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2025 Challenge - Regular > 09 - A book that features a character going through menopause

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message 1: by Nadine in NY (last edited Dec 02, 2024 09:54AM) (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
A book that features a character going through menopause.


Well that gave me PAUSE. Because Holy Specificity, Batman!! I've read plenty of books featuring women who are older, but I don't think a single one has mentioned their menstrual status. Normally, when I see "a character" I think "fiction" ... but in this case, I say we open this one up to fiction and non-fiction, because the only books I can think of that involve menopause are nonfiction!!



Listopia list is Here: Books About Menopause


message 2: by Michelle (new)

Michelle | 24 comments Yeah this one does seem super specific, but I think I found one that I might use. Looks funny at least. Let It All Burn


message 3: by Jen W. (new)

Jen W. (piratenami) | 502 comments I found an existing listopia for ideas:
/list/show/1...


message 4: by Dubhease (new)

Dubhease | 607 comments Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe was the only one I could think of


message 5: by Dubhease (new)

Dubhease | 607 comments Jen W. wrote: "I found an existing listopia for ideas:
/list/show/1..."


There's a book about a perimenopausal mermaid!


message 6: by Sarah (new)

Sarah | 263 comments The one that pops in to mind for me here is Mary by Nat Cassidy. I’ve mostly heard good things about it. The main character is based on Stephen King’s Carrie.


message 7: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 35 comments All Fours is a recent release that would fit this prompt!


message 8: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
Andrea wrote: "All Fours is a recent release that would fit this prompt!"


REALLY? I started that but my library loan expired so I put the audiobook on hold and the wait has been FOREVER and now I'm GLAD, I'll just push it out to January and it will be perfect. Thank you!


message 9: by Karen (new)

Karen Witzler (kewitzler) | 126 comments Dubhease wrote: "Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe was the only one I could think of"

Good idea. Set in Alabama if doing any sort of fifty state challenge and listed in 500 Great Books by Women which I peck away at.


message 10: by Jackie (new)

Jackie | 722 comments This will definitely be a category I need help with, or else some extremely serendipitous reading.


message 11: by Rachel (new)

Rachel | 109 comments My Favourite Mistake by Marian Keyes would fit here. It’s part of her series about the Walsh family, and focuses on Anna, who’s 48 and going through perimenopause (while moving back home to Ireland from New York, starting a new job and dealing with an old flame).


message 12: by Kristy (new)

Kristy Moore (llamalluv) | 81 comments Gray Hair Don't Care by Karen Booth fits this one really well!

I read it this year as my choice for second chance romance and I really liked it.


message 13: by Erin (new)

Erin | 354 comments I just read Since I Could Die Tomorrow, Volume 1 for the 42 year old prompt. It's a manga that deals with the main character thinking she's going through menopause. I don't think she gets a straight answer from her doctor, but I think this could work

It wasn't my favorite, but if no better options come up, I'll probably read vol 2


message 14: by Nike (new)

Nike | 64 comments Michelle wrote: "Yeah this one does seem super specific, but I think I found one that I might use. Looks funny at least. Let It All Burn"

Great suggestion! 🙂


message 15: by Nike (new)

Nike | 64 comments Without yet knowing what to read I do love the subject though. It's about time that this topic drops the layers of shame.

And since I'm going through menopause myself right now (without suffering a great deal, however there has been a few extreme explosions of anger from absolutely nowhere and I've given my partner and my sons some scary experiences lol! but luckily only a few times. Extremely interesting though) I'd love to read a fiction book about this. Have gotten enough facts from nonfiction.
I love this!


message 16: by Nike (new)

Nike | 64 comments Dubhease wrote: "Jen W. wrote: "I found an existing listopia for ideas:
/list/show/1..."

There's a book about a perimenopausal mermaid!"


Which title is that? Love it (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆�)


message 17: by Dani (new)

Dani Pergola | 9 comments I wish Popsugar would publish recommendation lists like the BookRiot Read Harder challenge, especially when it comes to these really specific prompts


message 18: by Ellie (new)

Ellie (patchworkbunny) | 1751 comments Further reading - All the rage: the rise of the menopause novel:



message 20: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
Ellie wrote: "Further reading - All the rage: the rise of the menopause novel:
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Super helpful!


message 21: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
Jen W. wrote: "I found an existing listopia for ideas:
/list/show/1..."



