As a woman from Northern Ireland, Mary is fully capable of adopting the ways of violence that characterised the Troubles. MARY: Of course, I’m never properly violent but I like to reach for some kind of spray product like Windolene when we have these rows. I come towards him spraying a fine mist in the hope of triggering an asthma attack to get my revenge. Naturally, he runs away. Once I locked him into Room One when he had done something really awful about which I felt so strongly that I continued to
