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Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America
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I have experience working with and researching programs that aid the poor and working poor. I hated this book. The only role it could play is as a weak talking piece for starting up serious discussion about the struggles and needs of the poor.
Barbara Ehrenreich may have stepped outside her comfort zone and into the world of the working poor, but she did it with an educated background, with money "just in case", with a pompous attitude, and with the requirement of a car at all times.
She also did it without many barriers that are very real to the working poor:
-a child or children
-childcare costs
-low IQ or other learning disabilities
-an alcohol or drug addiction
-an abusive partner
-lack of transportation
-English as a second language
-bad credit
-felony convictions
-health disparities
-no high school diploma or GED
-experience as an orphan or in the foster care system
-homelessness
-no positive support system (like her husband and editor)
-depression, PTSD, schizophremia or other mental illness
-lack of drive or self-worth, hopelessness
-angst for "the system"
-lack of basic computer skills
-lack of interpersonal skills
-lack of personal hygiene or simple lack of clean clothing
I live in Minneapolis, where she lived when the experiment ended. In the book she says she was struggling to find housing, but she was postive that she would find it. Fantastic! I hope the housing she would of found had heat paid, because heating costs will break even a middle-class budget when the weather drops well below zero.
I have experience working with and researching programs that aid the poor and working poor. I hated this book. The only role it could play is as a weak talking piece for starting up serious discussion about the struggles and needs of the poor.
Barbara Ehrenreich may have stepped outside her comfort zone and into the world of the working poor, but she did it with an educated background, with money "just in case", with a pompous attitude, and with the requirement of a car at all times.
She also did it without many barriers that are very real to the working poor:
-a child or children
-childcare costs
-low IQ or other learning disabilities
-an alcohol or drug addiction
-an abusive partner
-lack of transportation
-English as a second language
-bad credit
-felony convictions
-health disparities
-no high school diploma or GED
-experience as an orphan or in the foster care system
-homelessness
-no positive support system (like her husband and editor)
-depression, PTSD, schizophremia or other mental illness
-lack of drive or self-worth, hopelessness
-angst for "the system"
-lack of basic computer skills
-lack of interpersonal skills
-lack of personal hygiene or simple lack of clean clothing
I live in Minneapolis, where she lived when the experiment ended. In the book she says she was struggling to find housing, but she was postive that she would find it. Fantastic! I hope the housing she would of found had heat paid, because heating costs will break even a middle-class budget when the weather drops well below zero.
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Now if she took on a kid, ditched her car and erased her past, maybe that would be better!

on top of the fact that it came off as a poorly fetished attempt at realism





Bravo! I hope many people read your review, whether they hated the book or loved it.

If she had pretended to have one or more of the following conditions:
-a child or children
-childcare costs
-low IQ or other learning disabilities
-an alcohol or drug addiction
-an abusive partner
-lack of transportation
-English as a second language
-bad credit
-felony convictions
-health disparities
-no high school diploma or GED
-experience as an orphan or in the foster care system
-homelessness
-no positive support system (like her husband and editor)
-depression, PTSD, schizophremia or other mental illness
-lack of drive or self-worth, hopelessness
-angst for "the system"
-lack of basic computer skills
-lack of interpersonal skills
-lack of personal hygiene or simple lack of clean clothing
No one would have read the book. Clearly the premise was a bit contrived, however I thought the point was to engender some sympathy in the general public and to refute the premise that one can support themselves let alone a family on a minimum wage job.

And I suppose we should all face the fact that this book is pop-memoir, and we should look at it in that way. However, there are many facets to this discussion, and I was happy to see that others thought some of the same things I did while reading the book. It is a great book to introduce some of the most pertinent issues en masse, but it is not, even in the least, the end of the discussion on minimum wage in America.

One thing I think that would really help me is if individuals such as yourself, Missy and others who know much more than I on this topic would recommend additional reading.
I bought this paperback at an airport, I'm a middle aged, overfed business man whose first hand experience with poverty is now 30 years old.

" I make no claims for the relevance of my experience to anyone else's, because there is nothing typical about my story. Bear in mind, when I stumble, that this is in fact the BEST-case scenario: a person with every advantage that ethnicity and education, health and motivation can confer attempting, in a time of exuberant prosperity, to survive in the economy's lower depths".
Soo... I'm just wondering how you came to your conclusion when she is very clear on what you wrote up there.
Also, I studied poverty throughout my entire graduate school experience, not that that makes me any more able to read a book or enjoy it, but if someone wants other books to read:
"The Working Poor" by David Shipler or "Shock Doctrine" by Naomi Klein are good.

The review here seems somewhat misguided. The book is trying to bring a spotlight to certain social issues, which clearly the reviewer also believes need more attention. It's not at all clear what the problem is.




