my own life on earth. I have been a man of misfortunes. Yet my heart is not bitter. And that, I carry to Qamata as my prize.�
The story is told through the eyes of a young Xhosa man, Phila, who, after being under immense mental and emotional pressure in the pursuit of his history and the history of his people, enters a sacred space of intense spiritual recognition between the living and the dead. He is visited by the spirit of ancestor Maqoma, who, while he lived, was the Xhosa chief at the forefront of fighting British colonialism in the Eastern Cape. Phila and Maqoma engage in spiritual conversations about culture, history, literature, religion, the past and contemporary South African life.
Phila goes through what he describes as the triple ‘N� condition � neurasthenia, narcolepsy and cultural ne plus ultra. This makes him feel far removed from events happening around him but gives him access to the analeptic memory of his people.]]>
0 Mphuthumi Ntabeni 1928337759 Mpho 4 4.23 The Broken River Tent
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'i am gathering the wind from the four corners of the earth. Before my body became the property of maggots, I had no wisdom in me. But when I joined the ancestors, wisdom became my companion. I have come to you as a friend, and a guide for your thoughts ... My duty is to teach you the message I denied with my own life on earth. I have been a man of misfortunes. Yet my heart is not bitter. And that, I carry to Qamata as my prize.'
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Beauty's Gift 6465669 Beauty's Gift is a riveting, moving tale of how four women lose their best friend. And how they decide to change the fate of their own lives as well as the lives of those closest to them. The AIDS-activist Zackie Achmat described it as "one of the most important books about HIV/AIDS in our country."

The FFF used to consist of Five Friends: Edith, Cordelia, Amanda, Doris and Beauty. But then Beauty suddenly becomes very ill, and after six short weeks, passes away. On her deathbed she begs Amanda to promise her one thing - that she and the rest of the FFF will not pass away prematurely like she is doing. All because of an unfaithful husband . . . Ukuhle, she begs of Amanda. May you live a long life, and may you become old. Edith, Cordelia, Amanda and Doris all swear an oath after Beauty's premature death, that they won't have unprotected sex - not even with their husbands - and that they will find out their own HIV status as well as that of their husbands/partners.

This is Sindiwe Magona at her very best - writing about social issues, and not keeping quiet. Speak up, she says to women in Africa. Stand up, and take control of your own lives.]]>
192 Sindiwe Magona 0795702728 Mpho 4
Blame seems to be laid at the hands of men who can't control themselves, and this seems rather facile. While it's true that women must demand their independence and rights, and protect themselves, the division between sexes that is laid bare in this book feels unnatural.]]>
3.83 2008 Beauty's Gift
author: Sindiwe Magona
name: Mpho
average rating: 3.83
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Beauty raises important points here about the Aids pandemic that is decimating the country and filling up graveyards, creating countless orphans.The author raise important points here aboute Aids pandemic that is decimating the country and filling up graveyards, creating countless orphans.

Blame seems to be laid at the hands of men who can't control themselves, and this seems rather facile. While it's true that women must demand their independence and rights, and protect themselves, the division between sexes that is laid bare in this book feels unnatural.
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The Old Drift 40060700 A Zambian debut novel that follows three generations of three families, telling the story of a nation, and of the grand sweep of time

On the banks of the Zambezi River, a few miles from the majestic Victoria Falls, there was once a colonial settlement called The Old Drift. Here begins the story of a small African nation, told by a swarm-like chorus that calls itself man’s greatest nemesis.

In 1904, in a smoky room at the hotel across the river, an Old Drifter named Percy M. Clark, foggy with fever, makes a mistake that entangles the fates of an Italian hotelier and an African busboy. This sets off a cycle of unwitting retribution between three Zambian families (black, white, brown) as they collide and converge over the course of the century, into the present and beyond. As the generations pass, their lives � their triumphs, errors, losses and hopes � form a symphony about what it means to be human.

From a woman covered with hair and another plagued with endless tears, to forbidden love affairs and fiery political ones, to homegrown technological marvels like Afronauts, microdrones and viral vaccines � this novel sweeps over the years and the globe.]]>
576 Namwali Serpell 1781090491 Mpho 0 to-read 3.74 2019 The Old Drift
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<![CDATA[I Choose to Live: Life After Losing Gugu]]> 49616461
Told in mesmerising detail, this is the remarkable story of a wife’s courage and stamina to make sense of her loss and to find an authentic life after Gugu’s untimely death. Through her get-up-and-go attitude and insightful life lessons, Letshego’s journey shows that, despite adversities, it is possible to Choose to Live.]]>
217 Letshego Zulu Mpho 0 to-read 4.00 I Choose to Live: Life After Losing Gugu
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When Hope Whispers 19464766
Despite only being 33 years old, Zoleka Mandela has endured enough to fill several lifetimes. While she may be a member of South Africa’s own royal family, Zoleka has not led a sheltered life. She has travelled down paths which most would not dare; from the horror of losing two children within two years, to the shadowy journey through cocaine addiction and rehab, and being diagnosed with cancer.

Though she was robbed of her children, stripped of her sobriety, and subject to a disease that necessitated a double mastectomy, Zoleka Mandela is not a victim. She is a survivor, and her story serves as testimony to the strength of the human spirit in fighting against life’s challenges. Zoleka is a living example of success in spite of overwhelming challenges.

Zoleka is now clean and cancer-free. Zoleka Mandela had her last session of chemotherapy in April this year, and has been sober for 36 months. Through her story, it is impossible not to have faith in the good things in life, and possible to believe that anything is achievable.

Zoleka’s book is an ideal read for those exposed to life’s challenges and traumas � from a mother who has had to deal with the loss of a child, or families who have had to endure the pains of cancer, or those who have dealt with the stress of addiction � it is a universal read exhibiting the power of healing.]]>
Zoleka Mandela Mpho 4 3.87 2013 When Hope Whispers
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average rating: 3.87
book published: 2013
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Our Wife & Other Stories 6586840 Our Wife is the author's first complete published work of short stories; the work has won the Best First Book (African Region) Commonwealth Prize 1990/91.]]> 210 Karen King-Arbisala 1553940105 Mpho 4 to-read 3.88 1990 Our Wife & Other Stories
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<![CDATA[Cheesecutters and gymslips: South Africans at boarding school]]> 4513137 206 Robin Malan 1415200602 Mpho 0 to-read 3.60 2008 Cheesecutters and gymslips: South Africans at boarding school
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average rating: 3.60
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