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THE THINGS OUR ABUSERS TELL US

...a friend of mine and I have been going around, collecting quotes from survivors of abuse. We asked them to tel us something their abuser told them that has stuck with them all this time. We aim to bring awareness to sexual abuse and more specifically, those who have lived through it.

(view spoiler)[ These are an array of quotes, most of them from people we/I have reached out to. Some of them are mine. And some of them are from the internet. (hide spoiler)]

"Well, you shouldn't have worn that."



"I'm not doing anything"




"No one will ever love you after I'm done"




"You don't remember? You wanted it!"
- no, she was drugged.



"Be a good girl."




"C'mon, nobody has to know..."




"I want to show you how much I care."




"You're such a pretty girl"



"If you don't stop fighting, I'll just go rape your sister instead... you're making this too hard."

"I slit my wrists when the last girl didn't do what I wanted."
-she was 8. She didn't know.



"You're such a slut."




"You're going to get yourself into trouble if you keep whoring around like this"
- The officer she reported it to



"I want to be the one to take your virginity."



"I love you in this moment, but only in this moment."



"Your parents like me, and nobody would believe you. So don't even try, or I'll kill you."



"No one can hear you."



"Don't be such a wet blanket. This is why I'm your only friend."



"Boys will be boys. He was probably just messing around. You're being too sensitive."
- The cops she reported it to.



"Trust me."



"It's your own fault. If you didn't want it, you should have said something."



"Kiss me back."



"Just stop moving and shut up already. I can tell you like it"



"It's not rape if you're married!"



"Is your mother home?" "Let's take a shower."



"Prove it."



"Turn over. I hope you like anal."



"Relax! What are you so afraid of?"
-while choking her



"Just go back to sleep."



"Smile for me, baby. It doesn't hurt that bad."



"I came inside you. You better go get the day after pill. Now leave."



"Don't do that� it makes me feel like a rapist."



"Did I just take your virginity?"



"I wish you'd just shut the fuck up."



"If you tell, we won't be able to do special things together anymore."



"I'm doing something nice for you."



"Get on your motherfucking knees."

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any other scenarios? or is tht just it?

What do you mean?

like...are there any other thing you want to add to it or is it just that?

I'll be adding more.

Keep in mind, though, that each quote is from a different person. They're not from the same.

OH OK:)

Yeah! That's actually a pretty common one.

Don't be sorry...
I'm always taking more additions.

Is there something you wanna talk about? We can always pm. Or email.

I'm going to add those to the bigger list, okay?

97% of rapists go unpunished.

That is horrible.

Where is the last bit from

Alice.