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this is a question I've been asking myself for a long time and one of the main reasons why I've been struggling with identifying with the feminist movement: If we want to achi..."
I totally agree to your point!

Agreed, Elis. However, I think in order to improve the situation, it's not just about women doing something, it's about men too. Take sexual harassment: It's not enough for women to know that they should not be abused, men have to know that it's not their right to do this to women. This is why I found it so important for Emma to include the men in HeForShe: If they don't change, there's only so much we can do. And in order to make them listen, we need to invite them (I seem to remember those were Emma's words, too). A term like 'feminism' is set to repell many - and not just men, as I said.

I agree with Elis, it's all because of the struggle for women based on how society is. It's unfair and we need to stand together and fight for what's right. It's a constant uphill battle.


Thank you, Kodak and Jordan, for your input, and thank you, Aime, for the link! I think the blog post points to the most crucial point in this discussion:
"The purpose of the movement should be more important than the grammatical side to the name."
This is true. I guess my point is that, unfortunately, the first thing someone who comes across the term 'feminism' (or any other term) will see, is in fact the grammatical side. They will recognise the stem 'fem' and the ending 'ism' and think, 'ugh, it's not for me'. It will thus be much harder to include everybody. Although, as I said, I get your point and see that it's justified, especially when you consider the historical implications. I guess it comes down to pragmatism vs. idealism in this case.
"The purpose of the movement should be more important than the grammatical side to the name."
This is true. I guess my point is that, unfortunately, the first thing someone who comes across the term 'feminism' (or any other term) will see, is in fact the grammatical side. They will recognise the stem 'fem' and the ending 'ism' and think, 'ugh, it's not for me'. It will thus be much harder to include everybody. Although, as I said, I get your point and see that it's justified, especially when you consider the historical implications. I guess it comes down to pragmatism vs. idealism in this case.




Well said, Elis - I think the question of the protagonists is a good point!

Equality-Standing up for rights of all the people.
Feminism-Standing up for women's rights and equal status in the soceity

I dont know why but that is something which really stuck with me. And for me, feminism IS equality. The title has been around so long that it cannot really be changed. But a title should not object from people believing in a movement.



