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“The past does not define you. There will be people who once knew you intimately, but they don’t know you now. They may remember a chapter that once spoke to them, but they don’t get to know the chapters that are coming. You get to write those.”
― Courtney Peppernell, Mending the Mind

“Some people spend years in counselling trying to cope with being fucked up. I just move on. The fucked-upness always goes. The conventional wisdom is that you're running away, you should learn to cope with being fucked-up. I don't hold with that. Life is a dynamic rather than a static process, and when we don't change it kills us. It's not running away, it's moving on.”
― Irvine Welsh, Glue

“You just don`t know that it is the last time . But I think that`s a good thing , really , because if you did know it would be almost impossible to let go .”
― Lauren Oliver, Before I Fall

“Sadness and pain are not the hardest parts about losing someone you love. Saying goodbye is the hardest part. Saying goodbye means you must let go of them and the memories you shared if you want to move on without them. That's what makes it the hardest, most frightening part.”
― Imania Margria, The Pacemaker

“If they left you in bad times, keep them away in good times.”
― Mitta Xinindlu

“Momma used to say, you got to know when to move. More important than knowing when to stay put.”
― Joyce Carol Oates, Man Crazy

“Every one has their own journey and although some people's way makes no sense to you, it simply doesn't matter.
In these situations, the most loving thing you can do is allow them to follow their chosen paths.
Give yourself permission to let go, move on and do what’s best for you.
Give freedom to yourself and others.”
― Mimi Novic, The Silence Between the Sighs

“i wonder where you are right now
what are you doing?
what are you thinking about?

is it me
and what we used to be?
or is it someone else again?

do i ever cross your mind?
do you think about me now when i'm not there?
did you think about me when i was?

i wonder what we could have been
would there have been evenings by the fireplace
as you read to me?

or the candle light dinners on our balcony
because it was your last minute surprise?

would there have been long walks in central park on valentine's day evening?
or just any other night you wanted an excuse to hold my hand?

would there have been movie nights
after cancelling on that boring party we planned?

would there still have been a me and you
if i hadn't made you feel blue?

did i burn the bridge we found home at?
was i really such a brat?

then i'm sorry, i always say
but you didn't hear it as you walked away”
― Renesmee Stormer

“I am the only person who can set me free from what might have been.”
― Willie Nelson, The Tao of Willie: A Guide to the Happiness in Your Heart

“For the last year and a half this room had been my 'pensive citadel:' here I had read and studied through all the hours of the night: and, though true it was, that for the latter part of this time I, who was framed for love and gentle affections, had lost my gaiety and happiness, during the strife and fever of contention with my guardian; yet, on the other hand, as a boy, so passionately fond of books, and dedicated to intellectual pursuits, I could not fail to have enjoyed many happy hours in the midst of general dejection. I wept as I looked round on the chair, hearth, writing-table, and other familiar objects, knowing too certainly, that I looked upon them for the last time.”
― Thomas de Quincey, Confessions of an English Opium Eater

“Gosh,
I did it so well.

I didn't give up.
I saved myself.

It was not easy,
Not at all but,
I did it so well.”
― Jyoti Patel, The Forest of Feelings

“the moon will fade
the sun will rise
and you will learn
to let him go”
― R.H. Sin

“There is no moving on, just moving with.”
― Karl Kristian Flores, Can I Tell You Something?

“Just because I moved on doesn’t mean that I’m not thinking of you. Perhaps there is something about it for me.”
― Anoir Ou-Chad

“Sometimes, you have to look back and remember who you were, before someone told you who you should be.”
― James Hilton ( Cowboy)

“I just gritted my teeth, took out a needle, and worked him out of my heart like a splinter.”
― Mohsin Hamid, Moth Smoke

“You lift your spirits by moving away from what upsets you. If the stove is hot, you can't ask how to touch it but be happy about it.”
― Queen Tourmaline

“Ever since I can remember I have loved climbing trees. Getting higher and higher, pushing the limits of what was 'safe' or 'smart'. The hardest part was never getting up there, I could always find a way. The difficult part, the challenging part, was getting down. Not just returning to earth foot by foot, inch by inch, but the actual act of hanging above the ground and letting go. I've always had a problem with it, always second guessed that I was going to come down wrong. I always hang for a moment longer than I need to before I remember that sometimes you just have to let go and hope for the best”
― Peter F. DiSilvio

“Oppression only lasts for a season. Change the way you fight and the way you think so that you are able to break free and walk out of the situation. Correct it and get it right. Do what it takes to win.”
― Germany Kent

“It's ironic but you saved me by your leaving.”
― Nichomachus, Playing with Fire

“You cannot begin the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last one.”
― Sophia L Skaalerud

“Appreciate the lovers rather than acknowledging the haters.”
― Sophia L Skaalerud

“With each failed relationship, heartache and betrayal, we are presented with an opportunity to either craft or refine our mate selection process.”
― Kevin Darné, Pump Your Brakes! How To Stop Having Bad First Dates

“It’s terrible how soon routine turns into memories.”
― Misbah Khan, Blanks & Blues

“Living life as a young adult is hard because we are just learning how things are. Getting into a relationship is hard and not easy. A guy shouldn't act like a child. A guy needs to give his attention to his girl other than playing xbox or playstation. A guy should treat his girl with love and treat her like a queen. A guy should be honest, caring, funny, and sweet. A guy should call you everyday, making sure you are alright or even texts you. A guy should never leave you on read. A guy needs to see everyday that he has someone so special in his life that could love, care, and have someone to life with. If a guy doesn't care about you and treats you like crap, then he is just a child. At the end he loses you and sees you go off with another guy who would treat you more better. Thinking to himself, what did he just do or what he lost...”
― Rosilla Rose

“So what you're not where you wanna be. At least you're not where you used to be.”
― Sophia L Skaalerud

“Life has to go on even when you don't want it to or when you feel unable to participate. The world doesn't stop turning for anyone.”
― Stewart Stafford

“You can never go back the way you came.”
― Jacqueline Simon Gunn, Before the Footprints Fade

“What is it I am afraid of letting go, my secret self less but self absorbed habits? Or maybe the question is - What am I afraid of learning - to become a more enlightened human being?”
― Helen Edwards, Nothing Sexier Than Freedom

“Leave the cave of darkness, move into God's light, and begin blessed birth!”
― Joseph S. Spence Sr.