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Beyond the Tough Exterior tackles the emotional straightjacket so many men are raised to wear �� the one that says “be strong,�� but really means “don’t feel.�� Danielle Crentsil does a great job unpacking how those messages are passed down through culture, media, parenting, and peer norms, and how damaging they can be.

What I appreciated most is the blend of cultural commentary, historical context, and real-world application. There’s thoughtful discussion of therapy, parenting, role models, and media narratives �� and I think a lot of men will feel seen in these pages, especially those who’ve been silently struggling to live up to an outdated version of masculinity.

That said, the book does get a bit repetitive at times. Many of the same points about stoicism and emotional suppression show up chapter after chapter without adding much new. And while the tone is accessible (which is great), I found myself wishing for a bit more depth �� maybe more research, more concrete strategies, or more nuanced engagement with opposing views.

Still, this is a valuable read, especially for men just beginning to explore emotional awareness, or for anyone raising boys and wanting to do it differently.