This is great, thank you!


message 22: by Sarah (new)

Sarah Merianos | 7 comments Towards the end of the book one of the main characters in Someone Else's Shoes by Jojo Moyes talks about how she thinks she's going through menopause. I just stumbled into this chapter while reading it for this years PSRC!


message 23: by DJ (new)

DJ | 1 comments Sandwich by Catherine Newman would fit this prompt. As a woman of about the same age, this was a 5 star read for me. There is also a LGBTQ+ character, and trigger warning, there is an abortion.
It is the story of a woman in the sandwich time--grown kids and aging parents.


message 24: by Denise (new)

Denise | 374 comments Dani wrote: "I wish Popsugar would publish recommendation lists like the BookRiot Read Harder challenge, especially when it comes to these really specific prompts"

They usually do, I'm not sure why the new person chose not to this year. I guess she has her own method.


message 25: by Denise (new)

Denise | 374 comments I'm not sure what I want to go with so far, I'll wait a bit I think.


message 26: by Denise (new)

Denise | 309 comments I think I'm going with Sandwich, I've heard a lot about it and it looks interesting


message 27: by Katherine (new)

Katherine Kemme | 13 comments Papoosed: An Essie Cobb Senior Sleuth Mystery by Patricia Rockwell I guess? Four women in senior center solving the mystery of how a newborn showed up in their center at Christmas. They might mention no longer being in a child-bearing age anymore.
Apparently it's a book 2, but it's a cozy mystery, I didn't feel like I missed out on anything. it was a good book, short(275 pages according to Kindle, sorry), and a little silly.


message 28: by Laura Ruth (new)

Laura Ruth Loomis | 210 comments I may go for Girls Will Be Girls: A Novella and Short Stories by Leslea Newman. Only one of the stories appears to be about a menopausal character, but the prompt doesn't say it has to be the focus of the book, and I like her writing.


message 29: by Jennifer (new)

Jennifer T. (jent998) | 230 comments I found a humorous short book in my search, if like me you like to use picture books for your least favorite prompts.

Mrs. Claus Has Menopause A Humorous Christmas Book for Women of a Certain Age by Bobbie Hinman

I have Mary by Nat Cassidy on my kindle so I’m picking that one but I found an easy backup just in case.


message 30: by Bea (new)

Bea | 617 comments Found a book that excites me: The Change by Kirsten Miller


message 31: by Jennifer (new)

Jennifer | 51 comments I recently read In the Lonely Hours and one of the main characters there mentions going through menopause a couple of times.


message 32: by Rose (new)

Rose W | 118 comments Found this description and perimenopause is almost menopause

All FoursAll Fours
Miranda JulyBy Miranda July
July’s second novel, which follows a married mother and artist who derails a solo cross-country road trip by checking into a motel close to home and starting an affair with a younger rental-car worker, was the year’s literary conversation piece, dubbed “the talk of every group text � at least every group text composed of women over 40� and “the first great perimenopause novel� in just two of many articles that wrestled with its themes. Sexually frank and laced with the novelist’s loopy humor, the book ends up posing that most universal question: What would you risk to change your life? Read our review.


message 33: by Courtney (new)

Courtney (toopunkrawk) | 2 comments I know Naomi Watts is coming out with a semi-autobiography about her struggles with menopause. Anyone know when this is released?


message 34: by Jennifer (new)

Jennifer T. (jent998) | 230 comments The audiobook is read by my fav narrator, January LaVoy and is excellent if you like audiobooks.

Bea wrote: "Found a book that excites me: The Change by Kirsten Miller"


message 35: by K.L. (new)

K.L. Middleton (theunapologeticbookworm) | 821 comments I have not had a chance to read it, but one of the ladies in my in-person book club recently recommended The Hot Flash Club, by Nancy Thayer.


message 36: by Michele (new)

Michele Olson | 104 comments The Write Hook by Robyn Peterman fits this category, if you like cozy (and hilarious) fantasy.


message 37: by Denise (new)

Denise | 309 comments Actually going to do Amazing Grace Adams so I can use Sandwich for same title two books


message 38: by Bea (new)

Bea | 617 comments This is a short Christmas book that I saw recommended: Mrs. Claus Has Menopause: A Humorous Christmas Book for Women of a Certain Age. I thought it looked fun.


message 39: by Lisa Marie (new)

Lisa Marie Kemmerer (readingwithlisamarie) | 177 comments I will be reading Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe by Fannie Flagg

HAPPY READING!!!


message 40: by Catie (new)

Catie | 9 comments In Nine Perfect Strangers by Liane Moriarty, one of the main characters, Frances, is going through menopause


message 41: by Rose (new)

Rose W | 118 comments Today's NPR Book of the Day podcast talks with the author of All Fours by Miranda July and she conducted interviews with women going through perimenopause and menopause as research for the book.


message 42: by Trish (last edited Jan 02, 2025 03:41AM) (new)

Trish (trishhartuk) | 264 comments I read Baking Cakes in Kigali quite some years ago. If I remember correctly, the POV character talks about the Change and hot flushes.

