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+How do each person’s needs clash with the others to create their dynamic?How do they care for each other? How does Bassey deny her partner’s needs? How does he deny hers?

+In an earlier chapter, Bassey says fights with her mother are “like a war�, which is also the title of this chapter. What parallels do you see between Bassey’s relationship with her mother and her relationship with this partner?

++Are these questions different than the ones you were asking as you read? Enhance the discussion by adding questions!