this is a question I've been asking myself for a long time and one of the main reasons why I've been struggling with identifying with the feminist movement: If we want to achi..."
I agree, my understanding on feminism, is still hazy but my understanding on equality, is much high. Nevertheless I have studied Equality, Diversity and Rights on and off over four years, within my college and university courses. Therefore maybe we ought to educate ourselves, first to understand the subject or topic more before questioning it's meaning.
There are multiple reasons I use the word feminism instead of equality:
- That feminism is often seen as a bad word (even a disease that people need to be cured of) is a proof that we still live in a patriarchal society.
- We need to acknowledge the difference between men's and women's position in our world.
- Female infanticide in India.
- Using the word equality instead of feminism almost erases everything feminist have fought for throughout the years. I clearly recall reading in my history book, after reading loads about democracy, two lines which said that women were HANDED the vote in [year]. Women are repeatedly deleted from history, example: Mary Shelley invented science fiction with her novel Frankenstein, but this doesn't get much recognition. Mary Wollstonecraft, a feminist and her mum, named Mary Shelley after herself in the nineteenth century. We never learn about this in his-story.
- It's the feminine traits that both men and women are shamed for, example: showing emotions. It's these traits that our patriarchal system need to accept.
- Imagine building a house and saying that all the bricks are equal when half of them are crumbling, some more than others. The house would collapse. One has to go in and fix the problem (not that men don't have resembling issues - see the preceding point).
- Feminism isn't about removing privilege, it's about achieving equal opportunities.
- The word feminism is empowering.
(I should add that when I talk about feminism, intersectionalism is implied. Since I first heard the word, I have embraced the term.) :)
- That feminism is often seen as a bad word (even a disease that people need to be cured of) is a proof that we still live in a patriarchal society.
- We need to acknowledge the difference between men's and women's position in our world.
- Female infanticide in India.
- Using the word equality instead of feminism almost erases everything feminist have fought for throughout the years. I clearly recall reading in my history book, after reading loads about democracy, two lines which said that women were HANDED the vote in [year]. Women are repeatedly deleted from history, example: Mary Shelley invented science fiction with her novel Frankenstein, but this doesn't get much recognition. Mary Wollstonecraft, a feminist and her mum, named Mary Shelley after herself in the nineteenth century. We never learn about this in his-story.
- It's the feminine traits that both men and women are shamed for, example: showing emotions. It's these traits that our patriarchal system need to accept.
- Imagine building a house and saying that all the bricks are equal when half of them are crumbling, some more than others. The house would collapse. One has to go in and fix the problem (not that men don't have resembling issues - see the preceding point).
- Feminism isn't about removing privilege, it's about achieving equal opportunities.
- The word feminism is empowering.
(I should add that when I talk about feminism, intersectionalism is implied. Since I first heard the word, I have embraced the term.) :)
Interesting discussion, everyone!
It seems that this is more of a linguistic topic than I initially thought. I hinted at my academic background in this field and it occurred to me more than once that one of the keys to make a change is language. A good example is the semantic change of the word 'gay'. The original meaning, 'joyful', 'happy' etc. has been extended to 'homosexual', all thanks to the gay movement. There's a power in language!
Unfortunately, it also works the other way round, and language can bias people to think in old patterns: 'man' originally derives from an indogermanic stem that meant both 'male human being' and 'human being'. The word for 'female human being' in English is much younger and derives from the word for 'male': 'wo-man', indicating that the female doesn't exist without the male. While this is a linguistic fact, it surely helps underline the idea of male superiority - most of the words that initially were for both men and women (and therefore went into pronouns, sayings and important nouns such as 'mankind') now only bear the male semantics. The crux of the historical nature of language. Patriarchy might one day perish, but the old language from these times will remain. And people are not ready to give up these words, they grew up with them and it's exactly this historical dimension (good or bad) that we don't want to lose. So maybe the only way to 'update' our languages to an equal society is by trying to change the semantics, by enhancing the value of certain terms and decreasing the value of others.
This leads to a related and, I think, important question in this matter: How do we want to change the semantics of 'female' - from 'fe-male' to something independent? And how do we achieve it?
If we keep calling it 'feminism', we are naturally emphasising that such a group exists, and that there are 'females' and 'non-females'/'males'. Since feminism is also about trying not to have these standardised groups where people need to fit in, we must carefully define what 'women' and 'female' means to us (and should mean in the whole of our societies). Biological gender would be the first and most important component (because the biological gender was and is the reason for suppression of women), but is there anything else? What do we want people to associate with the term? (Also, but not only, in comparison to 'man' and 'male'.) This defines most of our actions in this movement.
It seems that this is more of a linguistic topic than I initially thought. I hinted at my academic background in this field and it occurred to me more than once that one of the keys to make a change is language. A good example is the semantic change of the word 'gay'. The original meaning, 'joyful', 'happy' etc. has been extended to 'homosexual', all thanks to the gay movement. There's a power in language!
Unfortunately, it also works the other way round, and language can bias people to think in old patterns: 'man' originally derives from an indogermanic stem that meant both 'male human being' and 'human being'. The word for 'female human being' in English is much younger and derives from the word for 'male': 'wo-man', indicating that the female doesn't exist without the male. While this is a linguistic fact, it surely helps underline the idea of male superiority - most of the words that initially were for both men and women (and therefore went into pronouns, sayings and important nouns such as 'mankind') now only bear the male semantics. The crux of the historical nature of language. Patriarchy might one day perish, but the old language from these times will remain. And people are not ready to give up these words, they grew up with them and it's exactly this historical dimension (good or bad) that we don't want to lose. So maybe the only way to 'update' our languages to an equal society is by trying to change the semantics, by enhancing the value of certain terms and decreasing the value of others.
This leads to a related and, I think, important question in this matter: How do we want to change the semantics of 'female' - from 'fe-male' to something independent? And how do we achieve it?
If we keep calling it 'feminism', we are naturally emphasising that such a group exists, and that there are 'females' and 'non-females'/'males'. Since feminism is also about trying not to have these standardised groups where people need to fit in, we must carefully define what 'women' and 'female' means to us (and should mean in the whole of our societies). Biological gender would be the first and most important component (because the biological gender was and is the reason for suppression of women), but is there anything else? What do we want people to associate with the term? (Also, but not only, in comparison to 'man' and 'male'.) This defines most of our actions in this movement.


