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An Ideal Husband by Oscar Wilde
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This play belonging to the 1890s depicts the hypocritical aristocratic group of people from London. It in all perceptibility and plausibility delineates that the concept of “an ideal husband� is just a misnomer 😊It is just titular! Women end up idolizing their husbands, silhouetting them in an image which they never adhere to, turning out to be mere impostors! :P

The play divulges themes of public and private honor, social status, while using mediums of blackmailing and political-social corruption! The other two most important themes are marriage as an institution and the power of forgiveness in it. Why and who forgives is the question.

Robert Chiltern (the ideal husband), working as Under-Secretary of the Foreign Affairs office is enjoying a perfect marriage and social image. Is he or is he not? That’s the question 😊

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Spread across 4 acts, the following is a spoiler-free abridged synopsis-
The play opens with an alluring couple of significant wealth, stature, accomplishment, and respect among the elite in London, the Chilterns!
The alluring and sophisticated, Mrs. Cheveley’s arrival brings trouble for Robert. She is carrying a secret letter as evidence of his past perfidy with the government. In stipulation(for concealing his truth) she wants him to get the government into an agreement to a building plan for Argentina, which in turn will shower money on her!

Lady Chiltern, his wife, emanating out Greek beauty, advising him not to fall victim to the blackmailing, is informed by Mrs. Cheveley, that Robert once had sold a govt. the secret to a businessman for money and the same secret is revealed in the secret letter. Robert and his wife’s good friend, Lord Goring(another character), is in love with Robert’s sister, Mabel. Though finally, they are able to get back the letter, by plotting, Lady Chiltern can no longer consider her husband to be honest. Meanwhile, amidst all this confusion, Lady Cheveley ends up stealing the secret letter sent to Lord Goring by Lady Chiltern, considering it to be a love letter addressed to him. Irrespective of the husband’s lies, Lady Chiltern is forced to forgive him. But has she or not? To know more, read the play.
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The most remarkable feature of the play is, we cannot point fingers on one particular character for hypocrisy and double-standards, as most of the characters in the play conspire to bury Robert’s secret! Just to save his fake reputation.

I give 3.75 stars to this play on social satire with deep political undertones!


The 2 outstanding derivations for me-


1. It is sad to see the kind of wealth amassed by the smug political figures at the cost of the ignorant public. Irrespective of their hideous crimes, concealing them, they keep strutting through lives guileless and without any compunction. They have no moral scruples!
2. Must say it is not geography- specific, that women go onto idolising their male partners. Lady Chiltern took her husband as a paragon of morality and virtue, until she finally finds out that he is a part of a past scandalous secret! Will she still keep idolising him and forgive him? Well, many would have conjectured by now, but the plight is it was, has been and continue to be so

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Sharing few remarkable quotes in no particular order-
“Mine is the general rule, and nothing ages a woman so rapidly as having married the general rule. �
“I would to God that I had been able to tell the truth . . . to live the truth. Ah! that is the great thing in life, to live the truth.�
“Circumstances should never alter principles!�
“Ah! the strength of women comes from the fact that psychology cannot explain us. Men can be analyzed, women . . . merely adored.�
Lady Chiltern- “You can forget. Men easily forget. And I forgive. That is how women help the world. I see that now.�
“It is not the perfect, but the imperfect, who have need of love. It is when we are wounded by our own hands, or by the hands of others, that love should come to cure us ¬ else what use is love at all?�
� But women who have common sense are so curiously plain, father, aren't they? Of course, I only speak from hearsay.�

The 2 most remarkable superlatives in my purview are:-

“Women are not meant to judge us, but to forgive us when we need forgiveness. Pardon, not punishment, is their mission.�
“Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike.�
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NB- I wish all of us to contemplate, does money, status, social standing, and accomplishments bring along moral scruples and fidelity or further deteriorate them. Is it a factor to be considered or is it simply the breeding and grooming one receives, that decides one’s moral virtues?
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message 1: by Di yan (new)

Di yan Lovely review and valid question meghna.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Di yan wrote: "Lovely review and valid question meghna."