Oh, and this one just came up in the Kindle Monthly Deal: Broken Light, Joanne Harris. The Amazon description starts: "Bernie Moon has given her life to other people: her husband, her son, her friends (who are these days, mostly online). At nineteen she was full of dreams and ambitions; now almost fifty, and going through the menopause, she's fading, fast. Heartbroken and hormonal, she often feels like she's losing her mind."


message 43: by Jamie (last edited Jan 03, 2025 10:15AM) (new)

Jamie | 117 comments There's a new nonfiction book on NetGalley, Bloody Hell! And Other Stories, that's subtitled "Adventures in Menopause From Around the World." It's due to be published at some point this year - NetGalley says March and ŷ says June.


message 44: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
Rose wrote: "Today's NPR Book of the Day podcast talks with the author of All Fours by Miranda July and she conducted interviews with women going through perimenopause and menopa..."



well that's good to know, because I'm reading this book for this category, and I'm halfway through it now, and no mention of menopause at all. I was starting to wonder if it didn't actually fit.


message 45: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
While researching novels involving cults, I came across this one: Mary

Mary is a quiet, middle-aged woman doing her best to blend into the background. Unremarkable. Invisible. Unknown even to herself.

But lately, things have been changing inside Mary. Along with the hot flashes and body aches, she can’t look in a mirror without passing out, and the voices in her head have been urging her to do unspeakable things.

Fired from her job in New York, she moves back to her hometown, hoping to reconnect with her past and inner self. Instead, visions of terrifying, mutilated specters overwhelm her with increasing regularity and she begins auto-writing strange thoughts and phrases. Mary discovers that these experiences are echoes of an infamous serial killer.

Then the killings begin again.

Mary’s definitely going to find herself.



message 46: by Rose (last edited Jan 09, 2025 06:45PM) (new)

Rose W | 118 comments Nadine in NY wrote: "Rose wrote: "Today's NPR Book of the Day podcast talks with the author of All Fours by Miranda July and she conducted interviews with women going through perimenopau..."

Well - I haven't read it so I am not sure but how annoying if it doesn't after promoting it like that! Fingers crossed!


message 47: by Sasha (new)

Sasha  Wolf | 119 comments I'm going to read The New Moon's Arms by Nalo Hopkinson for this. The central character is a grandmother in her 50s going through the menopause, which I can very much relate to. She finds herself regaining a magical power that she had had in childhood.


message 48: by Theresa (last edited Jan 18, 2025 11:25AM) (new)

Theresa | 2345 comments I thought this was going to be harder than it appears it will be now that I looked for books. It will be one I am unlikely to just randomly fill, though.

I highly recommend Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe - book and wonderful movie adaptation.


message 49: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 9596 comments Mod
Rose wrote: "Nadine in NY wrote: "Rose wrote: "Today's NPR Book of the Day podcast talks with the author of All Fours by Miranda July and she conducted interviews with women goin...


Well - I haven't read it so I am not sure but how annoying if it doesn't after promoting it like that! Fingers crossed!"




Oh I never came back to update: she DEFINITELY talks about perimenopause and menopause in All Fours! It just doesn't come up until the second half, she discovers she has perimenopause and she calls all her women friends and asks them if they have experienced symptoms, she asks her mom what her symptoms were, etc. It's a whole thing.


message 50: by Jennifer W (new)

Jennifer W | 1786 comments Courtney wrote: "I know Naomi Watts is coming out with a semi-autobiography about her struggles with menopause. Anyone know when this is released?"

I just turned on the TV for the morning and the Today show was on and Naomi Watts was talking. I don't normally pay attention to those kinds of shows, but they said something that made me think they were talking about menopause and sure enough, she was promoting her new book (out today)! Dare I Say It: Everything I Wish I'd Known About Menopause


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