What I meant is: changing the semantics is an overall goal and has to be achieved through changing mindsets and therefore taking action. It is one way to approach the subject; by asking ourselves what positive associations our children could have when they think about their own gender.
Of course language shapes itself after the world we live in - but it works the other way round as well. Take the sentence "I am a woman BUT I'm interested in physics/I like soccer/I hate buying clothes/..." If we make more people realise what they're implying when they say things like that, then the change of language may encourage the change in other areas as well.
Of course language shapes itself after the world we live in - but it works the other way round as well. Take the sentence "I am a woman BUT I'm interested in physics/I like soccer/I hate buying clothes/..." If we make more people realise what they're implying when they say things like that, then the change of language may encourage the change in other areas as well.

this is a question I've been asking myself for a long time and one of the main reasons why I've been struggling with identifying with the feminist movement: If we want to achi..."
One of the major reasons the term "Feminism" has persisted as such is that it allows one to reference a body of work that focus specifically on the inequality that women experience in society, and I think this speaks somewhat to the academic nature of Feminism. If we look at works that can be classified as Egalitarian or Humanist (especially enlightenment works) often times they apply positive discrimination against women, Rousseau's assessment of the "fairer sex" is a very good example of this, as he essentially fetishized the idea of ignorance in women, treating them childlike and frail; yet Rousseau can be referenced as an Egalitarian. Honestly, I do think Feminism (discounting the extreme elements of Separatist Feminism) suffers from a retro-centric appellation. By that I mean that it was named in a time when women had extremely limited agency; in-fact, they weren't considered capable of it by some. Women needed to be raised up urgently, and the broader scope of what Feminism has come to encompass (gender roles and how they affect men, gender equality, the nature of sexuality, etc...) weren't as important topics as getting women to simply be recognized as thinking human beings.

But why I'd never say a sentence like that? Because when I was a child my father (a physicist) always would talk to me about the wonders of the universe. I also always played with both dolls and cars or action figures. There wasn't a segregation between the role of a boy and a girl in my house. When I decided I liked math and science more than the other subjects, as a kid, no-one said to me that those were subjects for boys. When I decided to study physics at uni, nobody said that I should become something else, because this was a man's career (as a matter of fact, I decided I'd be an "experientist" when I was about 3 years old). Because I was supported in all those things throughout my life, and never sanctioned whenever I did "boy's things" I grew up to believe that there wasn't something I couldn't do, if I wanted to, because it wasn't fit for my gender. I heard from many people what I should or shouldn't do as a woman, but because the way I was brought up and my parents beliefs, atitudes and behaviors, I never believed that for being a woman I'd have to be a good wife to my husband, cook for him, clean the house and wash the clothes.

I also like this answer; and Libby sums up very well why there's no real need to change the term.

Although I completely see your light in your views, Lisa, to me feminism should stick with its name because of the targeted group, women, that are fighting for their full-fledged freedom.


understand and filter the world through language so it is really important the name that it is given to things and concepts.
My opinion on the word feminism can not be more
positive, and these are my reasons: feminism means equality between the sexes. It may be said that then the word equality will fit better the cause. Nevertheless, feminism is acknowledging that through history and in today's world the female sex has been suffering an imposed difference in many aspects of social life e.g. only male clubs.
Moreover, feminism is also concerned with experiences which are fundamentally part of women's lives as menstruation, maternity....
From my point of view, the word feminism is recognising that we all are not equal, but we should be treated equally.