Thanks so much, Diyan! :)
Isn't it a legit topic to contemplate? :)


Anne Oh, man. Serendipity! This is next up for me to download so I'm glad you enjoyed it so much!


message 4: by Jennifer (new)

Jennifer Welsh Have you seen this performed yet, Meghna? I love how plays become so much more in performance, it might be fun to see a realization now that you’ve read it? Wilde has quite the bite, doesn’t he? I’ve seen rags to riches stories of all kinds, but having money does change things for a person - what do you think?


SoRoLi (Sonja) ♡  A very great and thought-provoking review, Meghna! 💕


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Anne wrote: "Oh, man. Serendipity! This is next up for me to download so I'm glad you enjoyed it so much!"

Thanks, Anne! I m pretty sure this social cum political satire will not disappoint you. Can't wait to read a fun-laden review on this from you! :)


Anne Thanks, lady! I've read/listened to it before but it's been years and years, I think.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Jennifer wrote: "Have you seen this performed yet, Meghna? I love how plays become so much more in performance, it might be fun to see a realization now that you’ve read it? Wilde has quite the bite, doesn’t he? I�..."

No, Jennifer, haven't seen it performed. I wonder about the expressions Lady Chiltern needs to portray in the play :)
I concur that a play becomes more powerful when performed fervently.
Actually, I assumed this one to be humorous like "The importance of being earnest", but it turned out to be more edifying than humorous :-D
Hands-down, money transforms people, endowing personalities non-comprehensible! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) ⊱Sonja•●❤️ wrote: "A very great and thought-provoking review, Meghna! 💕"

Heartiest thanks, dear Sonja! :) <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Anne wrote: "Thanks, lady! I've read/listened to it before but it's been years and years, I think."

I am sure a re-read will render a break to you from your mysterious world :P


message 11: by Lisa (new)

Lisa I'll echo Jennifer's comment. I love Wilde's ability to skewer, bring forth laughter, and royally entertain. And if you have the opportunity to see any of his work performed, take advantage of it.


message 12: by Catherine (new) - added it

Catherine (alternativelytitledbooks) - in a book slump :( Love Oscar Wilde, I had to add this after your enticing review, Meghna! ❤️


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Lisa wrote: "I'll echo Jennifer's comment. I love Wilde's ability to skewer, bring forth laughter, and royally entertain. And if you have the opportunity to see any of his work performed, take advantage of it."

Yes, not everyone can skewer and transition seamlessly while rendering light-heartedness. I shall not miss a chance if the play is performed anytime in the area I live! :) <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Catherine wrote: "Love Oscar Wilde, I had to add this after your enticing review, Meghna! ❤️"

Oh yes, be it The Picture Of Dorian Gray, The Importance of Being Earnest, or this one, Oscar Wilde had the craft to charm his audience while affirming important issues in the most light-hearted manner!
Thanks so much, Catherine! :) ❤️❤️❤️❤️


message 15: by Srivalli (new)

Srivalli Rekha Superb review, Meghna. Oscar Wilde's writing is quite entertaining. He know how to play with words and plots.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Srivalli wrote: "Superb review, Meghna. Oscar Wilde's writing is quite entertaining. He know how to play with words and plots."

Many thanks, Srivalli! Indeed he is a Wordsmith! <3


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Nora Currie Fantastic review, Meghna! I really enjoyed reading your open and honest opinions!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) GirlWithThePinkSkiMask wrote: "Incredible review Meghna 💖"

Thanks kindly, Pink! <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Nora wrote: "Fantastic review, Meghna! I really enjoyed reading your open and honest opinions!"

Thanks most heartily, Nora! <3 <3
Sending love <3


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Nora Currie Meghna wrote: "Nora wrote: "Fantastic review, Meghna! I really enjoyed reading your open and honest opinions!"

Thanks most heartily, Nora! <3 <3
Sending love <3"


You are very welcome, Meghna! <3 <3
Sending love in return <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Nora wrote: "Meghna wrote: "Nora wrote: "Fantastic review, Meghna! I really enjoyed reading your open and honest opinions!"

Thanks most heartily, Nora! <3 <3
Sending love

You are very welcome, Meghna! <3 <3
..."


