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Nov 23, 2013 09:11AM

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♥✞♬ⓜⓐⓡⓘⓑⓔⓛ♬✞� ∀¢¢£₱₮ Με � {Brenda} wrote: "Spartan King Leonidas wrote: "I feel like my parents are pulling me all over the place and they want to move, but I like it here where I am now and I have friends here and stuff, but like I don't ..."
I've tried telling them that I don't want to move, but they keep insisting about moving
Julia...you really cannot "do" anything in that kind of situation...just know that their issues are with each other and that no matter what the future holds...they both still love you, are not angry or let down by you and will not expect you to take sides....
(I say this as a recent survivor of divorce and on behalf of the two daughters who survived it with me !)
(I say this as a recent survivor of divorce and on behalf of the two daughters who survived it with me !)
I have a lot of the common symptoms of depression, but I can't come to tell my parents.
My mom always turns it into her thing when I get upset. When I'm down for no reason, she comes in and tries to get me to talk. I can't really trust her, so I don't say anything but she goes "Come on talk to me.... seriously. What did I do to make you mad at me? I don't understand. I'm sorry if I did, but why are you mad at me?" and I literally wasn't mad at her for any reason until she said that.
And my dad just kinda scares me.
My mom always turns it into her thing when I get upset. When I'm down for no reason, she comes in and tries to get me to talk. I can't really trust her, so I don't say anything but she goes "Come on talk to me.... seriously. What did I do to make you mad at me? I don't understand. I'm sorry if I did, but why are you mad at me?" and I literally wasn't mad at her for any reason until she said that.
And my dad just kinda scares me.


I wrote a letter but I haven't actually given it to them :/

You know what, you really should give it to them. I know I said I haven't told them yet but I have a story and if I tell them who I am they will ask my story too and I really don't want to talk about it with them.If you don't have something like that you should. And if they are not homophobic because it can be dangerous too.