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We all know GR has had it’s share of drama. We’re battle-scarred & throw up our hands saying “we just want to read books�.
So, I, too, got the message from the troll "Kay". But, unlike some, I believe what she posted is true. And IF any of it’s true, it isn’t just drama. It is HUGELY problematic, potentially illegal, and has the power to really hurt people.
Please, just think through a few of these things:
— Mar 05, 2018 01:57PM
So, I, too, got the message from the troll "Kay". But, unlike some, I believe what she posted is true. And IF any of it’s true, it isn’t just drama. It is HUGELY problematic, potentially illegal, and has the power to really hurt people.
Please, just think through a few of these things:
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I'm a shaking, crying mess! Thank you so much for that. For helping prove my innocence. You ladies are relentless!

I'm willing to withhold judgement against Avon Gale and Roan Parrish. Yes, they were in pictures with "Santino," but I'm not s..."
Your information on these authors is much appreciated. I've been trying to piece together who's who and outside of ME I wasn't 100% sure.
Many sided with him. But I wondered who conspired with him (them). Whatever. The pronouns are killing me.

kelgar01 wrote: "Megan Derr's FB
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We just need to make sure we don't confuse Megan Erickson who is SH's co-author, with Megan Derr, who herself was targeted. Just a small observation. I'd hate to see the wrong author getting caught up in all of this!



If they want to be a pillar in the LGBTQ community & advocate for queer-positive representation then they need to make a greater effort at safeguarding the community. Making snap decisions about bloggers without adequate information & blacklisting people for asking questions isn't professional behavior. At least in my opinion it isn't.
As far as Shams attempting to move into MF, unless they're counting on people forgetting all of this & continuing to leverage the Hassell "brand" then they're going to have to start over w/a new name & the MF pond is more of an ocean with a whole lot of fish, really big fish.

You can just call me Derr if that's easier, or Maderr. Santino hasn't actually done anything to me personally, I've never really had anything to do with them, we occupy different spaces in MM. And I don't want to get involved too much because I know I occupy a precarious place being both an author and publisher.
But I don't think what he did was right, and I posted so the individuals who were hurt would know there were people out there listening and willing to defend them. I know what it's like to feel you're all alone against what seems like the world.

Same here Jax. Also didn't like HelenKay's tweet from earlier today. I have her ARC up next.
I'm sad for all the great authors that I feel we're losing. But angry that it came to this.
Who is the person that's done all this? I haven't heard of this scandal until just now. I want to put them on my blacklist so I never buy any of their books.

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I may have to try a new to me author � Bought an audiobook
The High King's Golden Tongue

Same here Jax. Also didn't like HelenKay..."
I do as well. I have a whole bunch of authors now to look at a lot more closely...

Thank you Susan, for posting this thread and thanks to all the people who didn't let the harassing/hate/evil stop you from exposing this mess.

Same here Jax. Also didn't ..."
On a good note, I spent a lot of $$ today on some authors who I chose to spend my money on and added a bunch to my to-read list.
Between all of us on the thread, we have tens of thousands of followers. I have ~4,000 friends and followers just myself on ŷ alone. I'd LOVE to spend my time reading and promoting and blogging about awesome authors. There are great ones here who deserve the recognition, and we, as readers, have the power.

As a reader, I don't care about Santino's personal life. As a human, I'm appallled by the crass, vile things "he" has done and encourged to have done.
Someone doesn't give your book a 5 star review? Tough shit! People have different opinions. That doesn't give you the right to sic your posse on them and harrass them to the point of abandoning social media/suicide for Christ's sake! Grow up!

I also want to say thanks to everyone who has spoken up. I truly feared that SH would never be held accountable for what "he" did to my friend and so many others.
SH and their so called friends make me sick. They are bullies of the worst kind.

Goes by the penname Santino Hassell.

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I may have to try a new to me author �"
Same! What a beautiful post.

It's like she didn't take time to research or read any of the stories. So disappointed and I was so excited to read her Bad Behavior series.

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I may have to try a new to me author � Bought an audiobook
[book:The High King's Golden To..."
I sincerely hope you love this one as much as I did, it's an awesome series. Enjoy.
Fabi wrote: "Tenae wrote: "Who is the person that's done all this? I haven't heard of this scandal until just now. I want to put them on my blacklist so I never buy any of their books."
Goes by the penname San..."
Thanks! I blacklisted all of their books. There's no way in hell I'm giving pure scum my money.
Goes by the penname San..."
Thanks! I blacklisted all of their books. There's no way in hell I'm giving pure scum my money.

