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Julia wrote: "Yeah, my oldest sister to old me to wait until I'm out of high school to date... I guess I will just wait then. I'm not really sure. I just feel like it's different saying things to people face ..."
I would have waited had someone not come along and the only reason I found him was because I was super active outside of school.
I think we are probably easier to talk to because we have seen this before/this is an environment that caters to people who aren't "okay" in one way or another. A lot of people will freak out because this is totally new to them, it's nothing they have ever encountered and they don't know how to handle it (especially since they tend not to understand).
More the merrier is honestly a phrase I NEVER associate with friends. I only have two friends and frankly, that is perfectly fine. It's less drama and easier to manage. I am gay *hope there is no judgment
Not sure where to start here....On the dating thing, my suggestion is to wait until you are out of high school. I have two reasons for saying this, one guys tend to be a lot more mature (not all of them, but a few) once they graduate so you have a greater potential of getting someone who values a relationship for that and not as a social status. For two, you will have so many more options. My high school was not tiny but I wasn't big either (maybe about 2000 student body) and the only reason I had a boyfriend in high school was because I found him OUTSIDE of school. There were only a few people I was interested in and I seemed to have your issue, they didn't return the same interest or were the perverts.
On the telling people things, is it because you feel safe telling us because you can't see us? You don't have to risk watching someone judge you and if they do when they post you can walk away from it and never have to come back?