I don't see this book as even trying to be any kind of an exhaustive look at all the difficulties facing those truly living in poverty and attempting to get by.
What I do see it as is an attempt to prove to middle-income Americans that even with all the benefits she has, even she cannot make it work under the current system, and thus neither would they.
I studied poverty and social/welfare systems in university also, although I found this book much later, and I want to tell you that I have heard people actually using the following arguments to support their views of the theory:
"Oh, well, she would be able to make it work if she didn't have out of wedlock children / wasn't a teen mom" (-a child or children, -childcare costs)
"Oh, well, he would be able to make it work if he controlled his addiction" (-an alcohol or drug addiction )
"Oh, well, she would be able to make it work if she took charge of her life and got out of that relationship" (-an abusive partner)
"Oh, well, he would be able to make it work if he just took public transportation." (-lack of transportation)
"Well, she would be able to make it work if she just learned English" (-English as a second language)
"Well, it wouldn't be a problem, if he hadn't screwed up in the first place..." (-bad credit, -felony convictions, -homelessness etc.)
"Oh, well, she would be able to make it work if she just got her GED / took classes." (-no high school diploma or GED, -lack of basic computer skills)
and so on, ad nauseum.
I think her book is very cogent if you read it for what it is - a lesson to all those smug folks out there who think that it is somehow the fault of the person living in poverty because they are not doing/whatever ENOUGH.
Those attitudes are out there, all around us, and this book is a tiny way of showing them that those in this situation can never manage to do enough to 'bootstrap' their way out of it under the current system.

"I think her book is very cogent if you read it for what it is - a lesson to all those smug folks out there who think that it is somehow the fault of the person living in poverty because they are not doing/whatever ENOUGH."
I wish I could take that from this book but I can't. To me this book actually highlights the difference between the two lifestyles, and says to me that there’s a reason people are in the positions they are in life � it’s all about decisions.
If you have a child without the ability to pay for it, that's kind of a "You made a HUGE mistake" thing. Ya know, it sucks that one mistake can relegate you to poverty forever buuuuut...yeah, it can. No, really, it can ruin your life, for your whole life, so maybe you shouldn't have sex until you're married. Or you should use protection when you do. Or you should get an abortion after you didn't do the first two things I suggested.
Same goes for not getting a GED, for committing a felony, for moving to a country you don't speak the language of, etc. Life's all about YOU and if YOU make mistakes, YOU will pay for them with a hard, painful life. So, walk the line buddy, or else!

So, you can do everything 'right' and STILL live in poverty - that is the point for all those smug people out there.

I also seem to recall she was ok with smoking (normal cigs.) Hmm, how much money is that per year? At $8 a pack, a pack a day is almost $3k per year. If you saved all that for one year, could you afford first/last on an actual home?
Aren't you the one who has missed the point - that being poor requires more work, dilligence, and good living than being rich?
Sorry, I'm one of those people (not sure I'm smug but I may be) who thinks that poverty is a personal problem, not a public one.

I will agree that she does have a very condescending tone throughout the novel, but let's face it that is just the way she is. Above Leo brought up a good point. For her this is an experiment. She states many times over that she is trying to remain emotionally detached.
Her goal was to inform the upper middle class of the plight of the poor. There are a lot of things that she could have done to be more like the poor, but that wasn't her goal. She demonstrated that even with everything going for her she couldn't match income to bills. We are then left to ponder, "hmmm if she can't do this how can someone with kids or even a drug addiction survive?"

We are then left to ponder, "hmmm if she can't do this how can someone with kids or even a drug addiction survive?
No, YOU are left to ponder that. I'm left remembering how my parents did this and how lots and lots of other people not only survived but thrived.
I guess what irritates me about your post, Jack, is that you seem to feel sorry for the poor. Pity, to me, is such an UGLY emotion when it's used on groups as large and multi-faceted as "the poor." Some deserve it, some don't, but most are happy and that's the hallmark of a good life.
It's ok to be poor.

That aside you bring an interesting point. However while many people are content where they are in life, there are those who would not rather be in such a position.
A few years ago my mother was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She didn't have any insurance and as you can imagine the costs of all the tests, surgeries, and chemo added up. She is a single-mother and my father could care less about us, so we ended up in debt. I was only in 8th grade at the time and I had to get a job to help pay the bills. We lost everything, and every time it seemed like we were getting ahead something came up to set us back further. We were stuck. Is this saying that I was not happy? Not at all. I have very fond memories sneaking onto the farmers' land and camping out with the family, or staying up all night playing poker using whatever change was in my pocket. I was just as, if not more, happy as all the 'rich' kids in school who got to go to Mexico on their breaks. The only thing that really ever got to me was that these kids could have it all for doing nothing, while I worked until my hands bled and got nothing. And every month my mom sat in the living room, we lived with my grandparents, and cried as the bills rolled in. You do not know the grief I felt in feeling so incapable to help her.
What Ehrenreich was trying to show is that even those who work hard, often still get no where. Something needs to be done to help those who work and work and work only to come up with nothing when they are finished. Does this mean their lives all suck? Again, not at all. But don't you think that the people who work hard deserve some kind of break?



I stand by what I said - it was a mistake and a bad choice. Not the worst thing in the world, but mistakes have a range of impacts and hers was relatively small.

