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“Fear causes problems in your life because it fogs the lens through which you see yourself and your world.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity: The Path to Fearlessness

“The reason you might not be creating the life you want is that you are making most of your decisions unconsciously, and most of your subconscious policies (programs and rules) are fear-based and inaccurate. These inaccurate policies are sabotaging your success, because they don’t want the very things you think you consciously want.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity: The Path to Fearlessness

“It is important you understand how fear affects you and how it drives human behavior so you can start to see situations and people accurately and respond more appropriately. When someone is behaving badly, attacking you, or being defensive, critical, or judgmental, it is not really about you. Fear is the real reason people behave badly. Their fears make them selfish, defensive, mean, and grouchy. Every time someone is behaving badly, step back and ask yourself, “What is this person afraid of? What fear inside me is driving my reaction to their attack? What am I afraid of?â€�
When you can accurately see the fear behind their behavior, and yours, you will see the situation for what it really is.”
― Kimberly Giles

“Most bad behavior is about that person’s core fears about themselves; it is rarely about you.”
― Kimberly Giles