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Debra Jay

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Debra Jay’s latest books are "It Takes a Family, 2nd edition: Creating Lasting Sobriety, Togetherness, and Happiness," and "Love First 3rd edition: A Family’s Guide to Intervention," both published by Hazelden (2021). She is also author of "No More Letting Go: The Spirituality of Taking Action Against Alcoholism and Drug Addiction," published by Bantam (2006). She co-authored the book "Aging and Addiction," published by Hazelden (2002).

She is co-founder of a private practice providing clinical intervention services nationally and is founder of Structured Family Recovery® services and training. She designed the highly acclaimed Love First Clinical Intervention Training Program first hosted annually by the Betty Ford Center and now at The Re
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Debra Jay "Fundamentals: Ten Keys to Reality," by Frank Wilczek
"The Hidden Life of Trees," by Peter Wohlleben
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"Fundamentals: Ten Keys to Reality," by Frank Wilczek
"The Hidden Life of Trees," by Peter Wohlleben
"Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance" by Angela Duckworth
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Debra Jay I am not sure I've experienced what is called writer's block. Writing is hard. For this reason, the brain often rebels against getting started. Someti…m´Ç°ù±ðI am not sure I've experienced what is called writer's block. Writing is hard. For this reason, the brain often rebels against getting started. Sometimes I do face a dilemma and need to walk away from the writing and think about other things or take a walk. This is when problems seem to solve themselves. Of course, I've put in the upfront work to making it possible for the solution to pop in my head. Sometimes it's not as much a problem to solve as clarifying my own thought process. That, too, seems to benefit from taking a walk or a leisurely meal or some other relaxing activity. There are times it takes a few days to unravel a problem and find my direction, but this happens less frequently.(less)
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“We need to do things differently beginning now. If you are a family member or friend who loves a person who has an addiction, you know the nightmare. There is the nightmare of refusing treatment. There is the nightmare of not staying in treatment. There is the nightmare of not staying sober after treatment. This list doesn’t even begin to include the many losses, the fear, the worry, the desolation.
Professionals alone cannot do the job. We clearly see this truth all around us. Getting the job done requires a resource that has long been relegated to the sidelines, given no meaningful role to play in the treatment and recovery journey. This resource, as it turns out, is the most important one of all—the family.”
Debra Jay, Love First: A Family's Guide to Intervention

“Families in crisis have wrongly been labeled dysfunctional families. Families are not the problem—they are the opportunity. When we understand ourselves as the opportunity, we see our world with a new vision. We dare to hope for our dreams to materialize. We imagine once again what it will be like to be happy”
Debra Jay, Love First: A Family's Guide to Intervention

“Coming together takes the powerless and makes them powerful. Structured Family Recovery brings this power to the family and, in co- operation with the larger recovery community, stands firm in the face of addiction, which trespassed into our homes and multiplied itself into our lives. We crowd addiction out by building a family life brim- ming with togetherness and recovery, even though we may start out not knowing our way back to each other.”
Debra Jay, It Takes A Family: A Cooperative Approach to Lasting Sobriety

“Families in crisis have wrongly been labeled dysfunctional families. Families are not the problem—they are the opportunity. When we understand ourselves as the opportunity, we see our world with a new vision. We dare to hope for our dreams to materialize. We imagine once again what it will be like to be happy”
Debra Jay, Love First: A Family's Guide to Intervention

“We need to do things differently beginning now. If you are a family member or friend who loves a person who has an addiction, you know the nightmare. There is the nightmare of refusing treatment. There is the nightmare of not staying in treatment. There is the nightmare of not staying sober after treatment. This list doesn’t even begin to include the many losses, the fear, the worry, the desolation.
Professionals alone cannot do the job. We clearly see this truth all around us. Getting the job done requires a resource that has long been relegated to the sidelines, given no meaningful role to play in the treatment and recovery journey. This resource, as it turns out, is the most important one of all—the family.”
Debra Jay, Love First: A Family's Guide to Intervention

“Coming together takes the powerless and makes them powerful. Structured Family Recovery brings this power to the family and, in co- operation with the larger recovery community, stands firm in the face of addiction, which trespassed into our homes and multiplied itself into our lives. We crowd addiction out by building a family life brim- ming with togetherness and recovery, even though we may start out not knowing our way back to each other.”
Debra Jay, It Takes A Family: A Cooperative Approach to Lasting Sobriety

“...there are no shortcuts to excellence. Developing real expertise, figuring out really hard problems, it all takes time―longer than most people imagine....you've got to apply those skills and produce goods or services that are valuable to people....Grit is about working on something you care about so much that you're willing to stay loyal to it...it's doing what you love, but not just falling in love―staying in love.”
Angela Duckworth, Grit: Passion, Perseverance, and the Science of Success




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