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“You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them…but still move on without them.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“It is necessary, and even vital, to set standards for your life and the people you allow in it.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“Toxic people will pollute everything around them. Don’t hesitate. Fumigate.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“True strength is knowing that you don't have to be strong every single second of the day.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“It's a lot harder to get someone OUT of your life than it is to let them IN, so please…be selective.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“Stop inviting people who don't celebrate you to your party! It's YOUR life - you have the right to be exclusive.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“You can’t truly heal from a loss until you allow yourself to really FEEL the loss.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“Don't pour a lifetime of effort into a seasonal relationship. Not everyone from the pilot belongs in the finale.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“We can let go of the person or love or friendship without letting go of the lesson.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“Breakups have a way of shaking us awake and helping us see what we really want vs. what we are willing to settle for.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“The wonderful, beautiful thing that happens when you rid yourself of the things that don’t see your worth? You make space in your life for all the glorious things you deserve.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“Intelligence is not expecting people to understand what your intent is; it is anticipating how it will be perceived.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Don't try fixing something that is already broken in the first place.”
― John Robert Go

“People withhold their forgiveness, thinking that it makes them badass. But really, the unwillingness to forgive is merely the wishing that things were better. You wish that you had better, you wish that someone else were better so they could have treated you better... it’s you making wishes. And that’s not badass. To forgive is to be able to look at the person and say “I accept that you weren’t any better than what you wereâ€�, “I accept what you were you and couldn’t have been what I wished you to beâ€�, “I accept that things were the way they were and weren’t any better.â€� The ability to forgive is intertwined with the ability to accept the reality of the way things are/ the way a person is or was. You stop wishing things and you just accept. And hope is what says to you: “One day you’ll have what’s better.”
― C. JoyBell C.

“When God requires us to surrender one dream, it’s because He wants to hand us a bigger and better one.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

“Today may be your last chance to be you, someone you forgot to completely immerse yourself in because you were too worried about the details. The details that, no matter how many times you thought them through, brought you no closer to understanding. They just tied up your mind and prevented you from really letting in the things you love. Your demon that is standing before the beautiful floodgate and is keeping you in a dehydrated nothingness.

Give him permission to walk away. He is not your keeper. You are his.”
― Brianna Wiest

“How would your life be different if you learned to let go of things that have already let go of you? From relationships long gone, to old grudges, to regrets, to all the 'could’ve' and 'should’ve,' to the dead friendships you still hang on to... Free yourself from the burden of a past you cannot change.”
― Steve Maraboli

“Sometimes we mistake patience for weakness, but the patient person often realizes that it's much more important for another person to discover his or her own gifts and shortcomings--the patient person doesn't feel a need to "fix" other people, and sometimes will let certain things slide until the other person recognizes the problems. Patient parents often let their kids make the same mistake two or three times because they know that a lesson learned oneself is almost always preferable to a lesson given to us by an authority figure like a parent.”
― Tom Walsh

“Weakness, like not being able to bury the past. Weakness, like not giving up hope when you know you should.”
― Julianna Baggott, Fuse

“Music. It’s not about those things. It’s about a feeling. It’s about expressing yourself. It’s about letting go.”
― Antony John, Five Flavors of Dumb

“In many cases, people hold on so tightly to their past pains to avoid letting go of the “excusesâ€� and the fear of having to be accountable for their life.”
― Yvonne Pierre, The Day My Soul Cried: A Memoir

“She let him go once. Every day demands that she release him over and over again.”
― Julianna Baggott, Fuse

“Letting yesterday affect today will only destroy the excitement of tomorrow.”
― Michelle Cruz-Rosado

“My acupuncturist once told me that it doesn't have to hurt to work. She might have meant the needles, but I think she really meant love.”
― Erica Goros, The Daisy Chain

“A sacrifice is not about expecting God to break the bond you have with another person. You make the sacrifice on your own because God is more important than the bond.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Peace can only be achieved by a contrite spirit, open communication and tolerance.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Fear is just like mist. Don’t let it disorient you from living outside God's palm. Acknowledge it, then take any one step in any one direction... and repeat.”
― Erica Goros, The Daisy Chain

“We love someone, so we care. That love can morph into feeling responsible for them, then into we're accountable, then into we're to blame for their self-inflicted pain; then it's our fault if they crash and burn; then the fear causes us to hold on even tighter. Walk this in reverse until you get back to, "we love, we care". Now, love with wisdom. Step one in placing someone's life into His hands.”
― Lee Goff

“You don't live in the past; you take a sledgehammer to it to see what stands so that you can build on it.”
― Samuel L. Drew

“This he had noticed while doing his military service back in Turkey. When more than three people slept in a narrow place, sooner or later their breaths would become synchronized. Perhaps it was God's way of telling us that if we could just let go of ourselves, we would all eventually be in step and there would be no more disputes.”
― Elif Shafak