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Janice wrote: "These questions were provided by Penguin Random House.
1. Many of Tara’s father’s choices have an obvious impact on Tara’s life, but how did her mother’s choices influence her? How did that change..."
I feel like her mother fought for her to have some normalcy initially like allowing her to participate in dance (even if the costume situation was totally influenced by her father), but then after her mother's accident and as she started getting more into holistic healing it seemed like her mother was less worried about helping Tara and sided more with her father. Her mother had rare moments when she encouraged Tara to get out or seemed to hint to Tara she believed her or supported her but it was always vague.
1. Many of Tara’s father’s choices have an obvious impact on Tara’s life, but how did her mother’s choices influence her? How did that change..."
I feel like her mother fought for her to have some normalcy initially like allowing her to participate in dance (even if the costume situation was totally influenced by her father), but then after her mother's accident and as she started getting more into holistic healing it seemed like her mother was less worried about helping Tara and sided more with her father. Her mother had rare moments when she encouraged Tara to get out or seemed to hint to Tara she believed her or supported her but it was always vague.






Janice wrote: "Question 6. What keeps Tara coming back to her family as an adult?"
I think it's very hard to cut yourself off from your family. Even if they have different opinions, they are still your home base, the people you want to please or impress. They've experienced things with you that no one else may understand. I think Tara really struggled with this, she was from a large family and most of them turned their back on her, I can't imagine that was easy to stomach
I think it's very hard to cut yourself off from your family. Even if they have different opinions, they are still your home base, the people you want to please or impress. They've experienced things with you that no one else may understand. I think Tara really struggled with this, she was from a large family and most of them turned their back on her, I can't imagine that was easy to stomach

I think it is the need to still be apart of her family. To be loved and understood as also being truthful. Unfortunately for her the family always sides with her father's views. It isn't until on another attempt to visit with the family she see's an already open email from her mother stating "Tara is dangerous to the family" that she realizes she is no longer apart of the family.

Since Tara is very strong willed I do think she would do it again.
Her nature, common sense, being practical and her thirst to learn more would drive her onto the same direction. I think the few family members encouraging to leave and the drive to save her own life gave her the final strength she needed to follow through.
1. Many of Tara’s father’s choices have an obvious impact on Tara’s life, but how did her mother’s choices influence her? How did that change over time?