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“Sometimes the only way to get closure is by accepting that you'll never get it.”
― John Mark Green

“When you can't go back, you only have to worry about the best way of moving forward.”
― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

“A person is never the same person for very long. You can carry memories in your soul, for example, of childhood friendships, but agonize over the fact that they are only memories because those friends are not the same people right now. This kind of experiential interaction with memories and the people attached to our memories, is a source of anguish in all of our lives. There is a type of acceptance and understanding that needs to be applied here: accepting that the scenes of life change as time goes by, and understanding that the people occupying the scenes of your life were in fact authentic. But right now, they are authentically who they are NOW, which is a different person. They're not the same person today. But who they used to be was also who they truly were at that time. We need to release people from the chains of our memories and not demand explanations of them. We must allow them the freedom to morph, to grow, into all the persons they were meant to become. But then we also have to afford ourselves this, in that very same breath. And this is why, sometimes marriages need to be over, sometimes friendships need to be over, sometimes relationships need to come to an end. Because you need to set yourself, and other people, free from the skins they used to wear.”
― C. JoyBell C.

“You can be more ruined if you keep on worrying about loyalty. Not everyone is going to be loyal. Accept it and move on.”
― Mitta Xinindlu

“In those pages, I belonged to him, and regardless of time and place, I’m confident he was mine.”
― Caroline George, Dearest Josephine

“No one is stuck with anyone. Suffering is optional.”
― Kevin Darné, Every Ending is a New Beginning

“You're not going to live in victory if you hold on to baggage from yesterday. Your hardest times often lead to the greatest moments of your life.”
― Germany Kent

“He shakes his head. "I love you, but I'm sick of being the person who fits in your life but not your... fuck it, your heart.”
― Rebecca Serle, In Five Years

“Just like a tree that loses branches and dead leaves in the Autumn, I will rebuild anew. I will rebuild new branches and leaves. I will rebuild and maintain only what bears me fruits.”
― Mitta Xinindlu

“When we stop seeing ourselves as broken We can lift up our eyes and see the world.”
― Amie Gabriel, KINTSUKUROI HEART: More Beautiful For Having Been Broken

“I’m pretty horrible at relationships and haven’t been in many long-term ones. Leaving and moving on â€� returning to a familiar sense of self-reliance and autonomy â€� is what I know; that feeling is as comfortable and comforting as it might be for a different kind of person to stay.”
― Carrie Brownstein

“Our habit to accumulate and to cling to clutter is often representative of practices we've adopted to protect or sooth ourselves.”
― Mary Vraa, PopUpPurge(TM) Release Midlife Clutter & Reclaim Inner Clarity

“We don't realize how excess stuff draws on our energy until it's removed.”
― Mary Vraa, PopUpPurge(TM) Release Midlife Clutter & Reclaim Inner Clarity

“If he left you, it's because he's not worth the trouble! Listen to what I'm going to tell you: Nobody's worth crying over. Believe me my dear, nobody's important enough for your tears...”
― Dominique Goblet, Pretending Is Lying

“If acceptance is the real definition of moving on, then, forgiveness is the real form of love.”
― Verliza Gajeles

“Anyway, I wanted to get rid of it all & start a new life in Tokyo with a clean slate as a brand-new person. Try out the new possibilities of a new me.”
― Haruki Murakami, Men Without Women

“Because things need their closure, Blanca, even though it may be painful. It's not wise to leave open wounds. Time cures everything, but before that, it's best to reconcile yourself with whatever you've left behind.”
― María Dueñas, The Heart Has Its Reasons

“I almost gave up on strength until hope shouted, "help is on the way".”
― Mitta Xinindlu

“The shrubs and the water move backward in a blur, and I imagine that time is rewinding. Back to when the world was some other place. I look through the windshield and wait for the concrete and the absence of sea.”
― Cath Crowley, Words in Deep Blue

“Leave the past, from which you always ran; and live today because you can.”
― Malaika Gilani

“The line that ran through my life wasn’t an elegant, silken thread.  Mine had become an inextricably tangled, balled up mess, yet the line remained unbroken; it still ran end to end.”
― Amie Gabriel, KINTSUKUROI HEART: More Beautiful For Having Been Broken

“Sometimes, we figure out our next move when we release what it won't be.”
― Mary Vraa, PopUpPurge(TM) Release Midlife Clutter & Reclaim Inner Clarity

“Start gaining by dropping weights: weight of regrets, anxiety, and what-ifs.”
― Krizha Mae G. Abia

“We all have scars, Layla. They don’t define us; they make us stronger. They remind us that we survived whatever tried to hurt us. They tell a story about where we’ve been, but they don’t determine where we’re going. We get to decide that. So, decide right now, are you going to let your scars hold you back or are you going to embrace them as part of what makes you beautiful?”
― Sabrina Wagner, Smoke and Mirrors

“Well Dear, that's over and done. Now we move on.”
― Frank Langella, Dropped Names: Famous Men and Women As I Knew Them

“To start living a joyful life after the breakup, you need to allow yourself to grieve, try not to fight your feelings, choose to talk about your feelings, no matter how difficult you feel - constantly remind yourself that moving on from that person is your end goal. It’s important to remind yourself you still have a beautiful future without anyone by your side.

From (The Awakening)”
― Jyoti Patel

“sakit yang amat sangat mencabik-cabik, mengetahui kau tidak akan ada lagi, tetapi semesta akan terus berjalan seperti biasa, tidak terganggu dan tidak terhalang”
― Stephen King

“Approach the new with a blank slate or risk muddying the present with the past.”
― Mishconstrued

“What is it about the fall that seems sentimental and romantic? There is something magical and mysterious about the way the leaves drop to
the ground and how they shimmer in red, gold, and brown, creating a blanket of memories. And as you watch the trees become bare, a sweet,
nostalgic feeling exists inside of you as you stroll the sidewalks that glisten with traces of rain, sprinkled across each path like little jewels. Your heart beats in a different rhythm as your thoughts dwell and wander about. You
remember things that should be forgotten because they broke your heart once, and yet you allow them to linger for a while for the sake of reminiscing. You parade with the hopeless romantics and the brokenhearted down
the streets, alone, reliving moments that once were. You hold on to these memories until the last day of fall, hoping that by winter, you will forget them all.”
― Corey M.P., High

“There's much more to life than finding someone who will want you or being sad over someone who doesn't.”
― Faraaz Kazi, LOVE ...Lots of Volatile Emotions