My problem is that it invalidates the premise upon which the book is loosely based. It's akin to saying "I'm not going to do this all the way, because everybody knows how hard it is to be poor..." Well, umm, no. Actually, we don't, thus the reading of a book about the experience which she failed to provide. It's typical echo-chamber mentality where the conclusion are derived before serious inquiry begins.
Of course she could have made ends meet with the jobs she earned (you aren't given a job. I think your language betrays your outlook on society.) She could have slept just about anywhere, for free. She could have stayed with friends. She could have done the shelters or churches. She could have leached onto some sketchy guy because he had a car and he'd reduce the cost of living.
Not all jobs are supposed to pay a wage which gets you a room and a toilet. If you want that, and I mean this in all seriousness, GO TO JAIL. That's where doing a job is guaranteed to get you enough income to live on, because living there is free*.
Life isn't about moving out of mommy and daddy's house quick as you can because you fight a lot - it's about survival. All this book does is give comfort to those who think that life in society means always being cared for, and comfort to people who think that jobs are "given".
Jesus ... I'm gonna be pissed about that for a while now ... "given" a job ... the fuck you say?!
*Not all jails are free, some charge room and board.

That's easy to say, but there are plenty of situations that won't cover. Consider the young mother whose husband dies in service to his country, or contracts an expensive illness and burns through the family's money. She made the "right" choice, but she's still left raising a child by herself with no resources. It's bad enough that one mistake can lead to a lifetime of poverty with little hope of recovery, but it's even worse that one can wind up there through no fault of her own.



There's problem number 1. You're blaming "work" for your own problems. Doctors offices have hours outside of work hours. Further, if you had been terminated for being sick that would be grounds for a wrongful termination suit.
and now a B.A. in two different majors I'm sorry ... you're poor and you're getting Bachelors of ARTS?!?! And you volunteer this information in an effort to help convince people that you're not stupid? WOW! You wouldn't be poor if you had gotten two B.S's. Just saying ...
I have tons of computer skills And still can't parlay that into tons of income? Probably because you're either overestimating your computer skills, or you have two B.A.'s so no one believes you when you say how smart you are with computers.
People like you piss ME off so, right back at ya hun. You get all sanctimonious and think so highly of yourself but the proof's in the pudding - you are exactly where you have put yourself and it's your own damn fault.

I was poor (well still poor but better now) I just got my degree. I had to take out tons of loans. I didn't want a B.S. because that is not where my interest are. I got the degrees I wanted and that are required for the career I have a calling for.
In case you missed the memo but people can have skills but no degree and still not have a good paying job, because employees want a degree. Also underemployment is still high. There are no jobs.
I was only pointing out that the working poor is just like every other class. It has more to do with dumb luck and support when you are a child. Ever hear of the saying, "Before the grace of god go I?"

You know I'm going to say it's your fault because you know it is - you hurt yourself at work. That means you're probably owed workman's comp. You let your fear of the unknown control you and instead of running the risk of getting fired and facing the possibility of homelessness, you basically let a company get away with abusing you when you could have sued them for the damage they did to you.
Shame on you!
As for the loans - see, this is what's wrong with America right now. You think it's ok to go into debt. You think that just because you "have a calling" for something it's ok to go into debt for it. Again, shame on you!
I never accepted that "before the grace of god go I" nonsense. In part because I don't believe in God, but also because I DO believe in me. I'm better than most and I'll put that to the test. I'll work harder than most. I'll sacrifice more than most. I'll get degrees in things that pay well even if I don't like them because that's what you do to make money. Then you save that money and you have luxury time later on.
But not you - your decadent self thinks all of society owes you. You go into debt without thinking about how "your calling" doesn't pay enough to pay off the loans you're taking out. Hey, I wanted to be an English major myself but at 18 I realized that I would rather be rich and not like what I did for a living than be happy and broke as hell. Now I make a lot of money and I have spare time to do what I love.
When you put yourself into a situation where nothing good can happen to you, and call it "bad luck" that's bull. Being poor isn't like every other class - it's mostly populated by people who just don't get it. Yall don't understand the basic principles of life: 1. Do what others will pay you for. 2. Work hard and sacrifice your spare time for more work. 3. Build a nest egg and insure yourself. 4. Don't go into debt! 5. Surround yourself with winners. etc.
It's like you want to be considered valid no matter what you do. As if life has no rules or best practices and going thousands of dollars into debt for useless B.A.'s is excusable, acceptable, and a good idea.
You lower the bar for us all. I don't mean to flame or harass, I just don't have much respect for people who can't see how they've made bad choices their whole life. And it's worse when they try to blame "luck" as if it was just impossible to see that what they were doing was stupid and would end poorly.


I think you missed the point of the entire book. We all know that people with those problems have a hard time getting by. If she had given herself all those disadvantages I could easily have brushed off the entire story by saying "well she wouldn't be poor if she wasn't an alcoholic with 3 kids". The point was that even a highly educated person with a car can't pull herself up if she starts out at the very bottom. You mistakenly interpreted that part as her being pretentious.






