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Have you ever been f**ked over by a friend?
You should probably take the f-word out of this thread
I haven't had anything as bad as that, but here's what happened to me.A trusted friend asked to borrow three of my games, games that I loved more than any of my other games because they were games that me and my aunt (that I don't get to see very often) would talk about all the time. We both enjoyed playing the games together and would often share tips with each other.
Anyways, after she kept asking over and over again, I finally agreed to let her borrow the games. "She's borrowed stuff before," I told myself. "These games aren't any different."
Well as it turned out, the games WERE different because she lost them almost right away! :(
These games were not easily replaceable. They were fairly old games, so they weren't really sold at Gamestop, and are very difficult to find on any website. Besides which, all three games cost about $20.
My friend refused to pay me back for the lost games, only giving the explanation that her parents would not be able to afford to pay me back. (She didn't even bother trying to think of ways that SHE could pay us back, since SHE was the one to lose my games. She relied solely on her parents, who had nothing to do with what happened whatsoever.)
To this day, I have not gotten the money she owes us, not the games she lost. :(
Yup. Obviously I'm not friends with her anymore.
I thought so. :) Do you have a story?
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As my grandma always says, people are no d*** good.
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yes i have been f**k by a friend, she drug me =(
One time, when I left to go to the bathroom, I was ten.....my friend jacked twenty bucks from me. She was sleeping over, and if you don't know, when your ten, twenty dollars is like a million bucks...
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yes and dont worry she got fined
i now live in airle but this was when i was in mackay
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ohh thats y i live in australia. =D
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i know thats wat i said but i had no witness so they couldn't do much
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Angelique wrote: "Well that sucks, I hope you are ok!"
yer im fine
yer im fine
Yeah... been f**ked over by a few "friends" ...
Last year I had a best friend. I trusted her more than anything. Looking back, it was actually not the healthiest relationship. Basically, we did what she wanted only. I left all my other friends for the most part, because every time I tried to hang out with them she got upset and bitchy or just distant. I told her everything, she lied every other sentence. The worst part was that I trusted her so much I told her I am bisexual. At the time only two other people knew. She was fine with it at first, her cousin's gay, blah blah blah. Then, I got the idea that I wanted to start a GSA at school. Enter the cold shoulder. She ignored me, gave me the silent treatment, ditched me, and bitched. Worst of all, she told one of her friends, a loud mouth too, that I'm bisexual. I guess that she was fine with my sexuality as long as she was the only one that knew, but as soon as she was 'threatened' with other people knowing, she couldn't be seen with me. She probably thought, since I was gonna tell anyway, then what's the harm. well, needless to say, that was the final straw in her relationship. after that I started looking back over our friendship and realising how crappy it was. I didn't even see it when she was spreading rumors to fellow councellors at a camp we were volunteering at that me and another volunteer were making out when the kids weren't looking. she started them calling me the "camp whore" I never even kissed the guy. (well, he kissed me, but I wasn't expecting it, and it was a second, and certainly not 'making out'. it was a pretty crappy first kiss actually).
Anyway, she kinda screwed me over multiple times.
I don't see the problem in cussing in this thread. there's stuff I don't like to see but I'm not telling anyone to stop. I let my friend borrow my laptop and the internet security wasn't working so she torrented a computer security remover and it wiped Windows completely off my laptop and now it's useless. I bought it with my graduation money and it was a huge nice one and now it's nothing but junk. it has ubuntu but that sucks and I'm still super pissed about it even though it was about 1 year ago. I also let her borrow some $130 hair extensions that I never wore once cause I didn't even get a chance to (probably wouldn't have liked them anyways, too fake for me) and she ruined them and never talked to me again. crappy ass friend she was.
Jane wrote: "Last year I had a best friend. I trusted her more than anything. Looking back, it was actually not the healthiest relationship. Basically, we did what she wanted only. I left all my other friends f..."A similar thing happened to me, hope everything's okay now though.
Every story posted here is so much worse than what happened to me. :O
I'm just thankful you all had the courage to post, and share you're experiences. I thank each of you.
I had this friend last year, S, and we were really close. Our siblings dated and her brother, now my sister's ex,is one of the reasons i started cutting. We kept each other strong. We promised each other that we would never tell anyone the other one cuts.I found out today that she is a backstabbing bitch. She told a lot of people my secret and I finally found out because two of those people asked me about it.
This really isn't that bad. I used to not have many friends. Until this one girl. Her and I became really good friends. Anyways, one day I just said to her why does everyone bully me and she replied with because you're ugly. Ever since then she stayed my friend but kept bullying me and then told the whole school who I liked and spread rumors about me everywhere. Thing's like I'm a terrorist etc.
Ever since then I no longer talk to her. But I still hear stuff that she had said to this day.
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That's awful! I agree with Angelique: don't trivialize your pain. That girl is one mean piece of work!
People who talk about other people and call them names, are usually doing it to make their empty lives seem better. They're the losers, not you.
People who talk about other people and call them names, are usually doing it to make their empty lives seem better. They're the losers, not you.
In sixth grade, I had a friend that I told everything to. I had other friends but I talked to her mainly. She had parents from Africa like me, she had the same parent expectations, etc. Anyway, one day, she started to complain to me that I never told her anything. She kept this up for three weeks or so until one day, we were in the classroom's closet, and she started ignoring me. She literally said "I'm ignoring you."
She kept this up for three days until I gave her a note saying that I would tell her something.
I had no idea what to tell her. So I told her what I hadn't really planned to tell anyone. That I liked a girl in my class.
No biggie, she's my bestie.
Right?
She kinda just looked at me and left somewhere. (don't remember where we were.)
You can expect that I pleaded with her not to tell anyone. She said, "don't you trust me? We're friends."
Next day at lunch, I go to the bathroom. I come bag and sit next to my "friend" and the table bursts out laughing. I don't know why until the girl I like gets in my face and says, "So, you're a lezzie? Do you like me?"
I turn to my "friend" and I don't cry because that's not what I do, but she says, "Why are you making such a big deal out of nothing?" to me later on. "They don't care."
To make matters worse, the other day I had accidentally said on the bus, "No, I'm a lesbian.L-E-S-B-I-A-N!" When some boys on the boys were calling me "gay." I hated when people called girls "gay" because I think the correct word is lesbian.
Anyway, (and I know this is bad) I was thankful for a girl who got picked on. She spilled her lunch all over her and the girls forgot about me and turned on her.
I still can't believe she did that.
Thanks Angel and Aaron :) But I'm kind of over it now.Nia I'm so sorry. That's terrible :(
Nia that's just an awful thing that she did to u ;(
Nia that was just plain cruel of her.
Naw, it happened like two years ago so it's done and gone. And she moved away in 7th grade so...
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A friend of mine stole prescription medication out of my own house. I trusted this dude and he betrayed me, fucked me over and stole medication that I needed. I got in trouble with the drugstore because I couldn't prove it was stolen, therefore they refused to give me refills. I went into withdrawal and had to be hospitalized.
Man, was I fu**ed over!
Anyone else?