I agree, there is a distorted view in society of feminism, but I don’t think that is helped by changing the term we use. I think we reclaim the word. Campaigning for more paternity leave for new fathers? Feminism. Highlighting the lack of women in politics/business/justice system? Feminism. Opposing the objectification of someone (of any gender) in tv? Feminism. Generally opposing the idea that someone’s gender (and I’m not talking about just binary gender) somehow decides their value/dress code/education options? Feminism.
A little education, a little explanation and quite a lot of resolve can help reclaim the word, and the concept. I’d love to stop being called a “feminazi� but I refuse to stop calling myself a feminist.
Again, thank you, everybody! I have to admit that in the light of so many eloquent and rational answers it seems like I was rather playing the advocatus diaboli (which is also justified from time to time). The most important point seems to be that the term 'feminism' recurs to the development of the movement - this is indeed a strong justification.
I'm still somewhat hesitant to call myself a feminist. Labelling is important because it unites people with the same interests and gives a voice to these interests, but at the same time, it is always reductionist, and every label (like vegan, atheist, liberal) has a ring of ideology to it, although I don't doubt that most of us here would rightly deny any ideology in this and other movements. Can anyone else relate to this dilemma, feeling part of something while hesitating to adopt the name in order to avoid being reduced to a mere name?
I'm still somewhat hesitant to call myself a feminist. Labelling is important because it unites people with the same interests and gives a voice to these interests, but at the same time, it is always reductionist, and every label (like vegan, atheist, liberal) has a ring of ideology to it, although I don't doubt that most of us here would rightly deny any ideology in this and other movements. Can anyone else relate to this dilemma, feeling part of something while hesitating to adopt the name in order to avoid being reduced to a mere name?

It should be called feminism and remained like that.
Why you may ask ? Simply because arguing on the name of the movement loses the focus of the important matter here : Women.
Of course, men also suffers from sexism but we can not compare what women live to what men live. Because women live much worse things than men do and that's by helping women situation that we will help men situation hence the name of the UN movement He For She.
This name was the only matter or discussion among the anti-feminist, using it as a mean not to talk about the important subject. This is too easy...
That is why it has to remain "feminism" and not trying to hide the true topic of matter by calling it equality or whatever other words some come up with to hide the fact they fear those feminist ideas.

Elis, by ideology I meant something that is not questioned by means of reason, but is supposed to be adopted without thinking about it. We don't need ideology to believe that women should have the same rights as men - there is no rational reason why women shouldn't. Ideologies are dangerous because they force you to adopt something without thoroughly asking why, often in denial of reality and/or science. Making equality a goal of every society, on the other hand, is completely rational.

I think also, it depends what part of the world you're in and in what situation, in some circumstances around the world, women are still hugely disadvantaged and that's when feminism tips the scales in the right direction.
Still, words are only words and it's the meaning we attribute to them that's important. Changing perceptions of what that word means and in what context is going in the right direction and a lot of wonderful work has been done in the recent years to do that.

That's so interesting! I never though of ideology something to be followed blindly and unquestionably. I always saw it as a set of ideas that based some kind of social movement, social system, society, group. Yes, those ideas can be irrational, illogical and not based on reality, but they also can be rational, logical and based on reality.
For me ideology is just a set of ideas that a group decide to defend. Ideology (set of ideas) of feminism is the gender equality (which englobes various sub-topics and form the whole set of ideas defended by the movement).
EDIT: I checked on Collins dictionary:
ideology (ˌaɪdɪˈɒlədʒɪ )
Definitions
noun (plural) -gies
- a body of ideas that reflects the beliefs and interests of a nation, political system, etc and underlies political action
(philosophy, sociology)
- the set of beliefs by which a group or society orders reality so as to render it intelligible
- speculation that is imaginary or visionary
- the study of the nature and origin of ideas

Thank you, Elis, for your input. I think the crucial word here is 'belief'. Maybe it's the philosophical background I'm coming from that makes me think that rational thought and beliefs are opposites. 'Interests' is more neutral. Everything that needs 'believing' rather than 'reasoning' sounds dangerous to the rational mind ... But maybe I'm being to strict here!


I am a feminist. I "fight" for people's rights to be treated equally, men, women, children, disabled, transgenders, etc.
I too have a little bit of a background in linguistics, and understand the importance of words. But also, I have enough life experience to know that what really matters to people is perception, not the pure linguistic meaning.
I know that feminism fights for equality. Many people perceive it as something else. Out of fear, out of ignorance, out of whatever. Doing something about the way this movement, or this 'ism', is perceived seems to be exactly what Emma is trying to do.
One way to do so could be to change the term, indeed.
Not only women are victim of gender inequality. But inequality for women still IS the main problem with gender inequality in 2016. So should we just abandon the word of the original movement when the original primary goals are not made yet?
I think we CAN shift the focus a little bit, as Emma clearly did in the HeForShe Facebook interview last year, by including men and LGBT.
We can all, as individuals, do our best in our personal environments to treat everyone as equals. This is what I strive to do. This is why I am a Feminist.