Right back at you :) <3


message 22: by emma (new)

emma incredible! always love to read your thoughts into your reads <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) emma wrote: "incredible! always love to read your thoughts into your reads <3"

Many thanks, dear emma! :)


Miya (severe pain struggles, slower at the moment) Excellent review Meghna 💕


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Cara Fantastic review as always, lovely Meghna💖!!!!!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Miya (struggling with pain, keeping reviews short) wrote: "Excellent review Meghna 💕"

Thanks a lot, Miya! 💕💕💕💕


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Cara wrote: "Fantastic review as always, lovely Meghna💖!!!!!"

Many thanks, Cara! 💕💕💕💕


Rosh ~on extended semihiatus~ Oh wow! How did I miss out on this Oscar Wilde play! I loved his "Lady Windermere's Fan" and "the Importance of Being Earnest". Definitely adding this to my pile, thanks to your insightful review, Meghna! <3


message 29: by Ceecee (new)

Ceecee Fantastic review Meghna 💙


message 30: by Marquise (new)

Marquise Wonderful!I love Wilde.


message 31: by Ellie (new)

Ellie Spencer (catching up from hiatus) I haven't read a play in such a long time, I may need to try this one as it sounds so interesting! I am so glad that it was an enjoyable one for the most part Meghna! Wonderful review! 🧡


Margaret M - (having a challenging time and on GR as much as I can) You are reading some cracking stories Meghna and deliver the superb reviews to match. Another excellent one 💖


Marilyn (not getting notifications) What a diversion from the norm! Glad you enjoyed it! Wonderful review, Meghna!❤️


message 34: by Ron (new)

Ron You explain the play so well, Meghna! Gives me the desire to pick up a classic, and it's been so long since I read in the form of a play.


message 35: by Kimber (new)

Kimber Silver Outstanding review, Meghna! I love Oscar Wilde. I'm glad you enjoyed this one so much! :-)


message 36: by Deeksha (new)

Deeksha Bhardwaj Wonderful review, Meghna💖


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Rosh wrote: "Oh wow! How did I miss out on this Oscar Wilde play! I loved his "Lady Windermere's Fan" and "the Importance of Being Earnest". Definitely adding this to my pile, thanks to your insightful review, ..."

Thanks most kindly, Rosh! You will enjoy reading this play! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Ceecee wrote: "Fantastic review Meghna 💙"

Many thanks, Ceecee! :) <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Marquise wrote: "Wonderful!I love Wilde."

Thanks, dear Marquise! Wilde makes the readers go wild :-D
He is a master storyteller :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Ellie wrote: "I haven't read a play in such a long time, I may need to try this one as it sounds so interesting! I am so glad that it was an enjoyable one for the most part Meghna! Wonderful review! 🧡"

Thanks a lot, Ellie! Plays serve as a good break from the regular marathon reads :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Margaret M - semi hiatus wrote: "You are reading some cracking stories Meghna and deliver the superb reviews to match. Another excellent one 💖"

Many thanks, Margaret! Cracking is a word I should be using for your books-selection and reviews <3 :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Marilyn wrote: "What a diversion from the norm! Glad you enjoyed it! Wonderful review, Meghna!❤️"

Thanks infinitely, Marilyn! :) <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Ron wrote: "You explain the play so well, Meghna! Gives me the desire to pick up a classic, and it's been so long since I read in the form of a play."

Thanks most heartily, Ron! I am sure reading a play will be like the icing on the cake! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Kimber wrote: "Outstanding review, Meghna! I love Oscar Wilde. I'm glad you enjoyed this one so much! :-)"

Many thanks, Kimber! :) I too am ion love with Wilde's work! <3 <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Deeksha wrote: "Wonderful review, Meghna💖"

Many thanks, Deeksha! :) <3


message 46: by Han (new)

Han Another amazing review!


message 47: by Barbara (new)

Barbara Wonderfully written synopsis Meghna. You are amazing!!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Hanna wrote: "Another amazing review!"

Many thanks, Hanna! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Barbara wrote: "Wonderfully written synopsis Meghna. You are amazing!!"

Thanks most kindly, Barbara! :)


message 50: by Tina (new)

Tina Oh they are very hypocritical people! A thought provoking review indeed! 💗


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