It's like she didn't take time to research or read any of the stories. So disappointed and I was so ..."
I'd like to hear her current opinion. That post is from Jan 28. A lot has come to light since then.




I have since realized that by not showing my support, not speaking up, I was victimizing not only you all, but myself.
FUCK. THAT.
That's not who I am. All of you, every one of you, whether you had personal stakes in this or not, are amazing for showing such courage. I am in awe of you.
And for everyone going to GRL this year, I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU! �

💘 💘 💘 💘

OMG! ALISSA!!!!!! I am in TEARS! I can't believe it's YOU! I...no really...I am crying! I am SO HAPPY to see you here. I'm so sorry the circumstances that forced you into hiding and those same circumstances that have brought you out. But, I am NOT sorry that you're here. I wish you were close enough to hug. (maybe I need the hug more than you do! :))
GIRL, just...you know...you know...I will do anything to make sure he doesn't hurt you again. So stay, ok? Don't go anywhere.

Aw, Susan, I am in tears reading this, because I know how much it will mean to her. Thank you, my friend. GRL can't get here soon enough!

Look at the pic and read the article.

Going to bed at midnight reading this whole thread. Twitter is not really my playground so all of this ... speechless. More than anything it provokes sadness.


I'm also a bit misty over seeing friendships mended. This is an ugly mess that's going to have a very happy ending. Well done to all of you!

I would like to say though (and this may absolutely not be the case with any of SH's co-authors) that it's possible to write a book with someone without knowing anything about them apart from what they put on social media. I've co-written with three different authors now, and only met them in person afterward. Luckily none of us were lying about who were were. Because fuck... who's got the energy to keep all those lies straight?
I'm really sorry for anyone who has been hurt by this, and I have no words to express how disgusting it is that people will fake cancer to solicit donations or boost sales.

I would like to say though (and this may absolutely not be the case with any of SH's co-authors) that it's..."
I appreciate what you are saying, Lisa. Unfortunately SH's co-writers are a different breed than yours. They do a lot of SH's dirty work for "him" and are just as guilty of bullying, ostracizing and overall nastiness as "he" is.

That does seem to be the case here, the more I read. I just wanted to put it out that writing a book together doesn't necessarily mean you've even met the other person IRL.
I'm a smallish fish in this smallish pond, and I've often found myself side-eyeing the "popular kids" a little bit. There does seem to be a real cult of personality with some authors in the community--something that I don't buy into because I'm a total introvert--and funnily enough it always seems to be those popular kids that are exposed for lying.

That does seem to be the case here, the more I read. I just wanted to put it out that writing a book together doesn't necessarily mean you've ev..."
I � you, Lisa! You'll always be a big fish in my pond.


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Hudnell? Oh, that makes me laugh!

Anyways, Kate Pavelle, whoever you are, you're CANCELLED:
From FB:
"Publishers are bound by contracts. If a publisher breaks a ..."
Susan, Kate Parvelle did respond to my post. I can't do pics on GR either. LOL
From FB:
"An hour of catching up... dang. I hate to be wrong in this case."

Saturday’s event attracted residents from across the tri-state area, including Alicia and Mavin Hassell, both 26, of Staten Island. They had been looking to add a kitten to their home for at least a month and finally settled on “Pittiebull,� who is 2 1/2 months old."
Of course that includes a pic of 'Santino' and his famous cat.

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T.W. commented. Interesting, because it was alleged that T.W. harassed people:

Saturday’s event attracted residents from across the tri-state area, including Alicia and Mavin Hassell, both 26, of Staten Island. They had been looking to add a k..."
Oh! I completely missed that - I thought he was using "Earl Hudnell" as yet another name
Great find btw

The nasty birds were talking about an article on the internet somewhere, so a Google search was easy after that. (I'm definitely not taking credit for that. It's brilliant they found it)

The nasty birds were talking about an article on the internet somewhere, so a Google search was easy after..."
And still, with all these evidence that is piling up by the minute, ppl are sending them hugs, supporting them and throwing blames at the victims.
I never did get this “cult-following� behavior, I’m running away like I’m on fire whenever I stumble upon such groups.
Have some back bone & character people!,