In addition to the fact that the name no longer represents what the movement stands for, I agree with a lot of the other posters in that a lot of people get turned off initially from the movement without knowing a lot about its ideas because they think the name implies preferential treatment. This isn't helped by the fact that there are (a minority of) people who self-identify as feminists and say things that re-affirm this notion- statements that nonetheless generate a lot of coverage- which results in a generalization of the movement as supporting superiority. I think the problem is accessibility of a lot of feminist ideas to the masses- the ideas are in academic literature or in books that you wouldn't come across unless you specialized in the field. Using Equalism would definitely increase the access of the movement which would be excellent because it would reach a lot of people who could be helped by its ideas but who otherwise wouldn't see it as something that campaigned for them (men being an example). However, as stated above, I don't think the name is fully representative of what the movement has become now. I personally think that it would enhance the movement greatly if protagonists of the movement came from across the gender spectrum so that they could voice their own unique issues- so while I have been using both feminism and equalism, I am looking for a name that basically conveys the idea of moving from a binary to a spectrum.

I agree with Lisa. I think that if we are looking for both genders to be equal, in order to explain this entire process to others, we can't talk about feminism because it would imply that we are only looking for women, when we are not.
I think the word feminism is the reason why so many people disagree. Because they think that we are trying to make women superior than men, when all we want is for everyone to have the same oportunities and rights.
- L
Yes, Satchit, that's exactly my point!
I may add that, of course, I'm not denying the need for a feminist movement in a sense in which we described it above and in other threads. My question is purely about the name and how to best 'sell' it, both to ourselves and to the people who are (at least at first) suspicious to it. The question arose because Emma uses the term rather frequently and explicitl labelled this group a feminist book club. I'd love to hear your take on this, Emma!
I may add that, of course, I'm not denying the need for a feminist movement in a sense in which we described it above and in other threads. My question is purely about the name and how to best 'sell' it, both to ourselves and to the people who are (at least at first) suspicious to it. The question arose because Emma uses the term rather frequently and explicitl labelled this group a feminist book club. I'd love to hear your take on this, Emma!

Kunal wrote: "I think that most prominent crack here is:-
Equality-Standing up for rights of all the people.
Feminism-Standing up for women's rights and equal status in the soceity"
I understand what you mean, Kunal. My definition of the term feminism is that it is about the equality of gender. My problems with this definition are:
1: It is not only important to stand up for equal gender's rights, but also to be for equalism for people of different religions, races, sexual orientations, etc.
2: The word feminism leaves out standing up for the rights for the third gender, as I am of the opinion that gender is not binary.
Thus, I prefer using the word equalist.
Equality-Standing up for rights of all the people.
Feminism-Standing up for women's rights and equal status in the soceity"
I understand what you mean, Kunal. My definition of the term feminism is that it is about the equality of gender. My problems with this definition are:
1: It is not only important to stand up for equal gender's rights, but also to be for equalism for people of different religions, races, sexual orientations, etc.
2: The word feminism leaves out standing up for the rights for the third gender, as I am of the opinion that gender is not binary.
Thus, I prefer using the word equalist.
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this is a question I've been asking myself for a long time and one of the main reasons why I've been struggling with identifying with the feminist movement: If we want to achieve equality for both genders (and not one gender in any way feeling superiour to the other), then why don't we call it equality?
I do understand the historical implications of the term 'feminism' and it is in a way justified to stick with it. However, even to my female ears it sounds as though not equality but the, well, rule of women was the goal of this movement. I know this is not what we all want (at least I hope not!), but since with HeForShe, we were trying to include men as well, the term 'feminism' has met with just as much resistance from men as before - at least in my surroundings. I know many famous and influentual male actors/singers etc. have committed themselves to the term and therefore the movement, but still, it is not widely accepted by men - and women!
This being said, I'd love to hear what all of you think and why you adopt (or don't adopt) the term 'feminism'.
Emma, I'd love to hear your personal reasons for sticking with it. Coming from a linguistic background, I think it's safe to say that language has a strong influence on the way we think and perceive the world, therefore we should always take great care when naming things.
Yours,
Lisa